Physical pain and emotional pain aren't really very different after all.  It all registers in our sensory receptors, causes an emotional reaction, and leaves us with the choice of what to do with it.   Some of us stuff it and seal it off,

Here are the two steps to solving any conflict, any time.  With kids -- family -- at work -- friends -- anywhere.  Really.

Here are the two steps to solving any conflict, any time.  With kids -- family -- at work -- friends -- anywhere.  Really.

Here are the two steps to solving any conflict, any time.  With kids -- family -- at work -- friends -- anywhere.  Really.

Margin is the extra that we need.   We are a world of efficiency, and efficiency can often seem like the enemy of margin.   All healthy people and healthy relationships need space in every bank account that we have - our time, money, energy, and connections.   Putting some margin in every account allows us to truly live and have the full relationships we are designed for.

Margin is the extra that we need.   We are a world of efficiency, and efficiency can often seem like the enemy of margin.   All healthy people and healthy relationships need space in every bank account that we have - our time, money, energy,

Margin is the extra that we need.   We are a world of efficiency, and efficiency often seems like it is the enemy of margin.   All healthy people and healthy relationships need space in every bank account that we have – our time, money, energy, and connections.   Putting some margin in every account allows us to truly live and have the full relationships we are designed for.

Margin is the extra that we need.   We are a world of efficiency, and efficiency often seems like it is the enemy of margin.   All healthy people and healthy relationships need space in every bank account that we have – our time, money, energy,

Our brains are always at work making sense of people through ascribing motives.  But this ancient hack can fall short of serving it's purpose in some major ways.  Here, I give 7 (or 8) principles that can help navigate the tricky terrain of making sense of peoples' words and actions.

Our brains are always at work making sense of people through ascribing motives.  But this ancient hack can fall short of serving it's purpose in some major ways.  Here, I give 7 (or 8) principles that can help navigate the tricky terrain of making se...