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This is definitely a NSFW episode and sexually explicit so...you've all been warned :)

Yes, it's Andrew Rimby's 30th Birthday so here's a special Fire Island birthday episode!  Andrew takes you behind the scenes of his Cherry Grove birthday vacation. 

Imagine that you arrive, on a rainy day, to the Sayville Ferry and are schlepping your luggage onto the ferry, but once you arrive to Cherry Grove and pull up to the dock, a gay pleasure island awaits you.    

Andrew reads from his Fire Island vacation journal to reveal what took place during his week long trip, including some sensual poetic writing. 

The Belvedere Guest House For Men is a gay male hotel which serves as the heartbeat of queer male energy for all of Cherry Grove. And, Andrew explains why "the hint of sex is always in the air" at this hotel. How does queer male desire manifest itself from the beach, to the hotel, to the restaurant scene? All of these questions are answered. 

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Andrew Rimby, Executive Director; Mary DiPipi, Chief Contributor; Kimberly Dallas, Editor

Music Credit: Paul Jabara's "Pleasure Island" (C) 1978, Casablanca Records (Universal Music Group)

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Hey, true crime friends! This week I am continuing with the issue of bullying and bringing you a tragic case that highlights the worst effects of bullying. I am also joined by the co-founder of Mallory's Army- Dianne Grossman. Together we break down the issue of bullying and how parents, students, and teachers can help to reduce this common issue that most students today face. 

To watch the movie Mallory, click here. I highly recommend this beautiful documentary directed by Ash Patino 

If you or someone you know is a victim of bullying, here are some resources that can help. 

Home - Mallory's Army (mallorysarmy.org)

Home | stopbullyingnow

Tools and Resources - The BULLY Project

What To Do If Your Child Is Being Bullied And Resources (stompoutbullying.org)

Bullying Prevention (nasponline.org)

Today's Sources: 

https://www.nj.com/morris/2017/08/timeline_mallory_grossman_death.html

https://nypost.com/2018/06/20/mom-says-principal-humiliated-12-year-old-daughter-before-suicide/

https://patch.com/new-jersey/parsippany/no-criminal-charges-mallory-grossmans-death-prosecutor

https://www.foxnews.com/health/cyberbullying-all-american-little-girl-suicide

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Fresh off of his 30th birthday Fire Island celebration, Andrew turns to author Jack Parlett to answer all the burning questions about Fire Island. Jack is the author of Fire Island: A Century in the Life of an American Paradise and The Poetics of Cruising: Queer Visual Culture from Whitman to Grindr which were both published in 2022. 

Be prepared for an explicit discussion about how Queer male eroticism and desire manifests itself at Fire Island. Here are a few topics that Jack delves into...

The history of how Cherry Grove and the Pines became premier LGBTQ+ resort towns. The authors who flocked to Cherry Grove or the Pines to embrace their queer male identity and find an accepting community. What cruising is and how to explain this sexual phenomenon to a straight audience? Don't worry, Jack breaks down what the infamous Meat Rack is? Then, Andrew plays a Walt Whitman and Oscar Wilde game with Jack and asks...What would Walt or Oscar be doing on Fire Island in 2022? 

Learn more about Jack's writing and literary research on his website: https://www.jackparlett.com/

Follow Jack Parlett on Instagram, @jack_parlett, and Twitter, @jvjparlett. 

Get your hands on Jack's Fire Island here: https://bookshop.org/books/fire-island-a-century-in-the-life-of-an-american-paradise-9798200915637/9781335475183

You can get Jack's The Poetics of Cruising here: https://bookshop.org/books/the-poetics-of-cruising-queer-visual-culture-from-whitman-to-grindr-9781517911041/9781517911041

Listen to Joe Jameson perform Fire Island on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/Fire-Island-Audiobook/B09MDL3484?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp&shareTest=TestShare

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Andrew Rimby, Executive Director; Mary DiPipi, Chief Contributor; Kimberly Dallas, Editor

Music Credit: The Village People's "Fire Island" (C) 1977, Casablanca Records (Universal Music Group) 

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Hey, true crime friends! In this week's episode, we will be breaking down a worldwide issue facing all levels of academia- bullying. 

