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In this episode, Allison shares her emotional journey of becoming a parent through surrogacy, offering insights into the highs and lows of the process. She discusses the challenges of IVF and the joy of finding a surrogate, Kellie, who felt like the perfect match. Allison reflects on the excitement and anticipation of transfer day, the support from family and friends, and the strength she found through each milestone. As her relationship with Kellie deepened, Allison experienced the profound beauty of celebrating each step together, including the unforgettable moment of delivery day. With invaluable advice for intended parents and surrogates, Allison’s story is one of resilience, trust, and the powerful impact of a strong support system in creating a family.
Takeaways

-Surrogacy is often not the first choice for family building.
-IVF can be an emotional rollercoaster with many ups and downs.
-Having a supportive partner is crucial during the journey.
-Building relationships with surrogates can enhance the experience.
-Hope plays a vital role in navigating challenges.
-Finding the right match can happen quickly and unexpectedly.
-Trusting your instincts is important in the surrogacy process.
-Support systems can help alleviate the emotional burden.
-It's essential to communicate openly with your partner.
-The journey to parenthood can be filled with both challenges and joy.
-Support from family was overwhelming and uplifting.
-Bonding over the surrogacy process was a unique experience.
-Dealing with disappointment is part of the journey.
-Delivery day is a surreal experience that changes everything in an instant.
-The support from medical staff and the community is crucial in the surrogacy process.
-It's important to let go of sadness and disappointment to embrace the joy of parenthood.
-Surrogacy is a selfless act that significantly impacts the lives of intended parents.
-The emotional journey of surrogacy can be filled with peace and joy despite challenges.
-Building a family through surrogacy is a beautiful process that deserves recognition.
-Every moment of the journey, from appointments to delivery, is filled with significance.
-The relationship between surrogates and intended parents can be nurturing and supportive

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In this engaging episode, children whose mom has been a surrogate for two different families open up about their personal experiences and evolving understanding of surrogacy. Interviewed by peers whose moms were also surrogates, the discussion dives into how they explain the concept of surrogacy to their friends and the excitement they feel about being part of such unique family dynamics. The conversation highlights the importance of clear communication, empathy, and the supportive relationships formed between the children and the families they help. Through their candid and insightful reflections, these young voices demonstrate that, despite any complexities, surrogacy is a journey filled with connection, joy, and mutual understanding.

Takeaways

-Maggie's perspective on her mom's surrogacy has evolved positively.
-The children feel happy to be part of the surrogate family's story.
-Surrogacy is seen as a fun and exciting experience by the children.
-They find it easy to explain their mom's role to peers.
-Most peers view surrogacy as a cool concept rather than something weird.
-Curiosity about surrogacy is common among their friends.
-The children appreciate the relationships formed with the families.
-They encourage other kids to embrace the experience of having a surrogate parent.
-Asking questions about surrogacy is important for understanding.
-The children feel their family circle has expanded positively.

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In this episode of Me, You, & Who?!, Executive Director Katy Encalade takes us inside the 2024 SEEDS Conference—a gathering dedicated to setting ethical standards in egg donation and surrogacy. Katy sits down with industry leaders, including Adam Winder of SeedTrust, Dr. Joao De Pinho of Reproductive Centers of America, Lisa Chiya, President and Founder of Genesis Group, as well as the Co-Founder and Managing Partner of Modern Parent Mentor and Surrogacy Mentor, Lisa Stark Hughes, President and CEO of Gestational Surrogate Moms and Sarah Paige COO of ART Risk Financial & Insurance Solutions.

Together, they discuss the evolving landscape of third-party reproduction, the ethical considerations shaping the industry, and the innovations driving the future of family building. Tune in for an insightful conversation with the experts at the forefront of surrogacy and egg donation.

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In this insightful episode, Whitney talks with Marla Neufeld, an ART attorney and former intended parent, about the complex world of Assisted Reproductive Technology law. Focusing on surrogacy in Florida, they discuss common misconceptions, the emotional and financial challenges intended parents face, and the crucial role of clear communication and strong legal support throughout the process. Marla’s personal experience as an intended parent adds a unique layer to the conversation, highlighting the importance of empathy and understanding in her legal practice. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the legal side of building families through surrogacy.


