Recorded: 6/06/2021 / Published: 2/06/2022

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- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by defining and discussing Gender Identity.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “Gay Pride Month: What is Gender Identity?-S03E47” https://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity-terminology-and-definitions
Sexual orientation:
An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people.
Gender identity:
One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth.
Gender expression:
External appearance of one's gender identity, usually expressed through behavior, clothing, haircut or voice, and which may or may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically associated with being either masculine or feminine.
Transgender:
Gender transition:
Gender dysphoria:
Glossary:
https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms
Asexual:
Bisexual:
Cisgender:
Gay:
Gender binary:
Gender dysphoria:
Gender-expansive:
Gender expression:
Gender-fluid:
Gender identity:
Gender non-conforming:
Genderqueer:
Intersex:
Lesbian:
Non-binary:
Pansexual:
Queer:
Questioning:
Same-gender loving:
Sex assigned at birth:
Sexual orientation:
Transgender:
Transitioning:

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Recorded: 5/30/2021 / Published: 2/3/2022
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- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the ongoing controversy of leather, kink, and BDSM’s involvement or removal in Pride parades.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “Gay Pride Month and BDSM Isn't Allowed-S03E46”
- “BDSM and kink don’t belong in Pride celebrations. This is why
Every year we have this debate, but the facts stay the same: It’s a matter of politics and consent” By Skylar Baker-Jordan / May 25, 2021
https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/bdsm-kink-pride-lgbt-rights-celebrations-why-b1853859.html

“The best clap backs to the ‘no kink at Pride’ discourse: Leather, kink, bare asses and a titty or two are a fundamental part of Pride” By Mel Woods • May 26, 2021
https://xtramagazine.com/power/kink-at-pride-bdsm-201775?fbclid=IwAR10igoFCs5TMgmbBNigL--jZxLC9XeAPqNuufedtm8C2gnreILirGZRBRs

- What was Stonewall?
Stonewall Riots (Jun 28, 1969 – Jul 3, 1969)
The Stonewall riots were a series of spontaneous demonstrations by members of the gay community in response to a police raid that began in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in the Greenwich Village neighborhood of Manhattan, New York City.
Fact Sheet: https://dv2oc5tyj18yr.cloudfront.net/wp-content/blogs.dir/2/files/2019/05/stonewallfactsheet-1.pdf

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Recorded: 5/16/2021 / Published: 1/30/2022
- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Lady Katie about female Dominance and The Sapphire Club,

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1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- “Lady Katie on Female Dominants-S03E45”
- https://fetlife.com/users/6523246?sp=4

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Recorded: 5/16/2021 / Published: 2/27/2022

- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to be explaining DD/lg BDSM dynamics.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “What are DDlg BDSM Relationships-S03E44”

-”15 DDLG Quotes That Explain Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships”.
https://www.yourtango.com/quotes/sex/kinky-ddlg-daddy-dom-quotes
Daddy Dom and little girl relationships, also known as DDlg or DD/lg relationships, are among the most commonly misunderstood of the various types of passionate loving relationships that fall under the umbrella of BDSM kink.

I can understand why, at first glance, seeing a Dominant referred to as "Daddy" or "Mommy" and a submissive referred to as "little girl" — or baby girl," "boy," "boi," or a variant along those lines — could appear, well, creepy.
However, as the DDlg quotes below show, these cute relationships are typically quite healthy and loving.

- What is a Daddy Dom?
A Daddy Dom is a dominant partner (typically male, but not always) who cares for, nurtures, and assumes responsibility for their submissive, typically referred to as their little or baby girl. Talk about freaky relationship goals.
Daddy Doms may serve as a paternal figure, but that should not be mistaken to mean the people involved in DDlg relationships are in any way involved or approving of incest or pedophilia.
"The Daddy Dom indulges, edifies, and chastises his childlike, submissive partner, who may be both emotionally and financially dependent upon him," explains Miya Yamanouchi. "The partner to a 'Daddy' (or 'Mommy') is a 'little girl' or ('little boy')... [a submissive who] enjoys being treated like a child by her lover, most commonly calling her partner 'Daddy' both in and out of the bedroom."
Many people consider BDSM synonymous with the more old-fashioned, somewhat outdated label "S&M" — sadomasochistic relationships in which one person, the Master or Mistress, has complete control, while the other, the "slave," is a willing victim and subject to his or her Dom or Domme's every whim. This dynamic is generally thought of by many in the Vanilla (non-kinky) community less as a relationship and more as an abusive arrangement between a violator and a victim.
There are, of course, exceptions to every rule, and abusive relationships, unfortunately, exist within the BDSM community as they do everywhere else. But there are many types of Dominants and submissives, and most are perfectly healthy, high-functioning people involved in perfectly healthy, high-functioning relationships.
And while some of these relationships are sadomasochistic (hence the SM at the end of BDSM), that is only one end of the kinky spectrum. On the other end, you have Daddy doms and their baby girls.
Picture all of the best parts of what an ideal Daddy provides: warmth, strength, measured humor, discipline as needed, undivided attention, nurturing, caregiving, stability, support, and unconditional love.
Now picture the best parts of what the best baby girl provides: laughter, joy, silliness, fun, playfulness, warmth, affection beyond belief, beauty, awe, excitement, mental and physical challenges, and unconditional love. Who wouldn't want a relationship that includes a constant give and take between those qualities?
You don't have to take my word for it, of course.

