Empathy isn’t just about “being nice.” It’s about connecting with other people in a way that not only increases understanding but also demonstrates strength and improves outcomes. In this episode of the I’ve Been Meaning to Do That podcast, host Oscarlyn Elder talks with Stanford University Professor of Psychology Jamil Zaki about his research into the science of empathy, cynicism, and “hopeful skepticism,” and the role they play in our lives and relationships.

They discuss:

• The genesis of Zaki’s interest in empathy research

• The differences between empathy, hope, and other commonly misunderstood terms

• How to have more constructive conversations within families and family businesses

• Cynicism as a “suit of armor”

• The role of family culture in building connections

Take the cynicism quiz referenced by Jamil Zaki in the podcast

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