Takeaways

-Marla is an ART attorney and former intended parent.
-Personal experiences in infertility shape legal practices.
-Communication is key in the surrogacy process.
-Florida has unique surrogacy laws requiring medical need.
-Surrogacy is not the same as adoption in legal terms.
-Financial transparency is crucial for intended parents.
-Emotional support is vital for all parties involved.
-Legal agreements should be handled by experienced attorneys.
-Intended parents should be open-minded about options.
-Estate planning is important for intended parents.

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In this episode, Michela shares her powerful story of navigating infertility, endometriosis and autoimmune challenges, as well as multiple miscarriages, ultimately leading her to pursue surrogacy. From her search for the right surrogacy agency to the emotional highs and lows of the journey, Michela describes the strength she drew from her faith, her family, and her surrogate. The conversation sheds light on the profound impact of a life-limiting diagnosis during a surrogate pregnancy, and how Michela balanced grief with gratitude as she continued on the path to parenthood with another surrogacy journey and then awaiting the arrival of her son, Noah. Highlighting the importance of prayer, trust, and the unique connection between surrogates and intended parents, Michela’s story is one of resilience, hope, and the joy found amidst the challenges of surrogacy.

Takeaways
-Michela's journey to surrogacy began after years of infertility struggles facing multiple miscarriages and IVF challenges before considering surrogacy.
-Faith played a crucial role in her ability to cope with the emotional toll of infertility.
-Finding a surrogacy agency that aligned with her values was essential for Michela.
-She experienced a significant emotional burden during her journey, often feeling isolated.
-Michela's story highlights the importance of support systems during infertility.
-The decision to pursue surrogacy was driven by her medical challenges and desire for a family.
-She emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding from friends and family during difficult times. It's a journey that takes time and patience.
-The joy of pregnancy can be overshadowed by unexpected challenges.
-Finding peace amidst grief is possible with the right support.
-The importance of open communication with all parties involved.
-Celebrating small moments of joy can help during difficult times.
-Taking time to heal is essential before moving forward.
-Building a strong connection with the surrogate is essential.
-Cautious optimism is a common feeling during the pregnancy journey.
-Surrogacy is a beautiful gift for both surrogates and intended parents.
-Sharing the journey with family and friends enhances the experience.
-The bond formed during surrogacy lasts a lifetime.

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In this episode of Me, You, & Who?!, Kolleen shares her inspiring story of becoming a surrogate, offering insights into her motivations, the importance of trust with intended parents, and the emotional journey from transfer day to delivery. She reflects on her family’s supportive role, the emotional highs and lows of pregnancy, and the challenges of navigating postpartum recovery. Kolleen also highlights the significance of a strong support network, including her intended parents and doula, and shares valuable advice for both prospective surrogates and intended parents. Her journey has even led to a career change inspired by her surrogacy experience, adding yet another layer to her incredible story.

Takeaways

-Kolleen felt called to surrogacy since high school.
-Researching agencies was crucial to finding a legitimate option.
-Building a connection with intended parents is essential.
-Medical screenings help establish trust and safety.
-The matching process can be unpredictable but rewarding.
-Transfer day is a significant milestone in the journey.
-Family support plays a vital role in the surrogacy experience.
-Communication with intended parents fosters a strong bond.
-Pregnancy brings both excitement and challenges.
-Surrogacy can change perspectives on family and parenthood.
-Delivery day was surreal and emotional for everyone involved.
-Having a doula provided essential support during labor.
-Bonding with intended parents was a significant part of the journey.
-Post-delivery emotions felt like holding a best friend's baby.
-Navigating hormonal changes after delivery can be challenging.
-Maintaining relationships with intended parents is important post-delivery.
-Trusting your gut is crucial when matching with intended parents.
-Doulas can provide non-judgmental support and education.
-Kolleen's experience inspired her to become a doula and support others.

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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jerald Goldstein discusses his path to becoming a reproductive endocrinologist and the emotional and scientific aspects of fertility treatments. He shares his perspectives on the evolving landscape of reproductive technology, the vital role of egg donation and surrogacy in family building, and addresses common misconceptions about the process. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Goldstein emphasizes the importance of patient education, support, and resilience in facing fertility challenges. He offers practical advice for intended parents and donors, stressing the value of trusted guidance and the strength to persevere. The episode concludes with heartwarming reflections on the joy of witnessing successful pregnancies and the deep fulfillment of helping families come to life.

