This week’s episode is a little different. I’m taking a break from interviews and storytelling to just sit down and talk — about life, healing, and what it means to reach ten years since I left my abuser. As I approach my 40th birthday, I’m reflecting on how far I’ve come, what I’ve learned, and what freedom really feels like a decade later.

Help:

thehotline.org

Merch has launched!!!!!!:

Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.

https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com

Socials:

[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socials

Love Island Australia:

My sister Tamara is on this season of Love Island Australia!! Follow her shenanigans on social media @tamaragoggin. To watch the show in the USA, Hulu will have the episodes from October 29th. Watch on Dailymotion or on 9Now, the official site, with a VPN if you are outside Australia. ITVX will have episodes for the UK and Ireland in the coming weeks. Please watch and support!

Promo Codes and Partnerships:

I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Strong Coffee Company! Their instant lattes and protein-packed brews are designed to fuel your body and mind — combining organic coffee, grass-fed collagen protein, and healthy fats for sustained energy without the crash.

Listeners can now enjoy 20% off their order with my exclusive promo code CODEADX at checkout.

Sip strong, stay grounded, and support the podcast while you do! ☕💪

In this episode of IPV and Me – My Journey with Domestic Abuse, I’m sharing the story of Kerry Katona. Many people know Kerry as a singer, TV personality, and someone who has lived much of her life in the public eye. But behind the fame, she was also living through the pain and fear of domestic abuse. Kerry’s story is a powerful reminder that abuse can happen to anyone, no matter who they are or what their life looks like from the outside. In telling her journey, I want to highlight not only the challenges she faced but also the strength and resilience it takes to survive and speak out.

Help resources:

thehotline.org, Women's Aid

Contact me:

email: [email protected]

All socials: @mandgoggs

Sources:

Kerry's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Kerry-Katona-Whole-Again/dp/1915306043/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3QZP8UK2WV5ES&keywords=kerry+katona+whole+again&qid=1698173960&sprefix=kerry+katona+whole+again%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-4

https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/2019/07/george-kay-died-broken-heart/

In Part Two of our deep dive into the 1996 murder of Sophie Toscan du Plantier, we examine the man who would come to dominate headlines: Ian Bailey. As the Garda investigation unfolds, Bailey—a local journalist—emerges not just as a reporter covering the case, but as its prime suspect. We explore the timeline of events, the contradictions in Bailey’s statements, and his troubling history of violence.

Through this lens, we look at how power, control, and manipulation can echo in both intimate relationships and high-profile cases. As always on IPV and Me, we center the reality of coercive dynamics and the impact of gender-based violence.

This episode contains descriptions of violence and abuse.

Resources:

Thehotline.org

Contact Me:

Instagram: @mandgoggs

Email: [email protected]

Sources and Extra Information:

‘Sophie: The Final Verdict’ by Senan Maloney

West Cork Podcast

Sophie: A Murder in West Cork on Netflix

Murder at the Cottage: The Search for Justice for Sophie

In this special two-part, I examine the tragic and deeply unsettling case of Sophie Toscan du Plantier— a French woman who was brutally murdered outside her holiday home in West Cork, Ireland, just before Christmas in 1996.

In Part One, I’ll walk you through Sophie’s life, the days leading up to her death, and the strange, isolated setting where this horrific crime took place. We’ll look at the early investigation, the rumors that began to swirl, and the man who quickly emerged as the prime suspect: Ian Bailey.

Sophie’s story touches on issues of power, control, violence, and the way women are often failed by justice systems—no matter where they are in the world.

Resources:

Thehotline.org

Contact Me:

Instagram: @mandgoggs

Email: [email protected]

Sources and Extra Information:

‘Sophie: The Final Verdict’ by Senan Maloney

West Cork Podcast

Sophie: A Murder in West Cork on Netflix

Murder at the Cottage: The Search for Justice for Sophie

In this bonus episode, I highlight the key statements from the first round of witnesses, particularly from Cassie Ventura. This case is reshaping public conversations about power, fame and accountability in domestic abuse.