- These 15 DDlg quotes about Daddy Doms and littles illustrate exactly how passionate, loving, and not all creepy their...

Recorded: 5/09/2021 / Published: 1/23/2022

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- In this week’s episode of The Krypt I am going to be talking mentorships-what are they, who needs them, what makes great mentors and mentees, and what causes them to fail.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “What are BDSM Dom and sub Mentorships-S03E43”
- What is a mentorship?
Definition: The guidance provided by a mentor, especially an experienced person in a company or educational institution.
- Why are mentorships important?
A mentor may share with a mentee (or protege) information about his or her own career path, as well as provide guidance, motivation, emotional support, and role modeling. A mentor may help with exploring careers, setting goals, developing contacts, and identifying resources.
- Who is suited to mentor someone?
https://www.forbes.com/sites/maryabbajay/2019/01/20/mentoring-matters-three-essential-element-of-success/?sh=758fe5b545a9
- A good mentor needs to be more than just a successful individual. A good mentor must have the disposition and desire to develop other people. It requires a willingness to reflect on and share one’s own experiences, including one’s failures. Great mentors must be able to both “talk the talk” and “walk the walk.”
- What makes a good mentor:
1: A desire to develop and help others. A good mentor is sincerely interested in helping someone else without any “official” reward. Good mentors do it because they genuinely want to see someone else succeed.
2: The ability and availability to commit real time and energy to the mentoring relationship. Good intentions aren’t enough—mentoring takes time!
3: Current and relevant industry or organizational knowledge, expertise, and/or skills. The best mentors have deep knowledge in an area that the mentee wishes to develop.
4: A willingness to share failures and personal experiences. Mentors need to share both their “how I did it right” and their “how I did it wrong” stories. Both experiences provide valuable opportunities for learning.
5: A growth mindset and learning attitude. The best teachers have always been and always will be those who remain, curious learners, themselves. Would you rather be advised by someone whose mind is shut because he knows it all or by someone whose mind is open because she is always looking to deepen her knowledge?
6: Skill in developing others. This includes the very real skills of active listening, asking powerful, open-ended questions, self-reflection, providing feedback, and being able to share stories that include personal anecdotes, case examples, and honest insight.
- What makes a good protege?
(See Forbes link above.)
Just as there are specific characteristics of a successful mentor, there are attributes and sensibilities that make for a good mentee. This is important because mentees must remember that mentors are doing this from the goodness of their heart, so being a good mentee is the best way to ensure the relationship enjoys a healthy purposeful existence.
- Mentees need to be:
1: Committed to expanding their capabilities and focused on achieving professional results.
2: Clear about their career goals, needs, and wants. Mentoring isn’t therapy where one just rambles aimlessly. mentees are...

