In 1988, Givens publicly spoke about husband and boxing legend Mike Tyson’s volatile behavior. But instead of being seen as a victim , Robin became the target of a vicious media backlash. She was portrayed as a gold digger, controlling and “the most hated woman in America.” This episode examines what happened to Robin and how society has historically treated women who speak out —especially when the person they accuse is powerful, famous, and beloved by the public.

IPV and Me Links:

Help:

thehotline.org

New Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo, a notebook for listener notes and a set of cute stickers! More designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

Sources:

https://amzn.to/3IvqXrR - Robin’s Memoir

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VAcuDk4ovsw - Barbara Walters Interview

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hvkXkNcNNE - Oprah interview with Mike Tyson

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robin_Givens

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1989-06-23-sp-2706-story.html

https://www.si.com/boxing/2023/01/24/boxing-legend-mike-tyson-sued-rape-early-1990s

https://nypost.com/article/mike-tyson-worst-moments-scandals/

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1987-07-07-mn-1631-story.html

https://www.oursistershouse.com/statistics/ https://blackwomenrevolt.org/

In Part 2 of the Northern Ireland femicide epidemic series, IPV and Me continues examining the devastating rise in violence against women across Northern Ireland. This episode explores the stories behind the headlines, the systemic failures being called into question, and the growing demand for change in the face of a national crisis.

***Happy fifth anniversary to IPV and Me!***

I just want to thank all of my loyal listeners for standing by me for the last five years, and for any new listeners, here's to five more! To say thank you, I am running a competition to win some pieces from my brand new merch range! You can enter by checking out my post on Instagram or by giving me a review and emailing a screenshot to [email protected]

IPV and Me Links:

Help:

thehotline.org

New Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo, a notebook for listener notes and a set of cute stickers! More designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

Sources:

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cp8memlgdrgo

https://www.derryjournal.com/news/emergency-incident/derry-and-strabane-reps-call-for-additional-measures-to-tackle-violence-against-women-and-girls-5468082

https://www.psni.police.uk/safety-and-support/keeping-safe/tackling-violence-against-women-and-girls

https://www.executiveoffice-ni.gov.uk/articles/end-violence-against-women-and-girls-change-fund

https://downandconnorsafeguarding.com/onus-safe-place/

This episode covers a deeply serious and ongoing issue — the femicide epidemic in Northern Ireland, where a pattern of women being killed by men, often in the context of domestic abuse, continues to emerge. In Part One, I break down what femicide means, why these cases aren’t isolated, and how warning signs are too often missed. It’s a heavy conversation — but an important one, because these are real lives, not just headlines.

Help:

thehotline.org

Sponsor me for Run for the Wild at The Bronx Zoo:

I’m taking part in the Run for the Wild at the Bronx Zoo, running to support the conservation of the adorable (and endangered) Red Panda. Every donation helps protect their habitats and ensures these incredible animals have a future. If you can, please consider sponsoring me—no amount is too small, and it all goes toward making a real impact 🐾

Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

Sources:

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cp8memlgdrgo

In the first episode of 2026, IPV and Me examines the allegations made by Amanda Brown against former Irish rugby player Davy Tweed.

We look at the abuse experienced by Amanda and her family, the impact it had on their lives, and the broader questions it raises about reputation, power, and accountability. When someone widely admired is accused of harm, how does a community respond—and who gets believed?

Help:

thehotline.org

Media:

I was recently featured in CanvasRebel’s “Stories Behind the Most Meaningful Projects” series, where I shared the inspiration behind IPV and Me and my work advocating for survivors of domestic abuse. The feature highlights the importance of creating space for honest, unfiltered conversations and amplifying voices that are too often unheard.

https://canvasrebel.com/meet-amanda-goggin/

Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

Sources: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Davy_Tweed

https://www.easons.com/no-peace-until-hes-dead-amanda-brown-9781785374982?srsltid=AfmBOopi3wjfPPM3IZiVXBUt6YuCNpKXaHpP3WIbRV0zPA8gixwiGudf

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/no-peace-until-hes-dead-amanda-brown/1144441472?ean=9781785374982

Long before MomTok or The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Mayci Neeley was navigating a world shaped by rigid expectations, faith, and vulnerability. In this episode of IPV and Me, I explore Mayci’s journey through the pressures of the Mormon Church and the abusive relationships that followed—experiences in which she was repeatedly taken advantage of by men who exploited her trust.

Drawing from her memoir, Told You So, this episode unpacks Mayci’s path to self-awareness, survival, and ultimately reclaiming her voice. It’s a powerful conversation about coercion, control, and the resilience it takes to break free and tell your story on your own terms.