Socials:

@mandgoggs on Instagram email: [email protected]

Help:

thehotline.org, rainn.org

Sources:

https://variety.com/2025/music/news/male-escort-testifies-diddy-trial-sex-cassie-1236394986/?fbclid=IwY2xjawKU6ENleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETFZcUZITG1FcWhJNUFsSmlHAR7Dviw0kefEONOXHk4dzqmgCKnDrmUUdMR3QXAklL6jWeIcTKh7NNTV-b5qVw_aem_sGxb6bK8VEVhfmZTNYUxIw

https://x.com/innercitypress

We're back after a very extended break so here is a very extended episode! (Take breaks, we'll hold your place!). And Happy International Women's Day to all you beautiful bold women!

In today's episode, I travel to Ireland for the story of one of the most courageous women I have ever encountered. Nicola Hanney not only dealt with a horrific case of domestic abuse but she was also battling life-threatening cancer at the time. I couldn't think of a better story to upload on International Women's Day.

My Interview For Bold Journey: https://boldjourney.com/meet-amanda-goggin/

Socials: @mandgoggs Instagram [email protected] email

Sources: Stronger: What Didn't Kill Me, Made Me' by Nicola Hanney https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-What-Didnt-Kill-Made/dp/1785375296

Poem by Bella Hope Smith.

We're back after a very extended break so here is a very extended episode in two parts... both released together (Take breaks, we'll hold your place!). And Happy International Women's Day to all you beautiful bold women!

In today's episode, I travel to Ireland for the story of one of the most courageous women I have ever encountered. Nicola Hanney not only dealt with a horrific case of domestic abuse but she was also battling life-threatening cancer at the time. I couldn't think of a better story to upload on International Women's Day.

My Interview For Bold Journey: https://boldjourney.com/meet-amanda-goggin/

Socials: @mandgoggs Instagram [email protected] email

Sources: Stronger: What Didn't Kill Me, Made Me' by Nicola Hanney https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-What-Didnt-Kill-Made/dp/1785375296

Poem by Bella Hope Smith

October 4th, 2004, was a regular morning for Rachel Callaly, a mother and wife. She got her kids ready and dropped them off at school. But her journey back home would prove to be her last.

Social Media:

@mandgoggs email: [email protected]

Help:

thehotline.org women's aid

Sources:

https://www.dpbolvw.net/click-100872371-13261435?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.barnesandnoble.com%2Fw%2Fremembering-rachel-rose-callaly%2F1130591339%3Fean%3D9781844882205&cjsku=9781844882205 Remembering Rachel by Rose Callaly

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ea7i1DKe_xk faking it late late show interview

https://www.rte.ie/news/2007/0626/90522-oreillyr/ witness testimony

https://www.irishtimes.com/news/victim-s-brother-is-asked-about-cut-on-hand-1.1212698 - rachel’s half brother testimony

https://www.irishexaminer.com/news/arid-20037200.html - nikki pelley testimoney

https://www.irishexaminer.com/news/arid-30318742.html - texts between Nikki Pelley and Joe o Reilly

Welcome to a new side series called, 'Asking For It'. Here I will be telling stories of violence against women outside of the category of domestic abuse.

Today's episode is about Katie Piper who was viciously attacked by a man she was dating for only two weeks... but more horror was around the corner.

Sources:

'Beautiful' by Katie Piper (Purchase here: https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100872371-13261435?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.barnesandnoble.com%2Fw%2Fbeautiful-katie-piper%2F1102807994%3Fean%3D9781446406076&cjsku=9781446406076 )

Links:

Social media: @mandgoggs @ipvandmepodcast

Email: [email protected]

gofundme for Anthony o' Carroll : https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-anthony-his-parents-on-his-road-to-recovery?utm_source=copy_link&utm_medium=customer&utm_campaign=impact_sharesheet&attribution_id=sl:5137e955-76b2-4437-9614-fa0740a8b100

In December 2020, singer FKA Twigs filed a lawsuit against her ex-partner actor Shia LaBeouf accusing him of sexual battery, assault and infliction of emotional stress during their relationship. He responded by saying he had been abusive to himself and those around him for years, and that he was ashamed and sorry to those he had hurt. He later denied all allegations. The court date has been set for October 2024.

Help and Information:

[email protected], social media @mandgoggs thehotline.org

Sources:

Court Documents: chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://int.nyt.com/data/documenttools/lawsuit-fka-twigs-shia-la-beouf/35d97cbb8df917bf/full.pdf