IVF DADDIES

IVF DADDIES

By Richard Westoby & Julio GaggiaSociety & Culture
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  • 58) AFTER FAMILY-BUILDING CONVERSATIONS: WHY STEPPARENTING STILL FEELS INVISIBLE IN LGBTQIA+ FAMILIES

    If you’ve listened to conversations about surrogacy, IVF, or modern family building and still feel unseen in your role, this episode is for you.

    We unpack what stepparenting actually looks like in LGBTQIA+ families, what’s rarely acknowledged, and what helps stabilize relationships after the big decisions are made.

    Bullets

    • What family-building conversations explain — and what they leave out

    • Why stepparents often feel invisible even inside loving families

    • How therapy and boundaries help families find balance over time

      Not medical or legal advice — just real-world orientation from people who’ve lived it.

    Chapters


    00:00 Welcome Back and Life Updates

    03:00 The Journey of Surrogacy and Parenthood

    05:58 Navigating Stepparenting Challenges

    08:57 The Importance of Therapy in Relationships

    12:09 Legal Aspects of Surrogacy and IVF

    14:53 Breaking Down Misconceptions About Surrogacy

    17:52 Infertility Awareness and Social Stigmas

    21:04 Discrimination in Surrogacy Laws


    • "Your life changes in an instant."
    • "Family is made out of who chooses to show up."
    • "We choose our family every day."
    • "You really have to want to do it."
    23 min
  • 57) HOW HIV POSITIVE DADS NAVIGATE FAMILY BUILDING

    In this conversation, Brian Rosenberg from Gays with Kids shares his journey as an HIV positive dad and the founding of Gays with Kids, an organization dedicated to helping LGBTQ+ individuals navigate parenthood. He discusses the importance of education in family building, the various paths to parenthood available, and the launch of GWK Academy, which aims to empower individuals with knowledge and resources. Brian emphasizes the need for financial accessibility in family building and the significance of finding supportive community and partners in the journey to parenthood.

    Brian Rosenberg and his husband Ferd have 3 children through adoption and surrogacy. Their family-building experience led him to launch the popular Gays With Kids website and virtual community in 2014. And now Brian is super excited to announce the launch of the all-new GWK Academy Family Building, Inc. (“GWK Academy” for short), a non-profit spin-off of GWK to guide and support the entire LGBTQ+ community with their family-building journeys. Visit GWKAcademy.org or, to donate, visit https://givebutter.com/GWKAcademyLaunch

    Takeaways


    Brian and his husband created their family through adoption and surrogacy.

    HIV positive individuals can become biological parents with the right medical support.

    Education is crucial for LGBTQ+ individuals considering parenthood.

    GWK Academy offers resources and courses for aspiring parents.

    Financial planning is essential for family building, with various options available.

    The LGBTQ+ community needs tailored support in family building processes.

    Surrogacy and adoption can be expensive, but there are ways to manage costs.

    Finding the right family building partners is vital for success.

    Community support and education can alleviate fears and misconceptions.

    Brian's mission is to empower others to become confident parents.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Gays with Kids and Brian's Journey

    05:54 Navigating Parenthood as an HIV Positive Dad

    12:05 The Evolution of Gays with Kids and Its Mission

    18:02 Expanding Services and Accessibility for LGBTQ+ Families

    23:57 The Importance of Education and Community in Family Building

    Sound Bites


    "Don't get scared with those numbers."

    "You can make it work for many budgets."

    "I appreciate your support."


    Empowering LGBTQ+ Parenthood: Brian Rosenberg's Journey

    Navigating Family Building as an HIV Positive Dad



    26 min
  • 56) THE EMBRYO EDUCATION THEY DONT WANT YOU TO KNOW


    In this episode of IVFDADDIES, Richard Westoby, speaks with Emma Whitney, an experienced embryologist, about the importance of reproductive health education, the complexities of infertility, and the role of embryologists in fertility treatments. They discuss the often-misleading success rates of fertility clinics, the need for informed decision-making, and the significance of clear communication between patients and healthcare providers. Emma emphasizes the importance of understanding what constitutes success in fertility treatments and encourages listeners to ask critical questions when seeking treatment.

