IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse

Welcome to a new side series called, 'Asking For It'. Here I will be telling stories of violence against women outside of the category of domestic abuse.

Today's episode is about Katie Piper who was viciously attacked by a man she was dating for only two weeks... but more horror was around the corner.

Sources:

'Beautiful' by Katie Piper (Purchase here: https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100872371-13261435?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.barnesandnoble.com%2Fw%2Fbeautiful-katie-piper%2F1102807994%3Fean%3D9781446406076&cjsku=9781446406076 )

Links:

Social media: @mandgoggs @ipvandmepodcast

Email: [email protected]

gofundme for Anthony o' Carroll : https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-anthony-his-parents-on-his-road-to-recovery?utm_source=copy_link&utm_medium=customer&utm_campaign=impact_sharesheet&attribution_id=sl:5137e955-76b2-4437-9614-fa0740a8b100

In December 2020, singer FKA Twigs filed a lawsuit against her ex-partner actor Shia LaBeouf accusing him of sexual battery, assault and infliction of emotional stress during their relationship. He responded by saying he had been abusive to himself and those around him for years, and that he was ashamed and sorry to those he had hurt. He later denied all allegations. The court date has been set for October 2024.

Help and Information:

[email protected], social media @mandgoggs thehotline.org

Sources:

Court Documents: chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://int.nyt.com/data/documenttools/lawsuit-fka-twigs-shia-la-beouf/35d97cbb8df917bf/full.pdf

Mel B, otherwise known as Scary Spice, one-fifth of the bestselling girl group of all time, The Spice Girls. After a public humiliation by comedian and father of her child, Eddie Murphy, Mel found herself in a vulnerable position. Until along came a suave man called Stephen who would change her life forever...

Sources:

'Brutally Honest' by Melanie B:

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/brutally-honest-melanie-brown/1129066039?ean=9781787133525

https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/mel-bs-daughter-describes-mothers-abusive-relationship-ex-husband-stephen-belafonte-hear-fighting/

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10469233/Mel-Bs-daughter-Phoenix-22-relives-harrowing-moment-saw-mother-endure-domestic-abuse.html

https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/mel-bs-daughter-describes-mothers-abusive-relationship-ex-husband-stephen-belafonte-hear-fighting/

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10469233/Mel-Bs-daughter-Phoenix-22-relives-harrowing-moment-saw-mother-endure-domestic-abuse.html

Reach Out:

[email protected] Social Media: @mandgoggs

Help: thehotline.org

Mel B, otherwise known as Scary Spice, one-fifth of the bestselling girl group of all time, The Spice Girls. After a public humiliation by comedian and father of her child, Eddie Murphy, Mel found herself in a vulnerable position. Until along came a suave man called Stephen who would change her life forever...

(Apologies for the sound on this one guys! It's a little low. )

Sources:

'Brutally Honest' by Melanie B:

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/brutally-honest-melanie-brown/1129066039?ean=9781787133525

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3265976/mel-bs-flirty-sex-games-with-x-factor-co-star-cheryl-drove-husband-stephen-belafonte-into-total-rages-that-led-to-him-being-banned-from-studios/#:~:text=The%20pair's%20flirty%20antics%20led,The%20X%20Factor%20in%202014.&text=Sources%20say%20Cheryl%20played%20along,eventually%20banned%20from%20the%20studios.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3138734/stephen-belafonte-mel-b-divorce-allegations-spice-girl/

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3290158/ex-lover-of-mel-bs-husband-stephen-belafonte-reveals-his-violent-evil-past/

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/7767480/mel-b-stephen-belafonte-beat-up-dog/

https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/mel-bs-daughter-describes-mothers-abusive-relationship-ex-husband-stephen-belafonte-hear-fighting/

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10469233/Mel-Bs-daughter-Phoenix-22-relives-harrowing-moment-saw-mother-endure-domestic-abuse.html

Reach Out:

[email protected] Social Media: @mandgoggs

Help: thehotline.org

In November 2023, singer Cassie Ventura filed a lawsuit against Sean 'Diddy' Combs. She said Diddy had put her through years of sexual violence and physical abuse. Diddy denied the claims until just this week on May 17th, shocking video was released showing the true extent of his violence.

