Keeping It Young

In part 3 of this series we see that Solomon is writing about how to pursue happiness and success specifically in our families.

Question: How do we get there?

1. We must emphasize diligence (Proverbs 10:4-5; 16)
   1. The word
      1. Sharp pointed
      2. Trench - in the sense of dug
         1. A massive amount of difficult work
         2. Time consuming
         3. Physically exhausting
      3. Gold - int he sense of mined
      4. Figuratively - determination, eagerness
   2. Gain requires forethought - diligently
      1. A harvest is an involved process
      2. Preparing the soil
      3. Preparing the seed
      4. Planting the seed
      5. Caring for the field
      6. Waiting for the full growth
      7. Gathering it for the days ahead
   3. Gain requires a process of time and in time
      1. We want our children to develop habvits that lead to success
         1. It is imperative that we ahve goals for our children
         2. Some are spiritual - this requries DILIGENCE
            1. Know God and His Word
            2. Love God and His Word
            3. Fear God
            4. Worship God
            5. Walk with God
            6. Give financially
         3. Some are relational - this requires DILIGENCE
            1. We want you to be sweet
            2. We want you to be kind
            3. We want you to be thankful
            4. We want you to be polite
         4. Some are practicle - this requires DILIGENCE
            1. We want you to learn discipline
            2. We want you learn skills
            3. We want you to learn to handle finances
      2. We repeat our desires and our demands - this requires DILIGENCE too. Repeitition is required.
      3. We model DILIGENCE
   4. Gain requres work (vs.16)
   5. 4:23 Keep your heart with all DILIGENCE
   6. 11:27 he that diligently seeketh good procureth favor: but he that seeketh mischief, it shall come unto him.
   7. 12:24 The hand of the diligent shall bear rule; but the slothful shall be under tribute
   8. 12:27 The slothful man roasteth not that which he took in hunting, but the substance of a diligent man is precious.
   9. 13:4 The soul of the sluggard desireth, and hath nothing: but the soul of the diligent shall be made fat.
   10. 21:5 The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenteousness; but of everyone that is hasty only to want.

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Proverbs 10 continued...

Practically, what does it take to have a happy life and a happy family?

1) It takes righteousness v2-3; 6-7; 11; 16;19-21; 24-25; 28; 30-32

1. Righteousness in our treasures v.2
2. Righteousness in our dealing with people v. 11-12
3. Righteousness in our work v. 16
4. Righteousness in our words v. 19-22
5. How do you incorporate righteousness in your life?
   1. What is right?
   2. What does the Bible say?
   3. What would be the right response?
   4. What would be the right step to take?
   5. What would be the right way to handle this?

We're really excited to dive into Proverbs 10!

The US Constitution says that everyone has the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

• life is a right
• liberty is a right
• happiness is not, it is the pursuit of it and that is a right

It seems that Solomon is writing about how to pursue happiness.

vs 1 Having a wise son brings gladness and avoids heaviness

Get ready for an exciting series!

Join Dave and Bethlie as they close this 3 part series on Teaching Your Children To Embrace Wisdom out of Proverbs 8 and 9.

Proverbs 8:32

What is the value of wisdom?

(Find point 1-3 in Episode 212)

4. It brings blessings to our lives Proverbs 8:32-36

5. Reminds us that God and wisdom are ETERNALLY connected (vs. 22-31)

1. You don't have one without the other
2. Folly damages and destroys
3. Wisdom builds and strengthens and lasts

Proverbs 9

Wisdom is better than folly

Wisdom takes time

1. 1. (vs. 1) She has builded her house
   2. Dads and moms must recognize this
      • It takes a lot of time to train our children for success in life
      • It takes a lot of time to prepare our children for success in life

Wisdom takes investment

1. 1. (vs. 4) Come live with me
      1. Learn from me
      2. Watch me and follow my lead
   2. (vs. 5) Come eat at my table
      1. Receive waht I offer you
      2. Let's talk and linger
   3. Wisdom takes decisions
      1. Forsake foolishness and live
      2. Go in the way of understanding
   4. (vs. 9) Wisdom takes learning
   5. (vs. 10) Wisdom takes God

Wisdom takes decisions

1. Forsake foolishness and live
2. Go in the way of understanding

Wisdom takes learning (vs. 9)

Wisdom takes God (vs. 10)

Folly is a horrible way to live

1. Foolish woman is simple and knows nothing (vs. 13)
2. Foolish woman is offering an alternative way to live
   1. Two choices on the shelf - pleaweing God or pleasing self
   2. Two choices in chapter 9 - the life of wisdom or the life of folly
   3. (vs. 14-16) Notice the offer
   4. (vs. 17) Notice the absurdity
   5. (vs. 18) Noitce the result
      1. This is life or death
      2. Galations 6:7-9
      3. Deuteronomy 28-30 I set before you life or death, blessing or cursing etc.

