There's a chance that the person you are hesitant to meet could become one of your closest friends. You'll never know unless you make that first move.

Bre has become my confidant and partner in motherhood, moving, and daily life even though we live in the two states that are not actually connected to the contiguous US. We started out as neighbors, the kind you borrow milk from and have over for tea. Then we separated and had to share life through the screen, but our connection only got deeper.  She lives with intention and deep faithfulness to the call God has given her and her family. I am thankful for the way our lives have been woven together. I am looking forward to what the future has in store.

Here's to stepping out, to saying yes, to being faithful, and to lasting friendship.

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

May today be measured in grace. May you take a deep breath and remember you are the best person for the job. May you take joy in the journey;  it's hard but also good. You don’t have to be just a mom, or just a businesswoman. You can be both at the same time. You will find a way. You can do an amazing job.

Today's DAY 14 of The Kindness Games and my shoutout goes to Tasha Kossler and the MommaLove ladies.

Tasha's eye for beauty and balance makes makes better graphic designer. She sees what I can't, and is always willing to help.

She carries a weight that many could not through the loss she’s experienced but she does so with grace and joy. She celebrates life. She loves unconditionally. She speaks the truth with love. She encourages.

We’ve journeyed together through many seasons and somehow our “this is crazy,” always aligns.

Sending all my love to the mommas. May you get a few moments alone in the car today!

#TheKindnessGames #leadwithkindness #mom #businesswoman

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

No matter the road we've traveled with our fathers the destination is ours to choose. Will we choose kindness? Father's Day can fill us with a myriad of feelings, memories, and emotions. Our Dad’s and those to fill the role in our lives make an impact on each of us.

My dad and I have been on a journey full of highs and lows. I continue in the "developmental lab" of leaning in and learning how to respond to our unique relationship. If there is one thing that I can always count on from my dad it is a word of encouragement and a kind smile… you know those kinds that you can feel through the phone speaker.

My Kindness Games DAY 14 and Father's Day shoutout goes to my dad and my brother. They are grandfathers, sons, brothers and friends. They are men who have sustained. They are courageous and curious.

Through their resilience I have waded through deep wells full of love and forgiveness. I have traveled the journey back to joy even when I thought it was too broken to mend. They have taught me that nothing is impossible, and life is worth fighting for.

Happy Father’s Day to all the men who are, will be, have been, have filled in, mentor, lead, and love as Fathers. I celebrate and honor you.

#thekindnessgames #fathersday #leadwithkindness.

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

Have you read The Go-Giver by Bob Burg and John David Mann?

I read it every time I need to re-calibrate myself to the foundations of stratospheric success... to give.

My Kindness Game DAY 13 shoutout goes to Bob Burg.

First through his book, and then through our interactions on LinkedIn, Bob speaks life and truth into my heart time and time again.

We never know the weight that our words carry, and Bob shows up with words that change lives.

He lives out the laws of Stratospheric Success:

The Law of Value:

“Your true worth is determined by how much more you give in value than you take in payment.”

The Law of Compensation:

“Your income is determined by how many people you serve and how well you serve them.”

The Law of Influence:

“Your influence is determined by how abundantly you place other people's interest first.”

The Law of Authenticity:

“The most valuable gift you have to offer is yourself.”

The Law of Receptivity:

“The key to effective giving is to stay open to receiving.”

Stratospheric Success begins with kind intentions and solid perspectives. I am thankful for you Bob!

Happy Aloha Saturday.

#thekindnessgames #thegogiver #bobburg

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

My Aloha Friday and DAY 12 of The Kindness Games shoutout goes to Anna Stone.

She leads with words of wisdom and grace in highly stressful situations.

She teaches me about the value of good research and even better relationship building. She leads with kindness in ways that make people want to follow. Her experience building and sustaining nonprofit organizations has impacted countless lives throughout the Hawaiian islands and around the world.

I am thankful for the ways our paths crossed as we journeyed to China together almost 20 years ago and now that we get to journey together again in new seasons of life.

