The people that you meet online aren't real. It's not lasting. It's not impactful. Blah, blah blah.
We’re constantly surrounded by people who invalidate or don't believe that friendships or connections online count as real. But if you’re like me, I’ve met so, so many of my friends and colleagues on Twitter, in seminars, and in other online spaces.
So today I want to talk about the intersection of friendship, community, networking, and how that shows up online and in all of life, as well as how this translates into our approaches to marketing and communications.
In this episode, we dive into my early struggles with friendships and being bullied — plus how hard it is to make friends as adults. We also discuss the increased levels of loneliness and depression, the difference between friendship and parasocial relationships, and some tips on maintaining these bonds, both in person and online.
Finally, I'll dig into how all this matters to our work in higher ed marketing and communications.
Please note: This episode touches on topics like depression. Take care while listening.
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Mentioned in the episode:
University FM
Campus Sonar
Open Eye Crystals
Depression - World Health Organization
Finding My Footing
Loneliness in America: How the Pandemic Has Deepened an Epidemic of Loneliness and What We Can Do About It (Harvard)
The Loneliness Epidemic Persists: A Post-Pandemic Look at the State of Loneliness among U.S. Adults (Cigna)
How to Be a Better Friend By Tara Parker-Pope (NYTimes)
Why Making Friends in Midlife Is So Hard By Katharine Smyth (The Atlantic)
Asking People about IRL Friends on Twitter
The Friendship Report 2020 by Snapchat
How many hours does it take to make a friend? (SAGE)
Epic Rap Battles of History - Youtube
Katie Spencer Johnson / Calle Goodwin Twitter thread
Jackbox Game
‘I was lacking deeper connection’: can online friends be the answer to loneliness? By Yasmina Floyer (The Guardian)
Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make-and Keep- Friends - Dr. Marisa G. Franco
Dunbar's number: you can only maintain 150 relationships
How to Make Friends As an Adult By Emily Burns (The Cut)
Dr. Miriam Kirmayer
Vina App
Peanut App
Bumble Friendship App
Are Online & Real Life Friendships The Same? How The Internet Makes A Difference by ReGain Editorial Team (ReGain)
College students and depression: A guide for parents (Mayo Clinic)
College Students’ Sense of Belonging and Mental Health Amidst the COVID-19 Pandemic (National Library of Medicine)
Building a Sense of Community for All (NSEE)
Fostering Belonging (Northeastern)