Dave and Bethlie continue in Proverbs 8 as we learn to help our children embrace wisdom.

Proverbs 8:7-11

1. Do a wisdom check
2. Think about and choose things that are excellent
3. Think about and choose things that are right
4. Think about and choose things that are true

What is the value of wisdom?

1. It teaches us to hate evil (vs. 12-13)
   1. It is not enough to know what evil is
   2. We must learn to hate it...
2. It teaches us how to lead (vs. 14-16)
3. It teaches us how to be wealthy (vs. 18-21)
   1. Wealth is tricky in our society
      1. Examples: Musk, Bezons, Gates, Trump
      2. Social media influencers
      3. People want to make money doing nothing or just having fun
   2. Wealth is more than money
      1. It is family
      2. It is satisfaction
      3. Is is relationships
      4. It is favor

Dave and special guest Charity Young (Dave and Bethlie's youngest daughter) share the traditions that the Young family have shared over the years.

Enjoy!

PART 1

Proverbs 8-9

These chapters seem to go together with one primary theme: Wisdom

What is wisdom?

What are the steps to wisdom?

What is the value of wisdom?

Proverbs 8

What is wisdom?

Dictionary defines it like this:

• the quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment; the quality of being wise:
• the ability to contemplate and act productively using knowledge, experience, understanding, common sense, and insight
• The ability to do right regardless of inward yearnings, outward pressures, or eventual outcomes
• Godly skill for life
• The right way to live our lives
• Seeing a situation as God does; Acting on it as God wills; Learning from it as God intended

What are the steps to wisdom?

v1 Wisdom and Understanding are personified

1. Remember:
   1. Proverbs are words of wisdom - truths to live by
      1. They help us train our children\
      2. They help our children make good choices and live successfully
      3. They lead individuals, homes, and nations to discover God's blessings
      4. WE HAVE TO LEARN FROM THEM
   2. Proverbs are Inspired Scripture
      1. REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE TRUE
      2. Sometimes they are pictures
         • Think on them and learn from them...
      3. Sometimes they are literal
         • Apply them
2. v4 Calls to the Simple and the Fool
   1. Anyone can seek wisdom and find it.
   2. We must teach it to our children - Solomon is teaching it tho his son
   3. Wisdom itself speaks to our children
   4. Our children must also seek it themselves (see verse 17)

We diligently teach it; wisdom itself speaks it; our children continually seek it

A powerful 3 fold cord...this provides a wonderful foundation for our lives and our futures and our families.

Solomon Challenges His Son In Four Areas

It seems that Solomon is interupting his teaching on immorality to discuss other things. Perhaps he is pointing out that we are a "package"...every area of our lives matter.

1. Be a man of character v. 1-5
2. Be diligent and industrious v. 6-11
3. Be aware of what God hates v. 16-19
   1. Arrogance
   2. Lying
      1. It is mentioned several times
   3. Destruction
      1. Of the innocent
      2. Of Unity and peace
   4. All of these are sins against others
   5. God hates when we sin against others

Sin Is Always Deceptive

Proverbs 5

1. v.1-2 We need wisdom and understanding adn discretion and knowledge becasue all of us can very easily be overtaken with sin and its deception
2. v. 3 The lies that are told and believed are enormous
   1. I can handle this
   2. Nothing bad will happen to me
   3. I will be ok
   4. Sin and its pleasures are on my side
3. v. 4-5 It is always helpful to carefully consider the ending of any matter
   • There is a way that seems right but the end thereof are the ways of death
4. We should take steps to protect ourselves from the deadly effects of sin
   1. v. 8 Get as far away as possible
   2. v. 15 Continually choose waht is right
5. v. 21 Alway remember the God factor
   1. God knows
   2. God sees
      • II Chronicles 16:9 "For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him.
   3. God will see to it that we reap what we sow

Life and Family Lessons

Proverbs 4

1. The challenge is for the son to get wisdom v. 5ff
   1. It brings understanding
   2. It brings life
   3. It is found in the Godly instruction of parents who teach, train, and rule
   4. It helps our kids to avoid wickedness v. 14
      1. Wickedness is a path - a well-traveled trail
      2. Wickedness is a way - a direction
      3. Wickedness is a walk - one step at a time
2. What are some ways to impact our children with truth?
   1. Teach
   2. Talk
   3. Live
   4. Love
3. We should expect a favorable outcome
   1. Life and health v. 22