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Hey there, our wonderful Let's Be Perfectly Queer family! In this episode we’re diving into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) childhood moments that hinted at our queerness long before we had the words to describe it.

But first, big news! Western Australia just announced a $2.25 million funding boost for LGBTQIA+ services. We break down what this means, why it’s crucial, and how it helps bridge funding gaps for queer communities.

Next up, we get personal—talking about disclosure, representation, and the impact of visibility in everyday life. From missed opportunities to moments of growth, we reflect on how representation (or the lack of it) shapes our experiences and helps combat misinformation.

🎮 The Main Event: Childhood Signs of Queerness
✨ Always picking the male characters in PlayStation games? Check.
🔥 Crushing on Kim Possible, Esmeralda, or some very specific animated characters? Double check.
📺 Queer Coding in Media – How films, TV shows, and books influenced our self-discovery.
⚠️ Toxic Tropes vs. Healthy Representation – Why it matters how queerness is portrayed in media.

Every queer journey is unique—so if our experiences don’t match yours, that’s okay! Queerness exists in a vast, beautiful spectrum, and there’s no right or wrong way to be you.

💌 We want to hear from you! DM us or email [email protected] and tell us:

• What childhood moment made you go, “Ohhh… I was definitely queer”?
• Which queer-coded character shaped your self-discovery?

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In this episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer, we’re suiting up to tackle queer representation in the Marvel and DC universes. From Wiccan and America Chavez to Loki and Mystique, we break down who’s repping the LGBTQ+ community in Marvel and DC—and where these mega-franchises still need to do better.

But first, Katie spills all about recent queer events in Perth, including Fringe, Perth Fest, and Craft in the Park hosted by Pride Shed, a cozy monthly gathering where queer folks craft, connect, and, apparently, darn socks (shoutout to Kevin!).

We also tackle some hard-hitting global LGBTQ+ news—like Hungary’s Pride ban and the impact of politics on identity. Plus, we chat about the Australian PM showing up at Mardi Gras and why political support (or lack thereof) matters for the queer community. 

It's also Western Australian State Elections so we are reminding everyone to get out and vote!

The Main Event: Queer Superheroes & Villains in Marvel & DC

💥 Wiccan, Agatha, Batwoman, America Chavez, Iceman, Loki, Deadpool & More! – Which characters bring authentic LGBTQ+ stories to the big screen, and who’s getting erased?
🔥 Straight-Washing & Tokenism – When studios downplay or erase queer identities in mainstream films.
🎭 Comic vs. Film Representation – Why are some characters queerer in the comics than in the movies?
💡 Why Representation Matters – The impact of positive queer storytelling in superhero media.

We love hearing from you! 💌 Drop us a DM or email us at [email protected] and let us know:

• Who’s your favorite LGBTQ+ superhero?
• What queer characters deserve more screen time?

Oh, and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share—every listen helps us keep bringing you the queer content you love!

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⚠️ Trigger Warning: Eating Disorders & Body Image

This episode includes discussions about body image & eating disorders. If these topics are sensitive for you, please listen with care. If you need support, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, therapist, or a helpline in your area.

Australian Support Resources:
📞 Butterfly Foundation (Eating Disorder Support) – 1800 33 4673
📞 Lifeline (Crisis Support) – 13 11 14

Your well-being matters. Take care and listen at your own pace. 💜

In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, Archie and special guest Jessica L'Whor dive into the highs, lows, and misconceptions of the drag industry. From social media success to the physical and emotional challenges of a drag career, they uncover what it truly takes to thrive in the world of queer performance.

Inside This Episode:

Drag Beyond the Spotlight – Why drag is more than just a hobby and the realities of making it a career.
Social Media & