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In this episode, Whitney sits down with Claire, a two-time gestational carrier who shares what it’s like to walk through not one, but two very different surrogacy journeys. In her first experience, Claire opens up about navigating the heartbreak of a miscarriage followed by the joy of a successful embryo transfer. In her second journey, the pregnancy progressed smoothly until the anatomy scan revealed the baby had a congenital heart defect. This unexpected diagnosis brought new layers of emotion, medical planning, and continued hope as the journey unfolded.

Claire has experienced both the beauty and the challenges that come with helping grow a family through surrogacy. She speaks candidly about the emotional resilience required to walk this path, the deep connection between surrogates and intended parents, and what it means to show up with love and intention, even when things don’t go as planned.

If you’re looking for real stories, and a deeper understanding of the surrogacy experience, this conversation delivers.

Takeaways

- Exposure to surrogacy can normalize the concept for others.
- Community support is crucial for those navigating infertility.
- Miscarriage can be a shared experience between surrogates and intended parents.
- Surrogacy is a selfless act that requires emotional resilience.
- Hope is a challenging but necessary part of the journey.
- The matching process can feel like dating, with many deserving families.
- Unexpected challenges can arise during pregnancy.
- The delivery experience can differ from expectations.
- Life after birth involves ongoing care and adjustments.
- Building relationships with intended parents is important.
- Surrogacy can lead to unexpected emotional connections.
- Sharing stories can provide hope to others in similar situations.
- It's important to keep perspective and focus on the joy of helping others.

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In this episode, Whitney sits down with Mike and George, the inspiring founders of Families Out Loud, a community-centered organization supporting LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, solo parents, and allies on their path to parenthood.

Mike and George open up about their own journey to becoming dads—from the uncertainty of where to begin, to the unexpected challenges they faced on delivery day. Feeling isolated during such a pivotal time, they turned their experience into action—creating Families Out Loud as a space for others to find connection, guidance, and celebration along their own unique paths.

Together, they discuss the importance of inclusive resources, the power of community, and how humor, honesty, and even a little drag sparkle have helped shape their parenting story. You’ll also hear how Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions is honored to partner with Families Out Loud in this mission, helping support families of all kinds.

This episode is a heartfelt look at what’s possible when personal experience becomes powerful advocacy—and how love and support can make all the difference

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-“We had no roadmap.”: Mike and George share what it was like to start their family journey without knowing other gay dads—or where to even begin. That uncertainty was the spark that led to building something bigger than themselves
-Creating what they wish they had: From answering DMs from curious intended parents to designing inclusive events, Families Out Loud was born from a desire to offer clarity, connection, and real support for those navigating similar paths
-Community that feels like family: Their events are warm, welcoming, and full of personality—think expert panels and drag queens. Whether you're seeking serious guidance or just someone who “gets it,” there’s space for every kind of family
-Visibility and access matter: Families Out Loud provides more than inspiration—they offer resources, connections, and even financial grants to help ease the path to parenthood
-No one-size-fits-all: Whether it's navigating NICU challenges, building a support team, or deciding when (or if) to grow your family, Mike and George remind us that every journey is unique—and that’s something worth celebrating

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In this insightful episode, Whitney and Ruth take a deep dive into the world of egg donation. Ruth shares her motivations for becoming a donor, the vital support she received from her family and medical professionals, and the emotions surrounding her contribution to family building—particularly within the LGBTQ community. She walks through the matching process, the considerations between known and unidentified donations, and what it was like to experience the egg retrieval procedure and recovery firsthand. The discussion also covers common misconceptions about egg donation, the importance of open conversations about DNA and family, and the power of community support. Ruth’s story is a powerful reflection on generosity, advocacy, and the deep connections that can form through the gift of egg donation.


Takeaways

-Ruth's journey to becoming an egg donor was influenced by her family's positive discussions about donation.
-Support from her partner was crucial during the egg donation process.
-Ruth felt a strong connection to the same-sex couple she donated to, enhancing her experience.
-The decision to be an unidentified donor was based on her belief that family is who you make it.
-Ruth experienced physical discomfort during the medication process but leaned on friends for support.
-The emotional aspect of receiving a thank you note from the intended parents was significant for Ruth.
-Ruth's experience with anesthesia during retrieval was both humorous and surreal.
-Ruth's excitement on the day of retrieval was akin to Christmas morning.
-The overall experience of egg donation was rewarding and fulfilling for Ruth.
-Ruth describes the emotional support she receives from her wife during recovery.
-Understanding the science behind egg retrieval and its implications.
-The importance of following medical advice post-procedure for a smooth recovery.
-Celebrating the success of having healthy embryos from the retrieval process.
-The misconceptions surrounding egg donation and embryo creation.
-Navigating difficult conversations about DNA and family dynamics.
-The significance of community support in the egg donation journey.
-Ruth's advice to future donors to lean on their resources and connections.
-The meaningful contribution of egg donation to families, especially in the LGBTQ community.

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This episode is full of heart, laughter, and the kind of love that reminds you why family-building matters so much, especially during Pride Month.

Whitney sits down with Zach and Scott Sutton, two joyful, thoughtful dads who share their journey to parenthood through egg donation and surrogacy. From choosing between an unidentified or known egg donor, to navigating delivery day with their surrogate, Zach and Scott walk us through each step with honesty, humor, and so much intention.

But this conversation goes beyond the logistics. It’s about why they made the choices they did, how they’re committed to honoring and celebrating their daughter’s story, and the importance of visibility and openness around donor conception, especially as an LGBTQ+ family.

Their journey is a beautiful example of growing a family with purpose, love, and deep mutual respect. Whether you're in the middle of your own path to parenthood or just love a good story, this episode will leave you feeling uplifted, inspired, and proud.

Takeaways
- Zach always wanted a big family and felt destined to have children.
- The financial realities of family building can be daunting but manageable.
- Choosing an egg donor involves emotional and practical considerations.
- Building a family is a partnership that requires open communication.
- The journey of parenthood can be filled with excitement and fear.
- It's important to break the stigma around donor conception for children.
- Finding the right donor can feel overwhelming but rewarding.
- Relationships with donors and surrogates can evolve positively over time.
- Creating a supportive community is essential.
- Letting go of control can lead to a more peaceful journey.
- Communication with the support team helps alleviate anxiety.
- Family acceptance can be a complex journey.
- They emphasize the importance of chosen family in the LGBTQ community.
- The journey of parenthood has strengthened their relationship. It's important to celebrate your family and identity.

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In this episode, Whitney is joined by Brandi Pearce, a mom of three whose path to parenthood through surrogacy is nothing short of inspiring. Battling Crohn’s disease made pregnancy too risky, but that never deterred Brandi from her dreams of becoming a mother. She turned to surrogacy not once, but three times to create her beautiful family. Two of those journeys were independent, and her final journey was with Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, where she experienced the ease and support of having a full team walk alongside her.

We talk about the differences between each journey, what she learned along the way, and how having the right support can make all the difference. Brandi also shares the special way she prepared her son for baby brother, by writing a children’s book that explains their beautiful family journey in a way that’s simple, sweet, and filled with love.

Whether you're considering surrogacy, in the middle of the process, or supporting someone who is, Brandi’s story is a reminder of the many ways families are built and the beauty that can unfold when you lean into the process with openness and heart.

