Every year at this time we gather members of the KinkyCast crew and sit around the dining table to discuss the happenings in our world. This year’s topic is Mainstreaming. We once had an exclusive little club called Kink. It didn’t matter if you were LGBTQ+, swinger, poly, straight, BDSM practitioner, or any of the other flavors for kink that make the crazy quilt that we are. We stayed underground, because it was safe. The fewer outsiders that knew about what we did, the better. Time goes by and now it seems everyone you meet is kinky in some way. They read a book, saw in on TV, or were surprised by it in a movie. Curiosity blooms. Follow the links below for a lot more info.

Every year at Christmas time we sit down with Susan Wright of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSFreedom.org). We talk about what’s in the news that Kinksters, polyamorists, and the spectrum of players that we call friends. With the many changes in the presidential cabinet, we wonder what was changer in 2018 and what might change in 2019. What rights we may loose, current freedoms that will be less free and the just plain fucking us that is so irritable. This is always an informative show and this year is loaded with some gems that you may not have noticed, in your daily life… Yet!

In our exhausting search for new and different things to bring out listeners, we stumble onto some pretty interesting people and some downright hilarious writings. Tonight we bring you, Is Mostly Evil’s slightly tilted world of lazy Domming. How did IsMostlyEvil (aka IsMe) get here, you need to listen to this wild ride into a lazy world…

But first, a disclaimer of sorts...

WTF?

Long time friend of the Cast, Lady Steele, Lawyer to the Kinksters, brings a legal perspective to the app and what you should expect as a participant.

Lady Steele has served in the Leather community since 1999 and has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles.

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/253---lady-steele---consent.html

Bella LaVey spent five years as the highly sought-after dominatrix and erotic wrestler known as Evil Kitty. Through her own sexual awakening, she learned that there is nothing more powerful than bringing one’s darkness into the light and owning your story. Bella believes we must become unshameable around our sexuality to become sexually whole and empowered. She is a holistic sex and relationship coach and facilitates several workshops in the domains of embodiment, tantra, intimacy and erotic polarity at her studio, Temple Shakti in Austin. Her book, Fetish Girl: A Memoir of Sex, Domination and Motherhood was be published on November 13th.

“How Do You Deal With All These Angry Comments?”

“I just saw your latest entry,” goes the text. “Holy shit, how do you deal with all of these idiots leaving snarky comments?”

So I thought I’d share my official Tips For Handling FetLife Comment-Storms:

Tip #1: Be A Dude.

Now. This isn’t to say that you’ll receive no comments as a duderino. In fact, I can hear the menfolks saying, “MEN HAVE IT SO MUCH HARDER ON THE INTERNET! I MYSELF - “

Good luck.

This week we explore Pushing Limits, the good, the bad and the ugly!

#247 - Ascending Phoenix - Author