Have you seen the movie, “My big fat Greek wedding”? Well there’s a part in the movie when the mom says to the daughter, “your father may be the head of the house, but I am the neck and I can turn the head any which way I want.” As a wife and mom, sometimes I can executive decisions about the kids because, well, I am the mom!! Now don’t get me wrong, I give the hubby the respect and honor he deserves but when it comes to the kids, that’s all me. Right now I am the one spending the most time with them so I feel like I know what’s best for them. He can tell me how he feels but ultimately I make the decisions when it comes to them. He is definitely the head of the household and I will cede other decisions to him. The kids are mine.