Takeaways

-Brandi faced significant health challenges that impacted her ability to carry children.
-Surrogacy was chosen as a viable option for family building.
-The legal complexities of surrogacy vary by state and can be daunting.
-Emotional support is crucial during the surrogacy process.
-Brandi's journey involved multiple surrogates and unique challenges each time.
-The transition to agency support alleviated some of the stress of the process.
-Building relationships with surrogates is essential for a positive experience.
- Brandi's experiences highlight the importance of communication in surrogacy.
-Postpartum feelings can affect surrogate mothers as well as biological mothers.
-Surrogacy is a deeply personal journey that varies for each family.
-Communication is key in surrogacy relationships.
-Every surrogacy journey is unique and cannot be generalized.
-Hidden illnesses like Crohn's disease can complicate family planning.
-Documenting the surrogacy journey can help children understand their family dynamics.
-Celebrating diverse family structures is essential for acceptance.
-Transitioning to new family dynamics requires careful planning and support.
-Simplifying conversations about surrogacy for children can ease their understanding.
-Parents should not fear discussing surrogacy with their kids.
-Embracing the unknown can lead to a more enjoyable surrogacy experience.
-Finding joy in simple moments can strengthen family bonds.

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Get ready for a beautiful and insightful conversation with Dr. Alison Wilson, a licensed psychologist and expert in fertility counseling. As a respected voice in the field and a dedicated advocate for mental health in reproductive journeys, Alison shares her wisdom on the emotional complexities of surrogacy and egg donation covering everything from grief and trust to communication and mental health check-ins.
In this episode, Alison and Whitney dive into the “why” behind becoming a surrogate or egg donor, the emotional highs and lows that often come with the journey, and the power of feeling seen and supported. Alison also shares how she’s now leading support groups for gestational carriers at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, creating safe, empowering spaces for surrogates to connect and thrive.
Whether you're a surrogate, an intended parent, or someone supporting others through this process, this episode is packed with warmth, practical insight, and encouragement for the road ahead.
Takeaways

Mental and Emotional Health Matter: Mental health check-ins and emotional preparation are essential throughout the journey. Awareness of mental health in fertility clinics is evolving, and acknowledging grief, especially for intended parents, is an important part of the process.

Understanding Motivations: Understanding your motivation for becoming a surrogate is key to a successful journey

Take Time for Grief: Taking time to grieve the loss of traditional family-building methods, lays the foundation for a healthy, supported experience.

Power of Support Groups: Support groups offer surrogates a safe space to connect, share experiences, and feel understood. Hearing from others, having strong facilitators, and ending on a positive note all contribute to a supportive environment.

Connection Builds Resilience: Surrogates often bring positivity but also face unique emotional challenges. Connection with others going through similar journeys can be incredibly validating and empowering.

Communication and Trust Are Key: Open, honest communication builds trust between intended parents and surrogates. Managing expectations and trusting the process help everyone navigate the ups and downs with empathy and understanding.

Surrogacy Is a Beautiful Journey: Despite its complexities, surrogacy can be a deeply meaningful and beautiful experience when approached with care, connection, and emotional support.

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In this heartfelt episode, Ashley Harris takes us on her deeply personal journey through infertility, adoption, and surrogacy. Starting with her childhood dreams of adopting, Ashley shares how the years brought both unexpected joys and painful struggles. After multiple failed IUIs and IVF cycles, compounded by the emotional toll of miscarriages, Ashley and her husband decided to explore surrogacy. This life-changing decision led to the birth of their son, Hawk. Through the ups and downs, Ashley reveals the crucial role of community support, the intertwining of grief and gratitude, and how her faith evolved as she faced and overcame these challenges.

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-Ashley and her husband faced infertility after years of trying to conceive.
-The decision to pursue surrogacy came after multiple failed IVF attempts.
-Ashley emphasizes the importance of community and support during infertility.
-The emotional toll of miscarriages and chemical pregnancies was significant.
-Faith played a crucial role in Ashley's journey, evolving through trials.
-The relationship with their surrogate, Christine, was built on trust and gratitude.
-The birth of their son, Hawk, was a culmination of years of struggle and hope.
-Ashley continues to grieve the losses they experienced along the way.
-Celebrating motherhood comes with acknowledging the hardships faced.

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Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of miscarriage and fertility loss, which may be difficult for some listeners.

In this episode, I sit down with Brittany to talk about her emotional and incredibly meaningful journey to motherhood through egg donation and IVF. Brittany shares openly about her diagnosis of endometriosis, her experience with a successful embryo transfer that brought her her daughter, and a later transfer that ended in miscarriage, along with the many ups and downs that were a part of her journey.

