Keeping It Young

Dave and Bethlie continue the series on Proverbs. This is second second in a three part series on chapter 2 of Proverbs. As teenagers they were both encouraged to read a Proverb a day. That practice has continued into their adult lives. In fact, Proverbs has become a cornerstone of their fmaily devotions and time for them to discuss, share ideas, and learn together.

Take a look at the show notes below and follow along!

Part 2

Protecting ourselves and our kids from evil influences/friends

Proverbs 2:12

The evil influence identified

v. 12 Speaks perverse things (twisted)

v. 13 Always is doing wrong

v. 14 Rejoices at things that are wicked

v. 15 Always devious and crooked

The steps that lead to protection

Teach

Teach truth v. 11. Truth is the protector from all evil. - MacArthur

Teach our kids to say NO

Teach our kids to avoid

Teach our kids to stand

Remove our kids from these influences

1. 1. Change schools if need be
   2. Withdraw our kids from sports
   3. Set some things in stone
      • No overnights
      • No alone with other teens in a car
      • No influence that makes you uneasy
      • No contacts without your approval
      • Little or no social media
      • Little or no multi-player video games

We encourage you to read Proverbs 2 and then listen to this episode as Dave and Bethlie discuss Proverbs 2. In a world riddle with deception, crying out to God for wisdom is vital.

Why were the Proverbs written?

Dave and Bethlie begin this series through Proverbs exploring why Proverbs was written. Don't miss this foundational episdoe as we begin the new year and new season!

Join Dave and Bethlie as they give some updates for what 2024 holds for the Keeping It Young Podcast. Thank you for your support over the last FOUR seasons!

Season FIVE begins...right now!

Dave and Bethlie share a special Christmas greeting.

Merry Christmas!

In this episode, Dave and Bethlie delve into a topic that's essential yet often overlooked in Christian weddings: the balance between the secular and the sacred. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize various facets of Christian weddings that they believe require a deeper reflection. They encourage you to consider the implications of elements such as alcohol, dancing, music, pranks, and the importance of modesty in the context of sacred Christian ceremonies.

• They challenge the norm of including alcohol in wedding receptions, citing specific warnings in the Bible about its use and the potential pitfalls it can present.
• The topic of dancing at weddings was discussed, with a reminder that dances are typically considered intimate and sensual in nature, even if they are not intended to be so.
• They also encourage a careful selection of music with an emphasis on avoiding songs that could potentially cheapen the ceremony's sacredness.
• They suggest avoiding pranks that could shift the focus from the holy nature of the ceremony to silliness and self-attention.
• Lastly, the importance of modesty in selecting the bride's dress was underscored. A wedding is a significant platform for expressing our Christian values, and an opportunity to set a firm foundation for the marriage to come.

As you listen to this episode, we challenge you to rethink the elements of your Christian wedding. We remind you that it's a sacred event and should be a reflection of your faith and commitment to biblical principles.

Remember, your decisions shape not just a single day, but a lifetime commitment under God's grace.

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In their ongoing series, Dave and Bethlie explore the idea of a Christian wedding not just as a ceremony, but a sacred covenant. They discuss various aspects, starting from engagement to the wedding itself, and the importance of involving family and the church community in this journey. They also delve into the importance of recognizing marriage as a covenant, not simply a fairy-tale event.

The focus in this episode is primarily on planning wisely. It's important to remember that a wedding is a combination of multiple elements. It starts with the best Christian premarital counseling possible, followed by thorough discussions about every aspect of your marriage in advance. They also advise you to set a budget for the wedding and stick to it. This may be challenging, but it's crucial to avoid falling into the trap of a consumerist culture that encourages overspending for a single event.

Focusing on the covenant rather than the presentation is another key point we stress on. Traditionally, weddings are seen as grand affairs, often influenced by the media and culture. However, in a Christian wedding, it's the covenant that should be front and center. This doesn't mean that your wedding can't be beautiful. It can be stunningly beautiful even with simplicity, and most importantly, it's the covenant that you are making with each other before God and your witnesses that makes it truly meaningful.

Planning wisely also includes thinking about the honeymoon as not just a vacation, but as the beginning of a covenant relationship. Dave and Bethlie suggest to choose a place that allows for relaxation, getting to know each other, and focusing on each other without distraction.

Thank you again for joining us today. We hope you find these discussions helpful and inspiring as you rethink the idea of a Christian wedding. Stay tuned for our next episode where we will continue to explore this topic and focus on making Christian weddings distinctly sacred.

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In this episode, we delve into the details of a Christian wedding, highlighting the importance of honoring traditions while also making room for personal expression. Dave offers a father's perspective as he recalls his daughter's wedding, and learn why this momentous occasion should be a celebration, not a heartbreak. Dave and Bethlie discuss the sermon, the charge to the couple, and the significance of prayer during the ceremony. Plus, they cover the spiritual exchange of vows and the symbolism behind unity displays. Whether you're a groom-to-be, a parent, or simply an interested pocast listener, this episode is sure to inspire. Share it with a friend!

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In this episode, Dave and Bethlie start a new series tackling the significance of Christian weddings. They examine the cultural influences on modern weddings and discuss the need for distinctly Christian ceremonies that highlight not just the celebration, but more importantly, the covenant. They also share a few personal anecdotes, and offer some useful insights into biblical examples of marriage ceremonies. Whether you're planning a wedding, reflecting on your own, or just curious about the Christian perspective on weddings, this podcast is for you.

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Join Dave and Bethlie as they they express their thankfulness for the opportunity to spend time publicly praising the Lord for His goodness in their lives. They remind listeners that the Bible encourages us to have gratitude and enter into God's presence with singing and thanksgiving. Expressing thankfulness can help bring an attitude of gratitude even during difficult times. During the Thanksgiving season, be intentional about expressing thanks publicly to those around you. Consider starting a tradition, such as setting aside time for a family devotional or getting everyone to share what they are thankful for at mealtime.

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