K is for Kinky!

In the world of polyam, a topic that always stirs up big feels and equally large opinions is veto power. We decided to give you our take on this and also throw in a bit of hierarchy for good measure!

Here is cover...

• What is veto power?
• Why do so many people have an issue with it?
• Can veto power be used for good? When does it make sense?
• How do D/s and hierarchy play a role in veto power?
• What's the difference between level of entanglement and prescriptive hierarchy?

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

We've been looking forward to this topic for some time, and in this episode Eden really pulls back the curtain on her little self and what being little is like for her! While not all littles experience this headspace the same way we describe, here's one take on what it feels like to have a little!

• Get extra bonus info on Leprechauns (an unrelated vetoed topic)
• Listen to 2 different takes on headspace - Eden describes fragmentation while Miss Jenn talks about aspects of the singular self
• Find out what Eden's brain has in common with Lord of the Rings and D&D campaigns
• Are YOU a little, middle, or ageplayer? Reach out to us! We'd love to have you on the show!

**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode includes a trigger warning for an adult's reflection on her childhood experience, including mentions of emotional neglect and feelings of parental abandonment. We also want to state explicitly that littles and the ageplay community are comprised of legal adults who have consented to explore these headspaces - no ifs, ands, or buts about it. BDSM is safe/sane/consensual - which requires ALL participants to be 18 or older.

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

We're back for part 2 of Stereotype Me!

While we had to jump around a little to make sure we covered as much as we could, you'll hear all about:

• Daddies, Mommies, & Caretakers
• Age players & littles
• Exhibitionists & Voyeurs - they're not all peeping Toms, you know!
• Furries (and why they are so awesome)
• Vanilla peeps!

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Check out the Fuck University Lupercalia Episode for FREE here! >> Fuck University <<

Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09

Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Well well well, the time has come to dig our grubby little fingers into BDSM stereotypes!

We start off with Dominants & submissives and then attempt to tackle the rest of the drop down fetlife list of identifiers...and much to our chagrin, we got NOWHERE NEAR the end! There will be a Part 2 coming next week to finish the job, but until then, enjoy us talking about:

• The unrealistic expectations of perfection that Dominants face
• How submissives get minimalized
• Why Mistresses are chronically over-sexualized
• What Eden thinks about the Gorean book series and why that shouldn't impact how the Gorean lifestyle is seen (we got you Kajiri!)
• Whether or not we should even correct the stereotype that sadomasochists and switches are greedy af

Check out the Fuck University Lupercalia Episode for FREE here! >> Fuck University <<

Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09

Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Have you ever wondered what would happen if all of your favorite sitcoms were kinky? Well...we have. And in this episode, WE DID! Find out whether or not your favorite TV characters are Dominants, Tops, Bottoms, Submissives, or Switches...and a couple of other off-the-wall identifiers!

We cover:

• Friends - Monica, Rachel, Phoebe, Chandler, Joey, and even some of the tertiary characters!
• Schitt's Creek - All the Roses and a few of the townspeople...and a little bit Alexis
• Will & Grace - Jack, Karen, Will, Grace, and OBVIOUSLY Rosario
• Young Sheldon - 18+ Characters ONLY (the word GILF may have been used)
• And yes...we threw in some Disney characters just for the hell of it!

Please note: This episode was made in good-humor PURELY for entertainment purposes. We do not endorse treating real people this way and hope you don't, either! Tune in next week for the first of an epic two-parter all about stereotypes in the scene!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Four our last February topic, we wanted to touch on something near and dear to our hearts...whether or not D/s and romance can actually work. The answer's not as simple or straightforward as you think, so let's take a closer look at the overlap between D/s and romantic love!

• First off...is this relationship style really the default, or should people be considering other forms of D/s first? (And why does vanilla TV only show romantic D/s when it's not busy framing BDSM as abuse?)
• What are the difficulties of maintaining a 24/7 romantic D/s dynamic?
• How can D/s impact the way a person gives and receives love?
• Most importantly...will Eden ever narrate a full sex scene? Or just continue to tease the audience with vaguely pornographic snippets?

Find out all this and more in the newest episode of K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Should kink and sex go together? And are the two intrinsically connected? In this episode, Jenn & Eden discuss why scenes can be so much fun with sex...and why they can be freaking amazing without it!

• Are vanilla people the only ones who think BDSM is all about sex, or are kinksters under the same impression?
• What are the benefits of platonic play?
• Is it ever truly safe to flirt? How does one navigate flirting in the scene?
• Does sexual drive impact social interactions in the scene?
• When does the pursuit of sexual and romantic conquests cause potential harm in public spaces?

Find out all this and more in the newest episode of K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

It's that time of year when birds and bees are notoriously active and people "put a ring on it". But what does this mean for the world of BDSM - and is collaring season afoot?

• What is the difference between an official collaring ceremony and a wedding?
• How does a traditional collaring ceremony go?
• Which types of collars need ceremonies, anyway?
• Will Miss Jenn ever stop cry-laughing?
• ...and WHAT was the good year blimp doing outside Jenn & Eden's window?

Find out all this and more in the newest episode of K is for Kinky!

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Watch Our Youtube Collaring Story HERE: https://youtu.be/udrc5oGaovs

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

You've all heard of "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, but did you know that kinksters have a special set of love languages that going beyond the vanilla categories?

• Find out how the original 5 languages play into BDSM!
• Discover kink-specific love languages & some joking-not-joking ones added to the mix
• Hear Eden retcon herself
• Discover how to leave "candy grams" for Jenn & Eden on instagram @kisforkinky!

And from all of us here at K is for Kinky, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! We KNOW we're early, but we wanted to get to you first! <3<3<3

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Holy smokes, this episode was a long time in coming! It escaped nobody's notice that our dynamic has a lot of two-way bratting...but what actually IS bratting and WHEN is it ok to do it?

• How does one negotiate bratting (and when should one have to)?
• What is the difference between setting boundaries & externally regulating other people?
• Can a Dom be a brat?
• Who outbratted the other in this episode? Tune in to find out!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!