Recorded: 4/25/2021 / Published: 1/20/2022
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- In this week’s episode of The Krypt, we are talking about "The Safeword defense" and consent violations.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “Safeword Defense and Consent Violations-S03E42”
Written by and permission given by Soup on Fetlife. https://fetlife.com/users/10338348/posts/6015142
Let’s say that Daniel and Craig decided to do a scene together. Daniel lays down a hard limit: don’t put a pineapple up my ass. An hour later, during the scene, when Daniel is vulnerable and things are getting pretty steamy, Craig slowly shoves that pineapple right up into Daniel’s butt.
Now let’s pause for a second here. In an ideal case, Daniel would safeword. The scene is immediately over, then comes the conversation: “Hey Craig, why did you just violate my hard limit?” But of course, there are quite a few reasons why someone might not safeword. Let’s come back to this later.
So Daniel says nothing, and Craig continues on his way. Scene over, done, everybody go home. Later that week, Daniel texts Craig. “Hey, can we talk about that scene we did? I feel like my consent was violated, given I put down a hard limit on pineapples and you didn’t respect that.”
Here comes what I call the Safeword Defense.
Craig responds: “Uh, well, you didn’t safeword. You don’t really get to complain later if you didn’t safeword.”
Now there are two things wrong with this.
First, basic attitude issue. Craig’s immediate reaction to a concern brought up by a bottom is to jump to a defense. Perhaps feedback does need to be given back to the bottom, and that’s alright, but hear them out first. Open conversation and feedback not going to happen in a situation where both sides are throwing up defenses in the first place. Everyone needs to feel safe and heard. If the bottom was truly shaken by their experience and wants to hash it out, listen.
Second, this is a false method of dismissing someone’s concerns.
What Daniel and Craig have here is a pretty clear-cut consent violation. The ass pineapple was inarguable. But there’s a contingent of people in the kink community that feel that if you don’t safeword in the scene immediately after your consent was violated, you don’t really have a leg to stand on later.
This isn’t true though. The bottom’s reaction to a consent violation doesn’t change whether or not it happened. It happened. Definitively.
If I steal some jewels from the store, but I don’t set off the alarm, I don’t get to argue later that I didn’t actually steal anything because the alarms didn’t go off fast enough. I still stole some jewels, which is a crime, and the cops will put me in jail. The alarms are irrelevant.
Now in the case of a consent violation, it may not have been intentional, and it may be forgivable. In my view, the problem really boils down to how the top reacts. A good reaction: “I’m concerned to hear I made you feel this way. Tell me your side of the story. I may have made a mistake and I’d like to correct it for the future.” And then after discussing the issue, apologize directly for the consent violation action. “I’m sorry I did not respect your hard limit. In the future, I will listen to bottoms more carefully.”
Now one may object, but why didn’t Daniel safeword?! Bottoms need to take care of themselves! Consent violations occur when...

Recorded: April 25, 2021 / Published: Jan 16, 2022
- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- In this week’s episode of The Krypt, thanks to the newest subcategory of TikTok, we are talking about watersports also known as golden showers.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “Ultimate Guide to Watersports-S03E41”.
Why golden showers/watersports?:
The feel.
The taste.
The taboo.
Dominance/submission..
Humiliation/degradation.
Basic types of watersports:
Wetting
Pussing (Men watching women pee in toilets)
Human urinal
Omorashi or omo: Japanese word meaning "to wet oneself". (Making someone hold it, do the pee-pee dance, and finally wet themselves.
Myths:
Urine is sterile. False! There are naturally occurring bacterias in urine. Some bacterias can start growing when it comes in contact with urine.
Drinking urine is healthy. False! It is a waste product and can spread diseases including bacterial, fungal, and viral infections.
Drinking urine can dehydrate you. False! There is high sodium (salt) level in urine which will cause fluid retention.
Safety:
HIV and Hep B can be transmitted but it is so incredibly rare it is almost impossible. However, it is highly recommended to play safe with STD/STI testing.
Bacteria can be passed through urine so do not play if you’ve been sick.
Do not participate if the person providing the shower has a yeast infection.
Do NOT get urine on open wounds including unhealed piercings and tattoos.
Allergy Risk: Medications are passed through urine.
Generally, watersports is a low-risk activity and is typically consider edge play due to the taboo nature of bodily functions.
Getting started with a partner:
Communicate: discuss desires, limits, medical issues, safe words, and aftercare.
Take it to shower: there is no better place to try out watersports than in the shower.
Do NOT go straight to the face! Even if face pissing is acceptable take your time and start at the legs and feet or even the torso or hands.
Have a post-scene check-in and talk about it a few days to a week later.
Level up with waterproof sheets and have some fun!
Prepping:
Drink a lot of water before a play session to help flush out the system.
Do NOT drink coffee, tea, energy drinks, strong-flavored drinks (beer), or protein drinks.
Do NOT eat strong-smelling foods such as asparagus, broccoli, and garlic.
Do NOT eat high protein foods including plant-based proteins.
Less potent teas are great to help with flow. Dandelion tea is a top choice.
Some people prefer to receive a more “potent” golden shower. In this case, do the opposite of the previous prepping steps.
Solo (auto-erotic urophilia):
DD/lg/lb: Diapers and changing
Primal and Pet Play:
Marking your territory
Making someone go outside or use a litterbox to relieve themselves.
Using piddle pads.
Power Exchange:
To some, urine consumption is the ultimate sign of dominance and submission. To this end, it is often reserved for special occasions, performed ritualistically, or used as a punishment.
Degradation/Humiliation:
Forced...