She reflects on the support system that carried her through, the joy and gratitude she felt during pregnancy after so much waiting, and the continued hope she holds as she considers growing her family again.

Brittany’s story is tender, courageous, and full of perspective. It’s a reminder that even in the hardest seasons, love, support, and hope can carry us forward.

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- Endometriosis diagnosis revealed severe complications affecting fertility.
- IVF was pursued after unsuccessful attempts to conceive naturally.
- Emotional challenges were significant throughout the fertility process.
- Finding the right egg donor involved careful consideration and support.
- Connection with the baby grew stronger during pregnancy despite initial fears.
- Miscarriage brought unexpected emotional challenges and reflection.
- The couple decided to take a break after experiencing loss.
- They are open to exploring adoption or fostering as alternatives.
- Support from friends and family was crucial during the journey

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In this heartfelt episode, Whitney sits down with Amy and Rachel to discuss the deeply personal and evolving nature of their egg donation journey. Rachel, originally expecting her role as a donor to be unidentified, shares how her connection with Amy developed into a lasting and meaningful relationship. Amy reflects on what it meant to find not just a donor, but a person who would forever be connected to her family. The conversation explores the emotions, challenges, and joys of third-party reproduction, emphasizing the importance of open communication, trust, and the unexpected beauty of their shared experiences. Rachel and Amy’s story is a powerful testament to the many ways families can be built—not just through biology, but through love, respect, and human connection.

Takeaways

-The journey of egg donation is deeply emotional and relational.
-Open communication between donors and intended parents is crucial.
-Gratitude plays a significant role in the donor-recipient relationship.
-The process of building a family through donation can be complex yet rewarding.
-Understanding the creation story is important for children born through donation.
-The bond formed between donors and intended parents can be profound.
-Personal connections can alleviate anxiety during the donation process.
-The experience of egg donation can lead to lifelong relationships.
-Navigating the unknown aspects of donation requires openness and trust.
-Celebrating the gift of life is central to the donor experience.
-Rachel's initial expectation was for an unidentified donation.
-The relationship between donor and intended parents can evolve significantly.
-Open communication enhances the emotional fulfillment of all parties involved.
-Amy expresses gratitude for Rachel's role in her family's journey.
-Children can simplify complex topics like family building.
-The bond between donor and intended parents can feel like an extended family.
-Sharing updates and experiences strengthens the connection.
-Both women found joy in their shared experiences of motherhood.
-Openness and respect are crucial in donor-parent relationships.
-The journey of egg donation is not just a transaction but a meaningful connection.

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Whitney welcomes Zach French for an enlightening discussion on infertility awareness, surrogacy advocacy, and the power of community support. Zach shares his personal journey that led him to champion ethical surrogacy and establish a nonprofit dedicated to supporting intended parents. The conversation covers financial challenges, the need for transparency in grants, and the importance of shifting the narrative surrounding surrogacy through education and storytelling. Zach also introduces future goals for his foundation, including a digital companion for intended parents. The episode concludes with empowering advice for families to celebrate every milestone in their surrogacy journey.

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- National Infertility Awareness Week is crucial for
- Surrogacy is often misunderstood and stigmatized.
- The foundation aims to provide grants for surrogacy costs.
- Community support is vital for fundraising efforts.
- Financial considerations are complex in surrogacy journeys.
- Education is key to reducing overwhelm in potential parents.
- The foundation seeks to change the narrative around surrogacy.
- Surrogacy should be viewed as a valid family-building option.
- Seeds Ethics is crucial for ethical surrogacy practices.
- Celebrating surrogacy journeys helps normalize the experience.
- Intended parents can pay it forward by sharing their stories.
- Building a comprehensive resource for intended parents is essential.
- The Surrogacy Foundation aims to increase access to surrogacy.
- Financial education is vital for navigating surrogacy costs.
- Community support can relieve feelings of loneliness in infertility.

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