Takeaways

-Dr. Goldstein's journey into medicine was driven by a fascination with pregnancy.
-Reproductive endocrinology combines various aspects of medicine, including surgery and psychology.
-The emotional landscape of fertility treatments is complex and requires sensitivity.
-Providing information helps alleviate anxiety for patients facing infertility.
-The evolution of reproductive technology has significantly improved success rates.
-Surrogacy and egg donation have become more mainstream and accessible.
-Common misconceptions about third-party reproduction often stem from societal stigma.
-Intended parents should seek multiple opinions and find a supportive clinic.
-The joy of hearing a baby's heartbeat during the first OB scan is unparalleled.
-Fertility Specialists of Texas prioritizes patient care and has a strong support team.

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In this episode, I sit down with Jaleen and Shevaun to talk about their incredible journeys as egg donors. We dive into how they first discovered egg donation, what motivated them to give this amazing gift, and the emotional and physical aspects of being a donor. Throughout our chat, we highlight the crucial role of support—whether from family, friends, or agencies—as well as clear up some of the common misconceptions around egg donation. Plus, they offer insightful advice for anyone considering becoming a donor and discuss the lasting impact of their contributions. Jaleen and Shevaun also share the immense fulfillment they’ve found in helping families grow and reflect on the joy that comes from being part of such an important process.

Takeaways

Egg donation is a deeply rewarding experience.
Support from family and friends is crucial during the process.
Misconceptions about egg donation often stem from a lack of understanding.
The emotional impact of helping families is profound.
It's important to do thorough research before becoming a donor.
Communication with coordinators can ease anxiety about the process.
Hydration and self-care are essential during the donation process.
Each donor's journey is unique and should be respected.
The process can be straightforward with the right support.
Connecting with other donors can provide valuable insights.

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In this enlightening conversation, Whitney and Meg explore the intricate world of surrogacy through the lens of someone who has both experienced it firsthand and now works to guide others on their own paths. Meg reveals her personal journey, underscoring the emotional, logistical, and often misunderstood aspects of surrogacy. Together, they discuss why advocacy is so vital, how surrogacy has evolved over the years, and the importance of reputable agencies that prioritize transparent communication and surrogate well-being. Listeners will come away with a deeper appreciation for the trust, education, and support required to make these family-building journeys successful—while also getting to know one of the EDSS team members who may just be walking beside them every step of the way.

Takeaways

-Meg's journey into surrogacy began after her own experience with infertility.
-The emotional journey of surrogacy involves understanding the pain of intended parents.
-Memorable moments in surrogacy include heartbeat confirmations and delivery days.
-Education is crucial for surrogates to understand the process and their role.
-Surrogates should be sensitive to the emotions of intended parents.
-Transparency in the surrogacy process helps manage expectations.
-First-time surrogates need to feel trust in their agency and coordinators.
-Having an advocate is essential for navigating the surrogacy process.
-Surrogacy is a journey that requires preparation for both best and worst-case scenarios.
-Meg emphasizes the importance of comprehensive education for surrogates. --Your attorney should advocate for you, not the agency.
-Surrogates must have a voice in their journey.
-Not all surrogacy agencies are reputable; research is key.
-Public awareness of surrogacy has increased over time.
-Surrogates are often well-educated about the process now.
-Misconceptions about surrogacy often stem from media portrayals.
-Surrogates are financially stable individuals, not desperate for money.
-Surrogacy is not baby selling; it's a legal and ethical process.
-The joy of baby day is unparalleled in surrogacy.
-Finding the right agency is crucial for a positive experience.

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In this powerful episode, Erin shares her personal story of resilience as she navigated leukemia and its impact on her fertility. She candidly discusses the challenges she faced during her cancer treatment, the emotional complexities of egg donation, and the critical role of advocacy in oncology. Erin emphasizes the importance of preventative care and highlights valuable resources available to women facing similar health journeys. Her story is a beacon of hope and a call to action for women to prioritize their health and explore their options, even in the face of adversity.


Takeaways

-Erin had leukemia at a young age, impacting her fertility options.
-The technology for egg freezing has significantly improved over the years.
-Ongoing conversations about fertility are crucial for young adults with cancer.
-Understanding the financial and logistical aspects of egg donation is essential.
-Advocacy for fertility preservation is important in oncology care.
-Preventative care, including regular GYN visits, is vital for women's health.
-The HPV vaccine is a significant advancement in preventing cervical cancer.
-Patients should feel empowered to ask questions during medical appointments.
-Building a supportive healthcare team is crucial for navigating fertility issues.
-Keeping an open mind during the egg donation process can lead to better outcomes.

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