SleepyB is a person who has been following Me for a little while now. He caught My attention in the way that he approached Me on social media, and in the way that he has behaved during written interactions. He has always been thoughtful and sincere. In speaking with him today, I decided to have him on the show. Welcome, SleepyB to the show, everyone!

So many men process their relationships with women as though they, themselves are victims. However, in reality, they are actually reaping the fruits of their efforts to treat women as nothing more than objects or commodities. If your relationships with women are transactional, then you get what you pay for. You seek out a service or an experience, and you get what you pay for. Nothing more and nothing less. So, don‘t play victim when you signed up to be a customer.

Many men are attracted to women who are upbeat, energetic, and fun-loving. However, what happens a lot of times is that the kind of man who is attracted to a bubbly woman is not necessarily trying to match her positive energy. Rather, he is trying to leech off of it. These types of men don‘t want to create their own positive energy in life. They bounce from one woman to another and use up the positive energy of those women until those ladies are nothing more than a shell of their former selves. Let‘s talk!

Integrity is saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Possessing the ability and the willingness to communicate (both in word and in action) with integrity is the difference between having the relationship of your dreams and having a string of failed, nightmarish relationships. If you struggle to build healthy relationships, then this episode is for you. Embracing integrity can save you a great deal of heartache and wasted time!

The first thing that a man will say when he is caught cheating is, ”It‘s not what it looks like!” His world will be closing in on him and he will see everything that he loves and holds near and dear to his heart slipping through his fingers. So, why did he cheat in the first place, and why do his instincts lead him to say the most ridiculous thing that a woman could imagine - that the situation is not what it seems to be? Once again, Mistress Alisa is here to provide clarity on the situation.

Lots of men fantasize about having women who are kinky, creative, and willing to explore sexually. However, the manner in which they go about trying to achieve this goal is manipulative and smacks of usury - he pretends to support her, but requires so much of her in return that she feels cheap and like a whore. She resents him and swears off BDSM forever! In this episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa helps men to achieve the desired outcome. Buyer beware: The solution is not what you would imagine!

Of course, we know that all men are not the same. And yet, many of us feel comfortable stating that all men are riveted by almost anything that makes their dicks tingle. When it comes to the topic of Female Supremacy, there are just way too many wolves in sheep‘s clothing that are acting out their sexual fetishes, while being protected under the cover of the Female Supremacy umbrella. In today‘s episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa outs these men - and she calls a spade a spade.

Anyone with any experience in the BDSM lifestyle knows that there is a huge market for men who want to be humiliated for having tiny dicks. Their need to prove their value and to validate their manliness, outside of the size of their dicks, poses a unique set of challenges for them. Many of them cope by adopting a fetish called Small Dick Humiliation (SDH). However, there are also men who enjoy SDH even though their penises are well above average size.

Weapons are used to attack an enemy, or to defend oneself from an enemy. Men are taught, even at the earliest of ages, to use their dicks to cope with life. Did your peers tease you at school today? Jerk off. Did something bad happen at home? Jerk off. In relationships, men also use their dicks to cope with feelings and emotions as related to their partners. Unfortunately, this coping strategy often serves as a means for the man to attack or defend himself against his own partner.

Men, listen…There are times in life when things were not meant to be with another person. There are times when the bottom line is that you just need to let her go. It may not be easy to do so, but there comes a point when continuing to cling onto her can be detrimental to you both. Sometimes, you will not be able to heal until you stop trying to force the impossible to happen so that you can focus on yourself and heal. Let‘s talk...