Sources:

Court documents: chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://www.courthousenews.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/diddy-cassie.pdf

Rolling Stone article: https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-features/sean-diddy-combs-controversies-timeline-1234889043/

CBS footage of Diddy attacking Cassie:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6G7OMRVcH0

Statement from Los Angeles County:

https://www.instagram.com/p/C7FwszzJMin/

Diddy’s performative apology video:

https://www.instagram.com/p/C7J4iUFRGUk/?hl=en

Vibes of a Black Girl Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/p/C7MDuzuI1Ex/?hl=en&img_index=4

The Hotline article:

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/abuse-in-the-black-community/

Organisations to support:

https://linktr.ee/ujimacommunity

https://linktr.ee/TheSafeSistersCircle

https://linktr.ee/Sistah_space

https://www.hersana.org/

Reach out to me: social media @mandgoggs email: [email protected]

We are finally back after an extended break! I missed you! On this week's episode, I discuss Victoria Ciller's story. Victoria met a man who was charming, loving and everything she ever wanted. But soon the lies started and a lot of things just weren't adding up. Then, Victoria had a horrific parachuting accident... or was it an accident?

Purchase I Survived by Victoria Cilliers here: https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-100872371-15777883

Instagram: @mandgoggs or @ipvandme

Email: [email protected]

Today's episode features my first guest: my little sister, Tamara! Today we tell the story of TV personality and former popstar Kerry Katona's lifelong journey with toxic men and focus particularly on her abusive relationship with her husband, George Kay.

Sources:

https://www.safehorizon.org/thethingswecarry/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CThe%20Things%20We%20Carry%2C%E2%80%9D,holding%20upon%20entering%20a%20Safe

https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/2019/07/george-kay-died-broken-heart/

https://www.amazon.com/Kerry-Katona-Whole-Again/dp/1915306043/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3QZP8UK2WV5ES&keywords=kerry+katona+whole+again&qid=1698173960&sprefix=kerry+katona+whole+again%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-4

Socials:

@mandgoggs @ipvandme @tamaragoggin .

Help:

thehotline.org 800-799-7233

Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started?

Sources and Helpful Articles:

Amber’s 2018 piece for the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-02ed-11e9-b5df-5d3874f1ac36_story.html

A timeline of Heard and Depp’s relationship: https://www.insider.com/johnny-depp-amber-heard-relationship-timeline-2020-7#:~:text=In%20December%202018%2C%20Heard%20wrote,Post%20saying%20she%20was%20abused

Heard and Tasha van Rees alleged domestic assault incident: https://www.eonline.com/news/771257/amber-heard-s-ex-girlfriend-tasya-van-ree-speaks-out-following-domestic-abuse-allegations

Heard $7 million donation: https://people.com/movies/amber-heard-makes-7-figure-donation-childrens-hospital-after-johnny-depp-divorce/

Heard’s court documents filed in response to Depp’s defamation suit: /Amber Heard Motion to Dismiss - DocumentCloud

Why Depp wanted the case in Virginia: https://www.necn.com/entertainment/entertainment-news/why-is-the-johnny-depp-amber-heard-trial-in-virginia/2741123/

Safe and Sound Think PIece: https://safe-sound.org/learningcenter/one-more-amber-heard-and-johnny-depp-think-piece/

This week's episode features stories from everyday women taken from the book series #SheWins.

Address Confidentiality Program - https://victimconnect.org/learn/address-confidentiality/

Lovern’s website - https://lovelifenow.org/

Alisa’s website: https://www.alisadivine.com/

thehotline.org

Sources:

Books - https://amzn.to/3LEEUnV and https://amzn.to/427BKiW