Recorded: 4/18/2021 / Published: 1/13/2022
- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we have some fun sex toys buying facts from 2020 and then it's another highly requested audience Q&A.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “BDSM Fun Facts, Sex Toys, and Q&A-S03E40”
“The Rise of Sex Toys and Key Trends for 2021” By Lara Dolden February 8, 21
https://techround.co.uk/news/the-rise-of-sex-toys-and-key-trends-for-2021/
Let’s face it, 2020 was not the most exciting year on record. Between canceled holidays, restaurant closures, and separation from friends, it was difficult to stay entertained. Many were taking to the bedroom to add some adventure to the otherwise humdrum lockdown days, with record-breaking increases in sex toy purchases. With much of the world still on lockdown, it seems the enthusiasm for sex toys is set to continue for 2021, with a few key trends.
Strapped Down in Lockdown
Whilst many were getting cabin fever during a national lockdown, some were clearly content to get even further locked down. 2020 proved to be a year of experimentation, with sales seemingly showing an increased preference for BDSM. Sexperts at Ann Summers reported increased sales in BDSM products including whips and bondage restraints.
In particular, there was a 799% sales increase of faux leather buckle cuffs. All of this alongside a 70% increase in Google Searches for “what is BDSM?” There was an enormous increase in sales for bondage essentials such as ball gags and nipple clamps (582%) and spreader bars (429%) showing that bondage and BDSM experimentation is on the rise.
The Year of the Rear
Another thing that people seemed to be exploring during the pandemic was anal sex, with a 40% increase in Google search data for “how to have anal sex”. Curiosity for this topic was clearly piqued with another search term, ‘what is pegging in sex?’, experiencing a 250% rise in Google searches. The ‘Intro to Anal Kit’ was the top-selling anal toy, according to data from Ann Summers.
Additionally, the ‘Booty Blue Beginner’s Butt Plug saw a 137% increase in sales. Experts predict that anal dildos and pegging equipment will be the go-to items for 2021 as couples start to get more experimental in the bedroom.
The G-Spot is So Last Year
Sex tech has long-since been establishing itself in the world of tech and robotics, causing a stir at the 2019 CES (Consumer Electronics Show). For 2021, sex tech has come back even bigger and better than before. Remember the one-trick pony sex toys of yesteryear?
These are a far cry from the latest toys, designed to blend different techniques for the so-called “holy grail of orgasms”.The latest products from pioneering Lora DiCarlo use advanced technology to simultaneously provide clitoral stimulation and stimulation of the CUV (formerly known as the G-Spot). With the latest PercussionTouch, the sex toys are designed to replicate the warmth of human touch and stimulate blood through the use of thermal conductive plastics.

Q&A Time!
Junicorns Angel​:
When going to a new or new to you dungeon, what are your first steps for getting familiar with the rules, & the attendees?
any play stories you are willing to share?

Lily Chaos:
​Can you do kink and vanilla bucket lists for both of you when you answer that bucket list question?

The Play Space:
BDSM for Short Attention Spans​I'd like rope more if I was any good at it. I can't practice with the cats around.

