In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of formula feeding for babies. They share their personal experiences and address common questions and misconceptions surrounding formula feeding. They also touch on the stigma associated with formula feeding and the availability of different types of formula. The conversation concludes with a discussion on diapers and the importance of having support and guidance during the early stages of parenthood.

Keywords

formula feeding, breast milk, breastfeeding, stigma, surrogate, nutrition, baby care, diapers

Takeaways

Formula feeding is a common and valid choice for parents who are unable or choose not to breastfeed.

There is a stigma surrounding formula feeding, but it is important to respect the choices and preferences of individual parents.

Formula comes in different stages for different ages, and there are various options available, including vegan formulas.

Breast milk can be donated or purchased from breast milk banks, but it is ultimately up to the surrogate or birth parent to decide if they want to pump breast milk.

Having support and guidance, such as a maternity nurse, can be invaluable for new parents navigating the world of formula feeding and baby care.

Demystifying Formula Feeding: A Valid Choice for Parents

Breast Milk Options: Donating, Pumping, and Breast Milk Banks

Sound Bites

"Did you give your twins breast milk or formula? I was like, no, it was obvious."

"Is milk food? For a baby, there's not a lot to chew until a certain age."

"Breast is best. Trying to promote breastfeeding and all those different things."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Question of Formula Feeding

07:05 Is Milk Food? Understanding the Role of Formula

10:59 The Stigma and Promotion of Breastfeeding

18:28 The Taste of Breast Milk and Formula Ingredients

25:09 Exploring the Composition of Formula

26:28 Potty Training and the Importance of Support

Cynthia, an embryologist and now working with a technology company, TMRW Life Science discusses the need for tools and technology to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab. She emphasizes the importance of ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients. Cynthia also highlights the role of technology in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles. She explains the challenges faced by clinics in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency. Cynthia discusses the potential of AI algorithms and ultrasound technology to improve efficiency and reduce costs in fertility clinics.

Keywords

embryology lab, safety, scale, chain of custody, specimen record, technology, sperm selection, egg selection, operational efficiency, AI algorithms, ultrasound technology, cost reduction

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Cynthia's Background

01:27 Improving Safety and Scale in the Embryology Lab

06:13 The Role of Technology in Sperm and Egg Selection

10:03 Challenges and Opportunities in Egg Freezing

17:44 The Potential of AI Algorithms and Ultrasound Technology in Fertility Clinics

Takeaways

Tools and technology are needed to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab, ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients.

Technology plays a crucial role in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles.

Clinics face challenges in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency.

AI algorithms and ultrasound technology have the potential to improve efficiency and reduce costs in fertility clinics.

Sound Bites

"We need to build some technology and introduce tools to better secure the audit trail, better secure the chain of custody."

"By culturing embryos longer, we have dramatically improved the chances of success per attempt."

"The quality of the sperm is just as important as the quality of the egg."

In this episode, Richard and Julio are joined by Cindy, a top surrogacy lawyer in Canada, to discuss her personal story of having a transgender child. They explore the challenges faced by both the child and the parents, the importance of support and understanding, and the need for education and acceptance. Cindy shares her experiences with her child's school and friends, as well as the emotional toll it can take on both the child and the parents. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, grace, and open communication within families.

Keywords

transgender, surrogacy, parenting, support, acceptance, education, mental health

Takeaways

Support and understanding are crucial for transgender children and their parents.

Parents should seek out resources and support networks to navigate the challenges of having a transgender child.

Open communication and empathy within families can help create a safe and accepting environment.

It is important to give oneself grace as a parent and understand that mistakes will be made along the way.

Titles

Supporting Transgender Children: A Parent's Perspective

Navigating the Challenges of Parenting a Transgender Child

Sound Bites

"Lennox goes to an all girls school. How have they handled this situation as an institution? And also how have Lennox's friends handled this?"

"Has Lennox ever come to you thinking about the prospect that all this is too much, that the change is too much, is debilitating emotionally, physically, and then mentioned anything to do with suicide or anything like that?"

"Parents, children, anybody going through any struggles, you're not alone. You're not alone."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:25 The Changing Landscape of Acceptance

03:22 Supporting a Transgender Child

05:11 Finding Support and Resources

08:32 Understanding and Articulating Gender Identity

12:34 Navigating Pronouns and Name Changes

16:19 Dealing with Resistance and Lack of Support

18:41 Supportive School and Friends

21:23 Taking Time for Decision-Making

23:17 Mental Health and Suicide Prevention

25:58 Accessing Support Services

27:13 The Importance of Community and Education

31:03 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, Richard and Julio discuss the topic of vulnerability and what it means to be a family. They touch on the anxiety and challenges they face as a blended family, including the reactions of others and the pressure to say and do the right things. They also explore the importance of celebrating love and kindness, and the rewards and sacrifices of parenting. The conversation delves into the complexities of being a stepparent and the impact on both the children and the parents involved. Overall, the episode highlights the personal struggles and growth that come with navigating relationships and family dynamics.

