What are the actually stats on the chances you were born exactly where you are with your personality? I found a paper a scientist wrote crunching all the math and theory behind this question. Chances are so slim, it is literally a miracle. Seriously the numbers will blow you away! 

After you gain this perspective the next thing to do with this "miracle" life, is use it! Your subconscious survival mind likes to play small and comfortable. Why? Because this game is about survival for your brain. Being comfortable and people pleasing. You have to shut the subconscious chatter down or tune it out. Otherwise you will play small and safe for the remainder of this short "miracle" life you have. 

We have to sidestep this bullshit and go after whatever we want. Yes, and use those gifts or specific talents you have and don't waste it. Regret is the biggest thing on the mind of the dying. Don't join the majority in the graveyard buried with your unfulfilled dreams!