K is for Kinky!

If you're like us, you heard about spanking in the vanilla world long before you encountered it in the scene. But where do spankings come from and what is the history of spanking (according to our trusty friend wikipedia)? Why is this type of play so appealing to vanilla and kinky people alike?

• What role has spanking played in vanilla culture?
• Why is spanking so appealing and how can you use it in a scene?
• Should parents spank their children, or is this type of activity best left to consenting adults?
• What type of animal interrupts the podcast and derails us both for several seconds???

Find out all this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"

PS: You can find RosyPeaches and Spanky's Spank Joint on fetlife!

**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode contains mentions of domestic abuse & non-consensual 1950's spousal spanking, along with a non-graphic retelling of childhood spankings & mentions of second-hand accounts (aka hearsay) concerning the use of implements as tools to punish children. If you are not in a good place to hear this or find it disturbing, please check out the time stamps [skip through 13:14 to 18:28 to avoid this section] or listen to another episode of K is for Kinky! Because of the nature of this trigger, we have also included a verbal trigger warning so that it's easier to navigate around this while listening to the episode. Thank you!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

We talk a lot about aftercare and subdrop, but sometimes people forget to address the Topside of this equation...what can make a Top drop? Do all Tops need aftercare? And what type of questions should a bottom ask when it comes to boundaries and scene energy?

• Hear an experienced Top & a new Top discuss these questions
• Find out tips and tricks to go the extra mile as a bottom
• Discover Miss Jenn's secret hulk-out button
• ...and so much more in this episode of K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

How many of you have been asked or wondered on your own, "How does feminism work with me bending over and getting hit with stuff? Am I a bad feminist?"

In a world where people tend to prioritize binary gender and heteronormative relationships, sometimes the nuances of this conversation get swept under the rug. We will touch on:

• What the definition of violence and harm are (and how they apply to BDSM)
• Whether or not violence & control are inherently masculine characteristics
• If power dynamics and control are biproducts of the patriarchy OR parts of general human experience
• Whether or not women and AFAB people can think and decide for themselves (OR if we've all been brainwashed)
• Why nonbinary people, genderfluid people, trans people, and queer people are often conveniently left out of this discussion...and why we shouldn't stay silent any longer

**TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode in its entirety contains content that may be triggering. We will discuss sexism and toxic gender norms, along with non-graphic mentions of harm caused by the patriarchy. If you are not in a good place to explore these concepts, please check out another one of our episodes and tune in next week for more K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

After discovering that many other D/s couples struggle in silence when their 24/7 power exchange isn't functioning, W/we decided to pull back the curtain and talk about parts of O/our relationship that weren't working...and what W/we changed to fix them.

Y/you are not alone. 24/7 power exchange is incredibly challenging, especially without avenues of support. W/we are here to show Y/you it's possible to bring a struggling dynamic back from the brink. Hopefully, this episode will demystify relationship struggles in 24/7 power exchange dynamics!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Changing your identifiers in a relationship can be both healthy and (occasionally) daunting. Hear how transitioning identifiers has impacted us as we discuss the divergent paths we took to become switches...and in Miss Jenn's case, how that lead to Her embracing Dominance!

• Hear Miss Jenn's journey from s-type to switch to D-type
• Enjoy the sound of manifestation Miss Jenn invents (no, our site is still not live...but soon!)
• Find out more about Eden's journey to become a switch
• What does it mean for a relationship when identifiers change. Do they always have to end?

Our current website is: Your one-stop shop for kinky convos & quirky banter! (captivate.fm)

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

You did all the classes, learned all the skills, and now you're wondering: where the heck do I find all the good subs? In this episode, we've got answers!

Find out...

• The difference between bottoms & s-types who want power exchange
• Where to find bottoms and other s-types
• GREEN flags for bottoms & s-types
• ...RED flags, too
• And of course, OBEY - or what Miss Jenn is trying to tell us all vis subliminal messaging!

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Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09

Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09

Find therapy today & learn more about LNF Events! Visit Miss Jenn's personal website HERE: http://www.akinkshrink.com

"D" Is NOT for Douchebag: Get educated by visiting Miss Jenn's Gumroad account. Here's a handy link to her class about what the D in "D-type" should stand for...and what it shouldn't: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/tpnua?_ga=2.68151508.492600202.1681756685-662128849.1641513868&_gl=1*nof23n*_ga*NjYyMTI4ODQ5LjE2NDE1MTM4Njg.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTY4MTc1NjY4OC4yNy4wLjE2ODE3NTY2ODguMC4wLjA.