Being a stepparent is a challenging role that requires patience, compromise, and balancing multiple responsibilities.

The definition of family is fluid and can vary for each individual and situation.

Parenting is hard and comes with its own set of anxieties and self-doubt, but the rewards are immeasurable.

It is important to celebrate love and kindness and to support and uplift each other as parents and family members.

vulnerability, family, blended family, anxiety, challenges, reactions, love, kindness, parenting, stepparent, rewards, sacrifices, relationships, family dynamics

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Vulnerability and the Meaning of Family

09:48 The Challenges and Rewards of Being a Stepparent

23:55 Celebrating Love and Kindness in Family Dynamics

Sound Bites

"What makes a kid yours? When it came from their mouth when they said that they feel like they have three parents."

"I need to become obsolete in my children's lives as a parent. And that's when my job has been done properly, when they don't need me, but they want me."

"Parenting is really hard. It's not a walk in the park and the reward is exponential."

In this episode of IVFDADDIES, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of sperm donation and the options available for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family. They highlight the importance of empowering people to make their own choices and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation. The hosts also mention the portrayal of sperm donation in reality TV shows and the need for more education and support for those considering this route. They touch on the process of sperm donation, the different options available, and the importance of reducing inflammation for successful pregnancies.

Takeaways

Sperm donation is a valid option for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family.

There is a need to empower people and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation.

Reality TV shows can provide some insight into the process of sperm donation, but more education and support are needed.

The process of sperm donation involves choosing a sperm donor, purchasing vials of sperm, and using methods like intrauterine insemination (IUI) to conceive.

Reducing inflammation through methods like hyperbaric chambers can increase the chances of successful pregnancies.

sperm donation, options, empowerment, stigma, reality TV, education, support, process, inflammation

Sound Bites

"We're empowering people, we're empowering women."

"Why not go, oh my gosh, that's amazing. How can we support you in that?"

"You'll end up with a family one way or another. It may not be the one you thought you were going to have, but the options are there."

Vanderpump Rules

Lala Kent

Kardashians

Khloe Kardashian

In this conversation, Julio from IVF Daddies interviews Luisana Burgos from HBOT4Life about hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT). They discuss the benefits of HBOT for overall health and fertility, the different types of hyperbaric chambers, the impact of inflammation on the body, and the potential for improving egg quality and fertility through HBOT. Luisana shares success stories of patients who have experienced positive results from HBOT. They also touch on the societal pressure on women to have children and the importance of education and awareness about fertility.

Keywords

hyperbaric oxygen therapy, HBOT, health, fertility, inflammation, egg quality, fertility treatment

Takeaways

Hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT) is a medical treatment that can benefit both individuals with medical conditions and those without any symptoms.

HBOT can improve overall health, boost energy levels, and promote healing and regeneration in the body.

HBOT has the potential to improve egg quality and fertility by oxygenating the eggs and creating a better environment for conception.

There is a lack of education and awareness about fertility, and societal pressure on women to have children can cause stress and anxiety.

HBOT is a promising alternative treatment for various medical conditions, but it requires multiple sessions and a commitment to the treatment process.

The Potential of HBOT for Longevity and Reversing Aging

The Impact of Inflammation on the Body and the Role of HBOT

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Overview of Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy

03:17 The Benefits of HBOT for Health and Prevention

11:45 Improving Egg Quality and Fertility with HBOT

24:26 Addressing Societal Pressure and Fertility Education

30:52 Success Stories and the Potential of HBOT for Longevity

Sound Bites

"For me, oxygen therapy or hyperbaric oxygen therapy, it is one of the best ways to actually prevent and to put your body in such a state that you are free of a medical condition as long as you can."

"Hyperbaric chambers can heal tissue that cannot be regenerated anymore. Imagine what it can do for your body for something mild."

"80% of our diet is inflammatory. We drink milk, we eat cheese, we eat yogurt. All that causes an inflammatory response in our body."

The conversation revolves around the experience of witnessing a friend's journey through fertility, from freezing eggs to having a baby, and the emotional impact of being asked to be a godfather. It also touches on the power of hope, support, and inspiration in the context of fertility struggles.

Takeaways

The journey of fertility and IVF can be emotionally impactful and filled with hope and inspiration.

Support and guidance are crucial for individuals going through fertility struggles.