Happy Aloha Friday!

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

Candor is kind. Cindy has the ability to make a difference through her whit and candor. She is my DAY 11 shoutout for The Kindness Games. She is grace for the sake of His glory, and grit for the sake of growth.

We met because we wanted to do something with our words and we've grown a deep friendship because we make each other better.  She gives me words to get through life time and time again.

She makes me a better writer because details matter, especially the ones that should be left out. She's kind and honest and that is a gift we all need.

#thekindnessgames

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

She’s my safe person when I’m not a safe person. (Side note : If you're a women living cyclically then it’s likely there are certain times each month you are not a safe person and it’s okay. You are normal. The quicker we can embrace this reality the quicker we can give and receive grace in that space. Find your person to share that space with.)

Now back to day 10 of my journey in The Kindness Games.

Laura Hunter and I met on a trolly headed to Waikiki our freshman year at UH Manoa and we’ve been journeying side by side ever since. She was an entrepreneur before I even knew what that meant. She is a trailblazer in the world of women owned wine companies in the PNW. Her passion for spreadsheets has guided me through  slowly delving into the details.

Her friendship sustains me. Her voice fills my heart with joy. She’s the person I try to call when I get a free moment in the car. If you are a mom you know how sacred those moments are.Her resilience and tenacity inspire me. Her steady sails lead the way to uncharted adventure. I am who I am because she is who she is. We are constantly changing together, and I am deeply thankful for that.

#thekindnessgames

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

Kindness matters and Keli’i lives it.

He is a cherished friend and colleague. One does not leave any conversation with him the same as they entered. His words carry weight, wisdom, and intention. I’m thankful for his leadership and ingenuity in my life. He puts people first, and leads his family and community with integrity.

My DAY 9 of The Kindness Games shoutout goes to Keli’i Yamashita! Let’s keep spreading aloha together. 🤙🏽

#thekindnessgames

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

In the days when Clubhouse was full of serendipitous moments to meet lifelong friends she took a chance on trusting a stranger.

My Kindness Games DAY 8 shoutout goes to Meg Glessner. We first met through the sound of each other's voice in various clubhouse rooms about podcasting, parenting, or women in business. She welcomed a newbie to the world she was well acquainted with.

Through her leadership relationships opened up to me and a chance to host rooms through Christian Podcast Connect. I have met a group of people who are changing the world by sharing their stories. They are helping others day after day. They are uplifting individuals around the world as they host vital conversations, lay foundations for building legacies, and make space for healing.

Meg has been a mentor  to me as she builds communities, thrives as a mother and grandmother, and continues to reimagine the possibilities of her resounding yes. 

https://lettersfromhomepodcast.com/

#thekindnessgames

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

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Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/

Do you remember who taught you to shake hands properly?

Jason Payment was that person for me.

The seemingly little things last a long time when done with kindness. Leadership begins with loving people and Jason was the kind of leader that lead and loved in big and small ways. The small ways most often made the greatest impact.

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Kindness Matters:  What does Kindness mean to you? Research has confirmed that acts of kindness can reduce the symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression; all while increasing your self-esteem, energy, overall health, and optimism.

Global Community: We have a global presence, TKG participants simply want to extend the boundaries of kindness and giving to new frontiers.

Spread The Message: We want individuals to embrace the power of positivity and bring their authentic selves to TKG. Spreading kindness doesn’t only mean partaking in the 30-day challenge. What will you do to spread the message of kindness and bring it back to daily life?  

https://thekindnessgames.com/

__________________

Sabeth Kapahu is an entrepreneur with a passion for encouraging people. She is a versatile coach, fluid social media strategist, and community initiative developer. She is a wife, mom of four, and friend to many.

Invited Back LLC is designed to inspire and empower leaders to achieve their goals through coaching, social media strategy, and community connection. Let's reimagine, reinvent, and re invite others into your passionate purpose together.

https://reimaginereinvite.com/