KinkyCast

Have you ever heard of the Madonna-Whore Complex? This dichotomy ultimately means that women have to be either pure and ‘virginal’ or sexual and forthcoming. Of course it’s the guys that make the rules. We brought out favorite sociologist back to give some perspective on why women are treated in different ways if they are the wife/mother of their children or their mistress. We live in a patriarchal society and that varies on where you are in the world. Woody and Dr. V get down and dirty in this discussion on the two sides of a woman.

Sounding has been an amazing adventure into all-new sensations for me. There aren't really words to describe it. I often call it "sensation overload". It has been more erotic and addictive than I ever thought possible. Sounding has also become a passion for me to do and share. Before I started, when I was researching how-to's and safety issues, I was really saddened and frustrated by the lack of information for women. Everything is geared towards men. It is like comparing peaches to bananas when sounding. So I started posting my journey on Fetlife to share all my experiences. The good ones and the mishaps. I have found there is a whole community of women curious and/or doing it. It has been such an added bonus to connect with them and share. I hope more women realize it is not just for men!….. Maybe someone will start making toys just for us, lol.. We have an entire other pleasure zone to explore and enjoy that most people never think about. My advice is to find others and ask questions. You won't find a guidebook like minds is your best resource. Happy Perving ~ Fisther

#402 - Gloria Brame - Trail Blazing Sexuality Author

I’m Floki, and my partner is Fox. Together we explore a range of sensory practices, with Fox having a particular penchant for pain play. Needle play is a kink I enjoy that meets her proclivities well. I first discovered an interest in Needle Play about five years ago. Since then, I’ve developed a range of techniques and practices that allow us to explore its more artistic forms. These include ways to create and realize designs in ways that minimize risk and maximize symmetry and balance. Recently we’ve started sharing those techniques and practices with others. This has involved showing people how I create templates and select materials. We also demonstrate how Fox prepares a clean, safe environment and takes care of the clean up afterwards. Needle Play brings us a great deal of joy and satisfaction, and we’ve enjoyed the opportunity to discuss it here on KinkyCast.

It’s taken almost 8 years to get to episode 400. A lot of water has gone under the bridge since February 2014. Tonight we gathered Miss Leigh, Miss-Tress, Dr. Vanilla Nurse Ratched, and Touchy to discuss shows they like and to give you a feel for the depth of what we offer. We have hosted internationally notable speakers, tons of educational shows, and the shows that our audience like are the kinkster next door type and get their kink on where ever that can. We have compiled a listing of the top 100 plus some honorable mentions, for you to check out, with links to each show!

This week we invited our old friend, Lew Rubens back to the cast to help out on some listener questions. Lew is an experienced rigger and suspension artist, He has a love and passion of bondage that shows in his work. Known mostly for his wild suspensions, Lew joined the public side of BDSM play spring of 2001 and started his first website, and started teaching his unique simple bondage style which he branded as “Lewbari” the other “bari”.

This year Frolicon is serious about all attendees being vaccinated. So we asked our own Nurse Ratched to vaccinate “Franny” the Frolicon mascot. Pam and Dr. Dan lay out what this is all about and what you need to do to protect all your friends. We are expecting a big crowd and need everyone on board. Dr. Dan has enclosed some links to get the point across for you to and share with the hesitant.

Listeners have written in to learn how best to approach getting into Kink and BDSM play. Tonight’s guest has been active in making new players feel at home with all their new found kinks. She has been active in her local community and nationally with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Tess (pronouns she/her/hers) is an Arizona kinkster with a message of inclusion and advocacy. Tess has been on the Board of Directors for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (Your Rights. Your Privacy. Your Freedom. (ncsfreedom.org)

MissVye, age 28, from Idaho is a long time polyamorous switch. Growing up in a family who was openly sexual, non monogamous, and kinky it was no surprise that she followed suit. Since age 22, MissVye has practiced polyamory and been involved in local Fetlife and Facebook groups. In fact, she is a co-admin for a local polyamorous group for ages 18-35 on Facebook. Her relationship style is non hierarchical with an emphasis on allowing partners their independence. Kink-wise, MissVye is a switch who varies from babygirl to Mommy, sadist to bottom, and so much more. She currently has two boyfriends and a girlfriend. In her spare time, MissVye likes to be social and host local events, play with her two cats and dog, and paint.

This week Woody speaks with Tom from hardART. Tom says, "I want to make art, damn sexy art. Landscapes, cityscapes and the female form are my base interests artistically, all the better melded into one image with cohesive composition. In my work, I hope you find true art that brightens your soul.”