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Kingdoms Lost & Myths Undone: Dolen Perkins-Valdez on HAPPY LAND and Nancy Reddy on THE GOOD MOTHER MYTH


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Episode Summary

In this episode of Writer’s Voice, we speak with two authors who excavate buried truths and challenge dominant cultural narratives.

Dolen Perkins-Valdez discusses her historical novel Happy Land, inspired by a real African American community founded after the Civil War in North and South Carolina—an intentional kingdom that embodied Black sovereignty, only to be undermined by systemic land theft.

“Even though we have them in the history books as a monarchy, there must have also been a kind of shared power, a kind of egalitarianism that they participated in.” — Dolen Perkins-Valdez

Then, Nancy Reddy talks about The Good Mother Myth, her nonfiction book/memoir dismantling the unrealistic expectations placed on mothers, tracing them to flawed psychological theories and cultural constructions that ignore caregiving as a collective act.

“The good mother isn’t really a person—she is a subject of capitalism.” — Nancy Reddy

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Key Words: Nancy Reddy, The Good Mother Myth, motherhood, parenting, attachment theory, communal parenting, book about motherhood, Dolen Perkins-Valdez, Happy Land, African American history, Black land loss,

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Segment One: Dolen Perkins-Valdez
Segment Summary

Novelist Dolen Perkins-Valdez tells the remarkable true story behind Happy Land—a kingdom founded by formerly enslaved people in the Carolinas, where a Black queen ruled and the community thrived on self-sufficiency, education, and shared governance. She explores themes of legacy, land, and what it costs when history is erased.

Key Topics:
  • African American land ownership post-Civil War
  • The real history of Happy Land, NC/SC
  • The heirs’ property loophole and racial wealth theft
  • Intergenerational memory, identity, and resilience
  • Book bans and the erasure of Black history
  • Read an excerpt from Happy Land

    Segment Two: Nancy Reddy
    Segment Summary

    Writer, poet and scholar Nancy Reddy discusses the myths surrounding ideal motherhood—how they evolved, why they persist, and whom they leave out. She critiques attachment theory, the capitalist agenda behind parenting advice, and the absence of real community in caregiving. Reddy also shares insights from her personal journey and calls for a redefinition of love and care.

    Key Topics:
    • The myth of the “good mother” and capitalist exploitation
    • The origins and distortions of attachment theory
    • Harry Harlow’s primate experiments and flawed science
    • Margaret Mead’s model of communal caregiving
    • Gender roles, modern fatherhood, and emotional labor
    • The need for community and caregiving beyond the nuclear family
    • Listen to an Excerpt from The Good Mother Myth

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