    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Reproductive Health Education

    02:40 The Role of an Embryologist

    05:37 Understanding Success Rates in IVF

    09:20 The Importance of Patient-Centric Care

    12:16 Navigating the IVF Journey

    15:02 Questions to Ask Your Fertility Clinic

    17:51 The Reality of Multiple Births in IVF

    20:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    Education on reproductive health is crucial for young people.

    Many people are unaware of the causes of infertility.

    An embryologist plays a vital role in fertility treatments.

    Success rates in clinics can be misleading.

    Patients should ask about their chances of success based on their individual circumstances.

    Communication and support from the clinic are essential for patient care.

    Understanding the difference between pregnancy rates and live birth rates is important.

    Patients should be aware of the potential for multiple births in fertility treatments.

    Grieving for lost dreams is a part of the fertility journey.

    Informed decision-making can lead to better outcomes in fertility treatments.


    Sound Bites


    "What is success?"

    "Will you treat me?"

    "How are we going to communicate?"


    Titles


    The Importance of Reproductive Health Education

    Understanding Infertility: What You Need to Know

    31 min
  • 55) WELLNESS & FERTILITY THROUGH CROHN'S DESEASE


    In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts and guests BOLKO ALEKSIEV and NAOMI TEAL from MABO WELLNESS delve into personal journeys of health and wellness, focusing on Crohn's disease, nutrition, and fertility challenges. They discuss the emotional toll of fertility testing, the importance of open conversations about reproductive health, and the various options available for those facing fertility issues. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding one's body, the impact of nutrition on health, and the need for supportive dialogue around fertility and personal choices.


    Takeaways


    The journey to wellness often stems from personal health challenges.

    Nutrition plays a crucial role in managing chronic conditions like Crohn's disease.

    Fertility testing can be an emotional rollercoaster for couples.

    Open conversations about fertility are essential for understanding options.

    It's important to question medical advice and seek second opinions.

    The societal pressure to have children can be overwhelming.

    Women often feel the burden of fertility issues more acutely than men.

    There are various paths to parenthood beyond traditional methods.

    Understanding one's body is key to making informed health decisions.

    It's okay to not have a clear answer about wanting children.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Wellness and Personal Journeys

    02:59 Understanding Crohn's Disease and Its Impact

    05:50 The Role of Nutrition in Managing Health

    08:43 Fertility Testing and Its Emotional Toll

    11:13 Navigating Medical Advice and Options

    14:31 Societal Pressures and Personal Choices

    17:07 Exploring Future Possibilities and Options

    20:04 Empowerment Through Knowledge and Choices


    Keywords


    IVF, wellness, Crohn's disease, nutrition, fertility, emotional health, health journey, personal stories, reproductive health, holistic health


    Sound Bites


    "Food is thy medicine."

    "It's not as easy as that."

    "It's okay to not know."

    26 min
  • 54) FREEZING MY EGGS SAVED MY LIFE FROM CANCER


    In this conversation, Richard Westoby and his friend Kat discuss the journey of fertility, cancer diagnosis, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. They explore the importance of family, the impact of cancer on personal aspirations, and the options available for building a family after such experiences. The discussion highlights the significance of early detection, the complexities of treatment, and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies these life-altering events.

    "United by Unique" is the powerful theme for World Cancer Day in 2025. Cancer is never just a diagnosis; it’s a deeply personal and transformative journey that touches every part of a person's life. For our wonderful friend Kat, this journey began with a decision to freeze her eggs — a choice that unknowingly led to the discovery of her cancer. What followed was a courageous path through treatment, showing how sometimes, even in the face of the unknown, our lives take unexpected turns toward healing and hope.

    Sound Bites


    "I think, as said, we met in Malta."

    "I was clearly very emotional about it."

    "I joined Surrogacy UK."


    Chapters


    00:00 Adventurous Beginnings

    02:00 The Decision to Freeze Eggs

    04:01 Facing Cancer: The Diagnosis

    05:56 Navigating Treatment and Surgery

    10:11 Life After Hysterectomy

    12:00 The Impact of Cancer on Family Planning

    16:58 Exploring Surrogacy and Future Options

    22:04 Reflections on Egg Freezing and Hope



    Takeaways


    The importance of early detection in cancer treatment.