The power of hope and perseverance in the face of fertility challenges is evident in the speaker's experience.

The role of a godparent is seen as an honor and a source of joy and emotional connection.

The impact of sharing personal experiences and providing support to others going through similar challenges is highlighted.

Sound Bite

"I'm not very good at expressing emotions and I typically cry because that's what happens."

"Keep your optionality as far as you can, as much as you can."

"As a gay guy, who would have thought that I would be here, age 48, with twins?"

Keywords

fertility, freezing eggs, IVF journey, emotional impact, hope, support, inspiration

Aemilia shares her journey of freezing her eggs at the age of 40 and undergoing IVF to have a baby at age 47. She emphasizes the importance of taking control of one's fertility and making informed decisions. Aemilia's story highlights the success of her single embryo transfer and the support she received from her friends and medical professionals. She encourages others to consider egg freezing as a way to preserve their options and break the taboo surrounding fertility treatments.

Takeaways

Egg freezing can provide women with the flexibility to decide when to have a baby and alleviate the pressure of the biological clock.

Choosing a single embryo transfer can reduce the risk of multiple pregnancies.

Having a supportive network of friends and medical professionals is crucial throughout the fertility journey.

Breaking the taboo surrounding fertility treatments is important to empower individuals to make informed decisions about their reproductive health.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Recap

00:56 Aemilia's Journey from Egg Freezing to Motherhood

03:50 Making the Decision to Have a Family

06:41 Navigating the IVF Process with Support

09:26 Preparing for the IVF Cycle

13:26 Choosing a Single Embryo Transfer

20:30 The Wait and Confirmation of Pregnancy

23:25 Emotional Journey and Support

28:11 The Taboo Surrounding Fertility Treatments

31:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Keywords

egg freezing, IVF, fertility, single embryo transfer, support, decision-making

Sound Bites

"I had already for a year been doing acupuncture with my acupuncture specialist in fertility and knew about this process."

"All eight are viable. 100 percenter."

"Oh, great. The heartbeat. All of you were in tears. Oh my God. And by God, you're pregnant."

In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss their experiences at a Men Having Babies conference in Berlin and the importance of educating people about the basics of IVF and surrogacy. They highlight the mix of attendees at the conference, from newbies to those who have done extensive research. They emphasize the need for more education and understanding about fertility and the various paths to building a family. The conversation also touches on personal topics such as divorce and the emotional challenges of deciding what to do with frozen embryos.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting

00:30 Attending the Men Having Babies Conference in Berlin

07:14 Starting Conversations and Providing Support

12:02 The Emotional Challenges of Divorce and Frozen Embryos

23:19 Legally Owning Embryos and Future Decisions

26:34 The Emotional Impact of Protecting Children

29:29 The Importance of Providing Information and Personal Experiences

34:57 Conclusion and Future Episodes

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, Men Having Babies, conference, education, fertility, basics, attendees, research, paths to parenthood, divorce, frozen embryos

Takeaways

Men Having Babies conferences provide valuable information and resources for those interested in IVF and surrogacy.

There is a need for more education and understanding about fertility and the different paths to building a family.

The emotional challenges of divorce and deciding what to do with frozen embryos can be difficult to navigate.

Open and honest conversations about these topics can help provide support and guidance for others going through similar experiences.

Sound Bites

"There is a need for people to understand the basics."

"The need for people to understand the basics."

"Starting the conversation, whether it is good comments or bad comments, it allows us to listen."

In this episode, the guest shares her experience as a Black transgender woman going through the IVF and surrogacy process in New York City. She discusses the importance of understanding empathy and the challenges faced by minority groups in the United States. She also highlights the disparities in access to healthcare for Black women and the high maternal mortality rates. The guest emphasizes the significance of building relationships and finding a supportive community during the IVF journey. She talks about her criteria for choosing an agency and the obstacles she faced in finding information and support.

Takeaways

Understanding empathy is crucial in supporting minority groups going through the IVF and surrogacy process.

There are disparities in access to healthcare and high maternal mortality rates for Black women.

Building relationships and finding a supportive community is important during the IVF journey.

Choosing an agency that aligns with personal values and provides a sense of affinity can enhance the experience.

Finding information and support can be challenging, but connecting with others who have gone through a similar journey can be invaluable.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: A Powerful Story of Identity and Activism

03:16 Chapter 1: Empathy and Activism: Understanding the Challenges Faced by Minority Groups

16:14 Chapter 2: Building Relationships and Finding Support in the IVF Process

28:58 Chapter 4: Overcoming Obstacles: Finding Information and Support

Sound Bites

"A powerful story of identity and activism"

"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"

"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"

Sound Bites

"A powerful story of identity and activism"

"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"

"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"