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

It's a tough pill to swallow, but many male and AMAB s-types report being overlooked or mistreated by FemDoms. What's going on here, and can the community at large enact change?

We will touch on...

• The role sexism plays in how we judge (or don't just) toxic behavior
• Why many AMAB and male-identifying people don't speak up when they're mistreated
• How scarcity allows a very small population to define social interactions
• What we as kinksters can do to challenge the way gender norms warp our perception of the people around us.

**TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode in its entirety contains content that may be triggering. We will discuss abuse, sexism, and toxic gender norms, along with non-graphic mentions of SA and consent violation. If you are not in a good place to explore these concepts, please check out another one of our episodes and tune in next week for more K is for Kinky !

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Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09

Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09

Find therapy today & learn more about LNF Events! Visit Miss Jenn's personal website HERE: http://www.akinkshrink.com

"D" Is NOT for Douchebag: Get educated by visiting Miss Jenn's Gumroad account. Here's a handy link to her class about what the D in "D-type" should stand for...and what it shouldn't: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/tpnua?_ga=2.68151508.492600202.1681756685-662128849.1641513868&_gl=1*nof23n*_ga*NjYyMTI4ODQ5LjE2NDE1MTM4Njg.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTY4MTc1NjY4OC4yNy4wLjE2ODE3NTY2ODguMC4wLjA.

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Everybody is out there looking for love, but where exactly DOES one find a decent Dominant around here? And how can you tell a keeper from...well, a creeper?

• Where do Doms hangout?
• What are green flag behaviors for a kickass Dom?
• On the flip side, what are red flag behaviors to tip you off that a D-type is a creeper, not a keeper?
• Is acquiring consent enough, or should a D-type also be responsible for upholding certain safety and ethical standards?
• What would Eden do if she found a man?

**TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode contains 2 trigger warnings for mentions/explicit descriptions of abusive codependency & narcissistic abuse, including a disturbing hypothetical used to illustrate the importance of ethical behavior. Both instances have a verbal trigger warning within the episode, but you should know that we will be discussing this content. (1) The first trigger warning starts at minute 30:37 and goes to 34:15. (2) The second trigger warning starts at minute 36:44 and goes to 40:45.

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Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09

Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09

Find therapy today & learn more about LNF Events! Visit Miss Jenn's personal website HERE: http://www.akinkshrink.com

"D" Is NOT for Douchebag: Get educated by visiting Miss Jenn's Gumroad account. Here's a handy link to her class about what the D in "D-type" should stand for...and what it shouldn't: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/tpnua?_ga=2.68151508.492600202.1681756685-662128849.1641513868&_gl=1*nof23n*_ga*NjYyMTI4ODQ5LjE2NDE1MTM4Njg.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTY4MTc1NjY4OC4yNy4wLjE2ODE3NTY2ODguMC4wLjA.

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

One of the most curious things about kinksters in our obvious desire for community - not just when we're in a dungeon or at a munch, but beyond!

• Why do kinksters like to do vanilla things together?
• Do kinksters favor parties and experiences that provide kink and vanilla activities combined?
• Why is our discord obsessed with gnomes, cats, and amazing food?
• Where can YOU sign up to join the kinky queer colony on the moon???

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***TRIGGER WARNING: This episode mentions flesh hooks without graphically describing them. The comments last for about 60 seconds and are TW'd within the episode, so if this is something you want to avoid, skip ahead when the chime sounds!***

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

We all see them...online, in our DMs and on the message boards: creepers are everywhere! But how does one become a successful creeper? Tune in to find out all the steps YOU can take to start creeping today!

• Learn about fetlife: how to make a profile, what pics to add, and which groups to join!
• Practice writing comments and DMs to make that personal creepy connection really memorable!
• Discover rage quitting and blocking
• Take your creep to the next level by joining in-person events (don't worry, bathing is optional)
• Follow along with three creepy skits to see if YOU have what it takes!

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***TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains mentions of verbal and online sexual harassment, gaslighting, and harmful behavior. While discussed in a comedic context, this episode may be disturbing for some.***

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!

Jenn & Eden

P.O. Box 3845

Gardena, CA 90247

Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!