If you or someone you know is being bullied you can go to StopBullying.gov

Sources for today's episode: 

http://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/bullying-statistics.html#:~:text=%20Bullying%20statistics%3A%20%201%20About%2042%20percent,about%2077%20percent%20of%20students%20have...%20More%20

https://www.pacer.org/bullying/info/stats.asp

https://www.verywellfamily.com/facts-about-college-bullying-460487

https://admissionsly.com/bullying-statistics/

https://myusf.usfca.edu/caps/bullying_on_college_campuses

https://www.stopbullying.gov/bullying/effects

https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/research-resources/consequences-of-bullying

https://www.yalemedicine.org/news/understanding-bullying

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/bullying

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/bully

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Celia Laskey, joins us back in the Ivory Tower Boiler Room to talk about her explosive new novel So Happy For You which is a queer wedding thriller. Right away she opens up about the writing process and explains what it was like to go from Under the Rainbow, a novel made up of short stories, to So Happy For You, a novel that centers on one character. So Happy For You is a satirical dystopic novel that pokes holes in the wedding industry while also delivering a fast paced queer psychological thriller...think Margaret Atwood meets Ruth Ware! 

Because Andrew and Mary know Celia from their Under the Rainbow discussion, the three waste no time in discussing Celia's love of queer thrillers (Micah Nemerever and PJ Vernon we're looking at you) and whether Celia has read psychological thrillers by Ruth Ware, Gillian Flynn, A.J. Finn, or Paula Hawkins. Why does Celia think So Happy For You is more cinematic than Under the Rainbow? And is it being developed into a film? 

Then, she reveals why Robin, our main character's PhD in Women's, Gender, and Sexuality Studies is so important to the narrative and yes, Andrew shouts out Stony Brook University's own WGSS department! 

Get your hands on So Happy For You here: https://bookshop.org/books/so-happy-for-you/9781335426901

Or listen to Kristen Sieh's dynamic reading on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/So-Happy-for-You-Audiobook/B09PQN6657

You don't want to miss Celia Laskey's updates about her literary career so make sure you follow her on IG, @celia.laskey and Twitter, @celia_laskey.

If you haven't yet, listen to our Under the Rainbow episode: https://anchor.fm/ivorytowerboilerroom/episodes/Whats-LGBTQ-Small-Town-America--Under-the-Rainbows-Celia-Laskey-Has-the-Answer-e1h8o15

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Many thanks to the Ivory Tower Boiler Room podcast team:

Andrew Rimby, Executive Director; Mary DiPipi, Chief Contributor; Kimberly Dallas, Editor

"Chapel of Love" (C) 1964, Red Bird Records

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Hey, true crime friends! In this week's episode, we will discuss the murder of Ohio State med student Theora Hix at the hand of veterinary med professor- Dr. James Snook. 

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Phil Stamper, bestselling author of Queer books for kids and teens, joins Andrew to talk about his recent book Golden Boys. Golden Boys is the perfect summer friendship story, starring four queer boys with big hearts and even bigger dreams. As Phil discusses with Andrew, it's like the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, except the boys might be romantically interested in one another. 

He is also the author of Small Town Pride, The Gravity of Us, and As Far As You'll Take Me, and you can find all of his work, including merch, at his website: https://philstamper.com/

Get your hands on Phil's Golden Boys here: https://bookshop.org/books/golden-boys-9781547607372

Or listen to Michael Crouch, Graham Halstead, Shawn K. Jain, Briggon Snow, Karissa Vacker deliver an incredible Golden Boys Audible experience: https://www.audible.com/pd/Golden-Boys-Audiobook/0593347684

Follow Phil on IG, @stampepk, and Twitter, @stampepk. 

