Today's episode features my first guest: my little sister, Tamara! Today we tell the story of TV personality and former popstar Kerry Katona's lifelong journey with toxic men and focus particularly on her abusive relationship with her husband, George Kay.

Sources:

https://www.safehorizon.org/thethingswecarry/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CThe%20Things%20We%20Carry%2C%E2%80%9D,holding%20upon%20entering%20a%20Safe

https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/2019/07/george-kay-died-broken-heart/

https://www.amazon.com/Kerry-Katona-Whole-Again/dp/1915306043/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3QZP8UK2WV5ES&keywords=kerry+katona+whole+again&qid=1698173960&sprefix=kerry+katona+whole+again%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-4

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@mandgoggs @ipvandme @tamaragoggin .

Help:

thehotline.org 800-799-7233

Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started?

Sources and Helpful Articles:

Amber’s 2018 piece for the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-02ed-11e9-b5df-5d3874f1ac36_story.html

A timeline of Heard and Depp’s relationship: https://www.insider.com/johnny-depp-amber-heard-relationship-timeline-2020-7#:~:text=In%20December%202018%2C%20Heard%20wrote,Post%20saying%20she%20was%20abused

Heard and Tasha van Rees alleged domestic assault incident: https://www.eonline.com/news/771257/amber-heard-s-ex-girlfriend-tasya-van-ree-speaks-out-following-domestic-abuse-allegations

Heard $7 million donation: https://people.com/movies/amber-heard-makes-7-figure-donation-childrens-hospital-after-johnny-depp-divorce/

Heard’s court documents filed in response to Depp’s defamation suit: /Amber Heard Motion to Dismiss - DocumentCloud

Why Depp wanted the case in Virginia: https://www.necn.com/entertainment/entertainment-news/why-is-the-johnny-depp-amber-heard-trial-in-virginia/2741123/

Safe and Sound Think PIece: https://safe-sound.org/learningcenter/one-more-amber-heard-and-johnny-depp-think-piece/

This week's episode features stories from everyday women taken from the book series #SheWins.

Address Confidentiality Program - https://victimconnect.org/learn/address-confidentiality/

Lovern’s website - https://lovelifenow.org/

Alisa’s website: https://www.alisadivine.com/

thehotline.org

Sources:

Books - https://amzn.to/3LEEUnV and https://amzn.to/427BKiW

Audrina Patridge is well known for her time on the smash hit reality show 'The Hills', but Audrina spent many years suffering abuse at the hands of her partner, Corey. This episode goes to show you never really know what's going on in a celebrity's personal life. .

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I had the pleasure of being interviewed recently for the wonderful domestic abuse awareness podcast, 'Peace Over Pieces'. Check it out here and let me know your thoughts! https://open.spotify.com/episode/2ccUiVI6QygedeojEAQrTE?si=e3ab874dfd3e48e6

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Sources:

Audrina’s memoir - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/choices-audrina-patridge/1140469331?ean=9781982183813 (Barnes and Noble are currently offering 50% off hundreds of books until 9/4!"Book">https://www.kqzyfj.com/click-100872371-15602107">Book "https://www.lduhtrp.net/image-100872371-15602107" )

Call Her Daddy Episode - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0ecduYgZnHIkWPqQXg1sXk

This episode highlights the danger of leaving an abuser. This is the story of Claire and Charlotte, and the Hart family.Sources:Book written by Luke and Ryan Hart: https://amzn.to/3ofvk2xLuke’s letter to Ryan: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/luke-hart/brother-strength-saved-me_b_16145554.html?1492844010Luke and Ryan Hart’s website: https://www.cocoawareness.co.uk/

This is a bonus episode where I read some facts and statistics and give important information about domestic abuse, all taken from Tanya Selvaratnam's book, 'Assume Nothing'. (See episode 22 for her full story: https://media.rss.com/ipvandme/feed.xml )

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandgoggs/?hl=en

Help: thehotline.org

Sources:

https://amzn.to/3WF6vc3 - Tanya’s book “Assume Nothing”

Tanya Selavaratnam suffered abuse at the hands of the former Attorney General of NY, Eric Schneiderman. In her memoir, 'Assume Nothing' she gives a harrowing account of the abuse and control she suffered.

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Sources:

https://amzn.to/3WF6vc3 - Tanya’s book “Assume Nothing”

https://www.tanyaturnsup.com/bio-photos - Tanya’s website

Four Women Accuse New York’s Attorney General, Eric Schneiderman, of Physical Abuse | The New Yorker - article that broke the story

https://ag.ny.gov/press-release/2018/statement-attorney-general-eric-t-schneiderman - statement of resignation from Eric Schneiderman

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/06/opinion/sunday/eric-schneiderman-abuse.html - tanya’s op-ed in the ny times.

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/11/08/nyregion/eric-schneiderman-abuse-charges.html - madeline singas statement

Part 2 of the story of Hedda Nussbaum.

Sources:

https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619

https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary

https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair

https://vimeo.com/45276028 documentary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5WqVneeWBM - documentary

https://amzn.to/3HkAUI1 Hedda’s book

https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership - Patreon

Hedda Nussbaum spent years being tortured and abused by her partner, Joel Steinberg. Little did she know it would end in the most horrendous thing any parent could go through.

Sources:

https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619

https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary

https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair

https://vimeo.com/45276028 documentary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5WqVneeWBM - documentary

https://amzn.to/3HkAUI1 Hedda’s book

https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership - Patreon