Recorded: 4/11/2021 / Published: 1/9/2022

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- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to have some fun and talk about 20 sex facts you probably don’t not know about sex. Plus, if we have time, we’ve three really interesting bonus facts.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “20 Things You Don't Know About Sex-S03E39”
*Prior to birth, unborn babies masturbate.
* Orgasm is a reflex of the autonomic nervous system. The ANS controls things we don’t continuously control like arousal, breathing, and digestion.
* You can orgasm when you are brain dead.
* You don’t need genitals to orgasm.
* Orgasm can cause a seminal odor in women’s breath about an hour after achieving orgasm.
* Orgasming can cure intractable hiccups.
* Fertility doctors used to prescribe orgasms for conception due to the now-debunked “upsuck theory”.
* Dr. Kinsey recorded 300 men ejaculating to measure the distance of the shot. A third of the men had no distance and one man shot 8 feet.
** The human womb has an oxygen level equivalent to the top of Mount Everest, designed to keep the fetus asleep 95% of the time.
** A man had a brain tumor that caused him to orgasm every time he looked at a safety pin.
** Powdered wigs became popular to hide syphilis symptoms.
*** According to a 2005 sex study, you are greatly more likely to orgasm if you wear socks during sex. 80% of couples wearing socks had orgasms but only 50% of the couples not wearing socks got off.
*** On average fewer heavier men experience premature ejaculation than skinny men.
*** Sex can temporarily wipe your memory due to Transient Global Amnesia.
*** People in their twenties have sex an average of 80 times per year.
*** Going from having sex once a month to once a week can provide a person with the same joy as making an extra $50 thousand a year.
**** 53% of women want more sex than they are having.
**** Nearly 75% of women want to have sex at least 3 times a week.
**** Female orgasm rates: Lesbians 74.7%, straight women 61.6%, and bisexual 58% of the time.
**** Because nipple play stimulates the exact same areas of the brain, 29% of women have experienced a nipple-gasm.
Bonus Fact #1: **** Most women cheat on there husbands with men who’s penis is larger than their husbands’ because they associate it with pain and discomfort. This has been proven to be one way a cheating woman will punish herself for her infidelity.
Bonus Fact #2: **** Simultaneous orgasm is rare, most people will never experience it.
Bonus Fact #3: **** A man will ejaculate around 4.5 gallons/17 liters of semen in their lifetime.
Sources:
* TEDx: “10 things you didn't know about orgasm | Mary Roach”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jx0dTYUO5E
** Sexplanations: “9 Intriguing Sex Facts”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oU9097--t4w
*** BuzzFeedVideo: “10 Weird Sex Facts That You Should Know”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtYI1OMrbgY
**** Psychology Success: “25 Naughty Facts About Sex”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j3FYb4il30

Important...

- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 

- Two weeks ago we talked about when you should not participate in BDSM play and in this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to keep with that theme because I found something from Spain that I have to share with as a BDSM nightmare and a huge warning to those of you that love to randomly meet people in person that you have met online.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

-  “IRL Hooking up with online players: BDSM Nightmare-S03E38-S03E38”
“Group Arrested For Torturing, Blackmailing Man With Learning Disability” by Brian Yalung, Mar 11, 2021
https://www.latintimes.com/group-arrested-torturing-blackmailing-man-learning-disability-466718
“Seven people who allegedly tortured a mentally unstable man in Spain have been arrested. Four women and three men reportedly glued the lips of the man and forced him to go to the supermarket dressed as a woman. However, that was not the worst part of it. The man, who had a learning disability and wanted to get an extreme makeover, also ended up with tattooed penises on his face. His eyebrows were also shaved while his toes were sewed. The despicable act all started when a man offered to pay anyone online to help him get that makeover.

At some point, the man, whose identity remains unknown, was able to escape when he told the kidnappers that he needed to go to a cashpoint so that he could pay his captors off. The kidnappers agreed and the victim immediately ran to the police. He has been receiving death threats since doing so.

It appears all of it stemmed from an online contest which the man organized online. The contest was based on a sexual role-play game where he could pay anyone to help him change his appearance using transvestism and light BDSM.

There were some who the man-made to sign a contract that was titled “Change of Look.” But it was the group that eventually got chosen and headed to the property in Manacor after meeting up in a city center square in the Majorcan capital Palma called Plaza de Espana.

The victim is reportedly in his 30s and videos show some of the ordeals. That included the man saying that he needed to untie himself in a minute or his eyebrows would be shaved off.

The suspects were reportedly aged between 20 to 30 and were arrested over the torture they did on the man. A mother of one of the suspects has also been called for questioning since the episode took place at her home. She is, however, not among the ones arrested.

“We have taken a statement from the victim and what he's said is that he made it clear ahead of the contest he didn't want extreme violence or sex,” Alejandro Becerra, a spokesman for Spain's National Police in Majorca said. “The effects of the treatment meted out to him are serious because he'll have to have treatment to remove the tattoos for example.”

How to avoid things like this:
Common sense: 
If things don’t make sense then run.
If you don’t understand then run.
Never forget, “there’s nothing common about common sense.” However, if we make it a point to stop, take a breath, and push the pause button for a few seconds, we can allow ourselves the opportunity to experience a lightbulb moment. 

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