K is for Kinky!

Veronika Kestrel, an expert on dollification play, joins us to talk all about her journey into dollification, what doll play is all about, and why this can be one of the most powerfully transformative kinks out there. If you've never had the privilege to hear Veronika share her story, this episode is a must-listen: we get meta on ya'll!

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EPISODE LINKS:

Follow Veronika Kestrel @veronikakestrel and on TikTok @switchvero

Kestrel Industries Discord Link: https://discord.gg/ee9Rj95adF

Kestrel Industries Dollplay Munch: 1st Wednesday of every month! Follow @VeronikaKestrel on fetlife to find out more about the munch!

Vampire Barbie Ebay Link (it's absurdly expensive wooooowwww): Haunted Beauty Vampire Barbie Doll Red Gown Gold Label Limited Ed

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SPOILER ALERT: This episode discusses the BARBIE MOVIE and contains a verbal warning to help you skip the spoiler (2:10-3:00) if you want to see it and haven't already! There is also a spoiler for Guilty Gear, a video game referenced at around 12:25-12:45.

***TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode discusses the objectification of human bodies, so if this is not good for your headspace today, please take care of yourself and check out a different episode of K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

What are the top 5 hardest things about being an s-type when you're in a 24/7 dynamic and you live together? Eden explores some of the tricker parts of 247 D/s, including the way our history informs how we act in relationships, what it means to give up control, and why navigating other people's perceptions so challenging. You'll laugh, you might cry, but more than anything - you'll get an up-close look at the grittiest parts of being a s-type in 247!

***TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode contains general references to trauma and may be heavier in some places. If you are not comfortable hearing this type of emotional vulnerability or are otherwise unable to hear this type of content in your current headspace, please check out another episode of K is for Kinky (might we recommend "Interview With A Dominatrix: Madxme Rose" as a starting place?) As always, be well precious kinklings! <3

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

In this episode, Jenn & Eden weigh in on a PopSugar article called "10 Common Kinks, According to Sex Experts" by Sara Youngblood Gregory, an ENM-friendly author who compiled a list based on what Sex Experts claim are the most common kinks!

Read the article here: 10 Common Kinks, According to Sex Experts | POPSUGAR Love & Sex

We give our two cents on...

• Whether or not these kinks are common or not
• How this article is written and who it's aimed at
• If this article did a good job describing kink (and why the author's name is so freaking awesome)
• What we can learn from reading articles like this
• And finally, an extra segment reacting to the most popular roleplays (and which ones we definitely want to try!)

All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky!

P.S. If you want to read more from Sara Youngblood Gregory, check out the Polyamory Workbook OR visit her website here: https://saragregory.org

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Welcome to our VERY FIRST interview! We are proud to partner with the charismatic Madxme Rose, who opens up about what it's like to be a Pro-Domme who is also interested in the lifestyle.

We ask Her:

• How She first got started as a Pro
• What Her favorite types of play are
• Some things She wishes clients would do...and some She wishes they wouldn't!
• Misconceptions about being a Pro-Domme
• What it's like to approach Her for a scene (you'll get a little taste when we do an impromptu LIVE roleplay)

This episode has it all and then some, so tune in and make sure to check out Madxme Rose's website to learn more about Her! Los Angeles Dominatrix | Madame Rose | United States (yourmadamerose.com)

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Anxiety plays an important role in how we perceive ourselves, our service, and the world at large. In this episode, Eden talks about the ways in which anxiety stopped them from overachieving in the early years of their dynamic with Miss Jenn...and why a growth mindset changed everything.

We will be covering:

• What anticipatory service is
• Why many s-types have anxiety surrounding shifting expectations
• The importance of approaching D/s through a lens of plenty, not scarcity
• Ways to incorporate anticipatory service into your D/s & friendships
• Finally...why there's an extra holiday each year in O/our relationship! (TEASER: don't ever forget mother's day)

All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

All relationships have conflict- but what happens when you're in a D/s dynamic and a fight comes up? How do you navigate punishments and tough conversations without upending your dynamic?

We will be covering:

• Our argument protocols
• How scheduling conversations had made an impact on the power conflict has in our dynamic
• How punishments, while undesirable to earn, are actually an important part of D/s (at least in O/our dynamic)
• What punishments we use and the everyday occurrences that could warrant a consequence or punishment
• Finally...why we are a work in progress!

All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky!

**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode talks about consensual punishments in healthy D/s. For anyone who finds the notion of punishment uncomfortable, this may not be the episode for you! Check out O/our heart system episode if you'd like to see how W/we handle rewards and communication in O/our dynamic!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Three cheers for the red, black & blue in this week's rather festive episode of K is for Kinky! We asked ourselves what the best way to talk about markings was, and it became clear that the only way to move forward was through a live demonstration - that's right. This episode has some real-life impact play in it, complete with pictures if you want to really immerse yourself in the sounds you'll be hearing. Check it out on our instagram under K is for Kinky!

We will be covering:

• Why some people enjoy marks...
• ...and why others have rules and boundaries that restrict marking during play.
• How to minimize lasting marks
• Types of play that leave marks (including some things people don't often think about)
• Which implements hurt the most (according to eden)
• ...and which implements leave the prettiest marks!

All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky! And special shoutout to McMason Creations - thank you for designing such a wonderful curved cane! Check them out on instagram by following mcmason_creations!

**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode in its entirety contains consensual and very enthusiastic impact play, including the sound of impact and noises made by the recipient of said impact. If hearing sounds of happy pain disturb you, try out another episode of K is for Kinky!

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

It's kind of overwhelming to think about, but you are always building a reputation for yourself! Whether you are actively making good choices or passively existing, people get to know you and form opinions about who you are in the scene. This doesn't have to be a bad thing! In fact, you are the author of who you are!

• W/we cover ways to build a good reputation
• Stuff to avoid so that your reputation isn't damaged
• How to repair a poor reputation (and the reality that sometimes, reputations do not get restored if the offense was very serious)
• The difference between vetting and gossiping (yep, there IS a difference)
• Why it's so important to be a kind person!

All this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Are Y/you interested in High Protocol but Y/you're not sure where to start? Curious about where it's gone? And what exactly IS High Protocol anyways? (Besides fancy, of course!)

• W/we cover O/our own definition of High Protocol
• ...including what W/we think it generally entails
• ...and what W/we think generally does not belong in High Protocol!
• Discover why High Protocol matters and how to create Y/your own High Protocol space OR where to find O/ours!
• BONUS QUESTION: Does brattiness have a place in High Protocol?

All this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!

Do you struggle with offering verbal praise? Are you having a hard time giving corrections in D/s? We faced both of these obstacles and created something called "the heart system" that has done wonders for our relationship and dynamic!

• Find out about the 4 heart colors and what they mean
• Hear about the importance of embracing your D/s role
• Discover how we "take the temperature" of our relationship
• We discuss implementing rewards without going overboard...how much praise is just right?

Find out all this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"

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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!

You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!

Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky

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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at [email protected] if you want to reach him!