    Navigating the emotional challenges of fertility and cancer.

    The role of friendship and support during difficult times.

    Understanding the implications of PCOS on fertility.

    The significance of having options for family planning.

    The impact of surgical procedures on recovery and future health.

    Adjusting to hormonal changes after surgery.

    The challenges of second cancer diagnosis and treatment.

    Advocacy and sharing personal stories to inspire others.

    Exploring surrogacy as a viable option for family building.


    24 min
  • 53) IS TRUMP CHANGING SURROGACY BIRTHRIGHTS AND CITIZENSHIP WITH NEW ELECTION?

    In this episode of IVF Daddies, Rich Vaughn from the International Fertility Law Group discusses the implications of recent executive orders regarding birthright citizenship and surrogacy. The conversation explores the constitutional basis of birthright citizenship, the nuances of the executive order, and the potential impact on intended parents using surrogacy services in the U.S. Amidst concerns and uncertainties, Rich emphasizes the importance of understanding legal rights and navigating the challenges that may arise for families in the surrogacy process.


    Takeaways


    Birthright citizenship is part of the 14th Amendment.

    Executive orders cannot override constitutional rights.

    The executive order suggests a new interpretation of citizenship.

    Prong one of the order targets children of illegal immigrants.

    Prong two raises concerns for children born to temporary visa holders.

    Intended parents may face challenges in obtaining citizenship for their children.

    Legal status of parents affects citizenship rights of children.

    Temporary travel documents may be needed for international parents.

    There are always alternative solutions to legal challenges.

    Clarity on the executive order is expected as litigation unfolds.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Birthright Citizenship and Executive Orders

    02:41 Understanding the 14th Amendment and Birthright Citizenship

    05:32 Implications of Trump's Executive Order

    08:20 Legal Challenges and Court Proceedings

    10:47 Potential Outcomes for Surrogacy and Citizenship

    13:39 Conclusion and Future Considerations

    Sound Bites


    "This week has been monumental."

    "There's always a solution."

    "You're a superstar, thank you very much."



    15 min
  • 52) NAVIGATING PCOS, UNLOCKING YOUR INNER POWER.

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    Takeaways


    The power is already within us, and sometimes we just need a push.

    Discipline is key to achieving results in life.

    Health choices can significantly impact fertility and overall well-being.

    PCOS can be managed and even reversed through lifestyle changes.

    Self-care is crucial for parents to be effective caregivers.

    Parenting comes with pressures that can lead to comparison and self-doubt.

    Therapy can help couples navigate the challenges of parenthood and fertility.

    Creating awareness about one's health is the first step to improvement.

    Individual health journeys are unique and require tailored approaches.

    It's important to focus on personal growth and self-acceptance in parenting.

    Summary


    In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, host Julio speaks with Louisa, a certified life coach, about personal growth, health challenges, and the journey of parenthood. They discuss the importance of discipline, the power within us, and how to navigate health issues like PCOS. Louisa shares her experience with fertility, the significance of self-care for parents, and the pressures of parenting in today's world. The conversation also touches on the value of therapy in relationships and the need for awareness in individual health journeys.




    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction and Connection

    02:51 The Power Within Us

    06:09 Navigating PCOS and Health Choices

    11:48 The Journey to Parenthood

    17:57 Post-Pregnancy Health and Self-Care

    23:56 Parenting Perspectives and Challenges

    30:03 Therapy and Relationship Dynamics

    35:52 Awareness and Individual Health Journeys

    Sound Bites


    "Discipline gets results."

    "You need both 50-50."

    "Comparison is a big killer."


    Keywords


    IVF, surrogacy, PCOS, parenting, self-care, therapy, health, fertility, life coaching, personal growth



    41 min
  • 51) IS IVF SAFE DURING THE CALIFORNIA WILDFIRES?

    Takeaways


    The fertility community acts as first responders during crises.

    Safety protocols for frozen tissue are robust and reliable.