Links:

Help:

thehotline.org

Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

Sources:

Told You So by Mayci Neeley: https://www.amazon.com/Told-You-So-Mayci-Neeley/dp/1668099926

Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: https://www.hulu.com/series/the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-58cd73be-408d-4eed-8e3d-82339f3f93e2?cmp=9224&utm_source=google&utm_medium=SEM&utm_campaign=CM_SEM_Originals&utm_term=the%20secret%20lives%20of%20mormon%20wives%20hulu%20episode&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22551049560&gbraid=0AAAAADoVW82n1tGtlpEjczOmwPVuwRgTl&gclid=CjwKCAiAmKnKBhBrEiwAaqAnZ93bz54ANRXbgsjZT6R2pddHZX21oKi7nIhNUV6i0KhEHAju2Wa6RxoCHKYQAvD_BwE

In this episode, I sit down with Caroline Orman, a domestic abuse survivor and the author of The Other Side of Fear—a powerful fictionalised novel inspired by her real-life escape from abuse in Turkey.

Originally from the UK, Caroline spent many years living abroad before settling in Spain, where she now works as a health and medical writer. In her spare time, she continues to write fiction.

Join me as Caroline shares her journey, her healing, and the story behind the book that grew from her courage.

Learn more about Caroline:

Book link

https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CR992BFN

Website

carolineormanauthor.com

Socials

https://www.instagram.com/carolineormanauthor/

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555559254446

IPV and Me Links:

Help:

thehotline.org

Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Love Island Australia:

My sister Tamara is on this season of Love Island Australia!! Follow her shenanigans on social media @tamaragoggin. To watch the show in the USA, Hulu will have the episodes from October 29th. Watch on Dailymotion or on 9Now, the official site, with a VPN if you are outside Australia. ITVX will have episodes for the UK and Ireland in the coming weeks. Please watch and support!

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

This week’s episode is a little different. I’m taking a break from interviews and storytelling to just sit down and talk — about life, healing, and what it means to reach ten years since I left my abuser. As I approach my 40th birthday, I’m reflecting on how far I’ve come, what I’ve learned, and what freedom really feels like a decade later.

Help:

thehotline.org

Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Love Island Australia:

My sister Tamara is on this season of Love Island Australia!! Follow her shenanigans on social media @tamaragoggin. To watch the show in the USA, Hulu will have the episodes from October 29th. Watch on Dailymotion or on 9Now, the official site, with a VPN if you are outside Australia. ITVX will have episodes for the UK and Ireland in the coming weeks. Please watch and support!

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!

Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕

Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!

In this episode of IPV and Me – My Journey with Domestic Abuse, I’m sharing the story of Kerry Katona. Many people know Kerry as a singer, TV personality, and someone who has lived much of her life in the public eye. But behind the fame, she was also living through the pain and fear of domestic abuse. Kerry’s story is a powerful reminder that abuse can happen to anyone, no matter who they are or what their life looks like from the outside. In telling her journey, I want to highlight not only the challenges she faced but also the strength and resilience it takes to survive and speak out.

Help resources:

thehotline.org, Women's Aid

Contact me:

email: [email protected]

All socials: @mandgoggs

Sources:

Kerry's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Kerry-Katona-Whole-Again/dp/1915306043/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3QZP8UK2WV5ES&keywords=kerry+katona+whole+again&qid=1698173960&sprefix=kerry+katona+whole+again%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-4

https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/2019/07/george-kay-died-broken-heart/

In Part Two of our deep dive into the 1996 murder of Sophie Toscan du Plantier, we examine the man who would come to dominate headlines: Ian Bailey. As the Garda investigation unfolds, Bailey—a local journalist—emerges not just as a reporter covering the case, but as its prime suspect. We explore the timeline of events, the contradictions in Bailey’s statements, and his troubling history of violence.

Through this lens, we look at how power, control, and manipulation can echo in both intimate relationships and high-profile cases. As always on IPV and Me, we center the reality of coercive dynamics and the impact of gender-based violence.

This episode contains descriptions of violence and abuse.

Resources:

Thehotline.org

Contact Me:

Instagram: @mandgoggs

Email: [email protected]

Sources and Extra Information:

‘Sophie: The Final Verdict’ by Senan Maloney

West Cork Podcast

Sophie: A Murder in West Cork on Netflix

Murder at the Cottage: The Search for Justice for Sophie

In this special two-part, I examine the tragic and deeply unsettling case of Sophie Toscan du Plantier— a French woman who was brutally murdered outside her holiday home in West Cork, Ireland, just before Christmas in 1996.

In Part One, I’ll walk you through Sophie’s life, the days leading up to her death, and the strange, isolated setting where this horrific crime took place. We’ll look at the early investigation, the rumors that began to swirl, and the man who quickly emerged as the prime suspect: Ian Bailey.

Sophie’s story touches on issues of power, control, violence, and the way women are often failed by justice systems—no matter where they are in the world.

Resources:

Thehotline.org

Contact Me:

Instagram: @mandgoggs

Email: [email protected]

Sources and Extra Information:

‘Sophie: The Final Verdict’ by Senan Maloney

West Cork Podcast

Sophie: A Murder in West Cork on Netflix

Murder at the Cottage: The Search for Justice for Sophie