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Andrew Rimby, Executive Director; Mary DiPipi, Chief Contributor; Kimberly Dallas, Editor

Harry Styles' "Golden" (C) 2019, Erskine and Columbia Records 

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Calling all British Modernist literature lovers and Gay Fiction lovers, this episode is for you! 

Andrew is joined with William di Canzio, who is a novelist, playwright, and scholar, and he recently wrote Alec, which expands E.M. Forster's openly queer male love story, Maurice. Andrew and William open up about their first experience with E.M. Forster's groundbreaking love story and how it speaks to their gay male identity. William reveals why he didn't change any of Forster's narrative between Maurice and Alec, and why he thinks Alec's same-sex desire is much more nuanced than Maurice's. Not only is William indebted to the late great E.M. Forster, but he actually knows James Ivory, the director of the 1987 film adaptation. They actually went to lunch together! What happened at this lunch? 

Andrew gets William to talk about writing sex scenes between Maurice and Alec, and they both weigh in on why sex scenes in literature can be so different than in film or TV. 

William also provides advice about writing a play, compared to writing a novel, compared to writing scholarship. Are all of these genres related in his opinion? Andrew makes sure to shout out friends of the podcast, including Matt Aucoin (who William adores), Gregory Maguire (who knows intimately about retelling a popular tale), and Jan Balakian (who balances being a playwright and a scholar).

You can buy Alec here: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780374102609/alec

Listen to John Sackville read Alec on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/Alec-Audiobook/1250804523

Learn more about William di Canzio's literary work here: https://us.macmillan.com/author/williamdicanzio

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Andrew Rimby, Executive Director; Mary DiPipi, Chief Contributor; Nicole Arguello, Marketing Assistant; Kimberly Dallas, Editor

Thanks to Anne Sophie Andersen and Meghan Ames for our theme song, "Loverman."

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Now where did we leave off? Oh, that's right Andrew and Taria were about to reveal their opinions on Andy Cohen! 

Get ready for Andrew and Taria to bring the Real Housewives into the Ivory Tower! They reveal the behind the scenes of creating the Real Housewives and provide a scholarly analysis for many eyebrow raising moments from Beverly Hills' past and present. Remember the epic Game Night episode featuring Kim Richards, Brandi Glanville, Kyle Richards, Taylor Armstrong, and a frightened Dana Wilkey? How did this Real Housewives of Beverly Hills drama continue to unfold when Lisa Rinna joined the cast? What did Kim mean in Amsterdam when she told Lisa "Let's Talk About the Husband" (Harry Hamlin)? 

Other topics that are covered in this epic conversation include why Dana Wilkey is blacklisted by Bravo? What are Taria and Andrew's opinions about Andy Cohen and is he doing a good job at racially integrating the Real Housewives? Why did Eboni K. Williams deal with so much resistance, with her Real Housewives of New York cast, when opening up about living in America as a Black woman? And, Taria digs into whether she thinks Ramona is a racist. 

And that's not all since Taria and Andrew get into "the Aspen of it all" that is about to happen in the Beverly Hills season. What do they both think about the Fox Force Five (Erika Jayne, Dorit Kemsley, Lisa Rinna, Kyle Richards...well minus Teddi Mellencamp)? Who does Taria think are the most intellectual Beverly Hills cast members? Hint hint...they aren't mentioned here. And they end teasing Andrew's upcoming appearance on Taria's podcast to discuss all things the Real Housewives of New Jersey! 

You don't want to miss Taria's podcast, What Else is Going On here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-else-is-going-on-with-taria-s-faison/id1523174914

Follow her podcast on IG and Twitter, @weigopodcast. While you're at it, make sure to follow Taria's personal IG, @tsfaison.

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Andrew Rimby, Executive Director; Mary DiPipi, Chief Contributor; Nicole Arguello, Marketing Assistant; Kimberly Dallas, Editor

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Hey, true crime friends! This week I sat down with Humberto and Jonas- the hosts of Spilling the Crime!

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