    Real-time monitoring of storage conditions is critical.

    Collaboration among fertility centers enhances patient care.

    Emergency communication systems are in place for patient updates.

    Contingency plans exist for relocating frozen tissue if needed.

    Air quality monitoring is essential for embryo safety.

    The community's support is vital during challenging times.

    Patients can be moved to partner facilities for ongoing treatment.

    The fertility industry is united in its response to emergencies.

    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to IVF During Crisis

    01:57 Ensuring Safety of Frozen Tissue

    05:44 Emergency Protocols for Natural Disasters

    10:21 Handling Active Treatment During Emergencies

    12:42 Community Collaboration in Fertility Care


    Summary


    In this conversation, Dr. Huang discusses the impact of recent crises in Los Angeles on fertility care, emphasizing the importance of safety protocols for frozen tissue, emergency response strategies, and the collaboration among fertility centers to ensure patient care during emergencies. The dialogue highlights the resilience of the community and the proactive measures taken to safeguard patients' reproductive materials and health.


    Sound Bites


    "We could message patients in real time."

    "We have contingency plans to finish treatments."

    "It's brought us together despite the hardship."



    15 min
  • 50) A Gay Dad's Perspective From Surrogacy to Parenthood: Michael and George's Story

    In this episode of the IVF Daddy's podcast, hosts Michael Snaric and George share their journey of becoming parents through IVF and surrogacy. They discuss the challenges they faced, including finding the right surrogate, navigating the NICU experience, and the importance of building a supportive community for LGBTQIA+ families. They also highlight their upcoming event aimed at making the family-building process more approachable and fun, featuring drag queens and a focus on inclusivity.

    Takeaways


    They connected on wanting children from their first date.

    The IVF journey was expedited due to family health concerns.

    Finding a supportive surrogate was crucial to their journey.

    The NICU experience was challenging but manageable.

    They emphasize the importance of a strong support system.

    Planning date nights is essential for maintaining balance.

    They actively seek to build a community for gay dads.

    Their upcoming event aims to make IVF discussions fun.

    Inclusivity in parenting is a key focus for them.

    They advocate for LGBTQIA+ families based on their experiences.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to the IVF Journey

    05:59 Finding the Right Surrogate

    12:01 Navigating Parenthood Together

    18:14 Building a Supportive Community

    23:47 Upcoming Events and Advocacy

    Keywords


    IVF, LGBTQIA+, surrogacy, parenting, community, NICU, gay dads, family building, support system, drag queens





    31 min
  • 49) THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF IVF AND SURROGACY

    In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Richard explore the intersection of reality TV and important topics surrounding women's health, fertility, and parenting. They discuss how reality shows have opened up conversations about painful periods, endometriosis, egg freezing, sperm donation, and the emotional aspects of parenthood. The hosts emphasize the importance of education and breaking taboos surrounding these issues, highlighting the role of public figures in normalizing discussions about fertility and women's rights.


    Chapters


    00:00 Reality TV as a Source of Information

    02:52 Understanding Women's Health Issues

    06:03 Egg Freezing and Fertility Options

    08:52 Sperm Donation and Its Implications

    12:12 The Emotional Aspects of Parenthood

    15:01 Abortion and Women's Rights

    17:48 The Role of Reality TV in Education

    21:12 Navigating Parenthood Decisions


    Takeaways


    Reality TV can be a surprising source of information.

    Many women suffer in silence regarding painful periods.

    Endometriosis is often misdiagnosed or ignored.

    Egg freezing is a viable option for women.

    Sperm donation can create complex family dynamics.

    The emotional journey of parenthood is significant.

    Abortion is a personal choice that should be respected.

    Reality TV can educate viewers on important issues.

    Infertility affects a significant portion of the population.

    Open discussions can help break societal taboos.


    Sound Bites


    "Reality TV is my source of information."

    "Freezing eggs is a great option."

    "It takes a village to raise a child."

    "Keep your doors open for family options."

    "Thank you for breaking taboos."


    Keywords


    IVF, reality TV, women's health, egg freezing, sperm donation, abortion, fertility, endometriosis, surrogacy, parenting decisions

    25 min

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