What if the hardest part of infertility wasn’t just the treatments… but the fact that no one even knew how hard you tried?

In this episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast, we’re talking about an overlooked reality: what it feels like to go through years of IVF and fertility treatments and never even get a positive pregnancy test.

No bump.

No loss others can see. Just you, quietly rearranging your life around the hope of motherhood… with nothing to show for it when it didn’t work.

This is for you if you’re childless after infertility and have felt the sting of being dismissed, forgotten, or misunderstood because your story doesn’t come with "visible" grief.

Here’s what we cover:

• Why IVF without pregnancy leaves a haunting silence around your story

• The reality of disenfranchised grief when you’re infertile and childless

• Why comparing your pain to others doesn’t bring healing, it brings shame

• The myth that you have to love your story in order to find peace

• How to stop minimizing your experience and start creating a future you feel proud of

• What it looks like to reclaim your voice and move forward without motherhood

You don’t have to keep shrinking your grief or hiding your truth just to make others comfortable. This episode reminds you that you were in it. And that’s enough to matter.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your story counts because you never got pregnant—this episode is your reminder:

You don’t need proof to be seen. You don’t need a baby to validate your grief. You were there. You gave everything. And that matters.

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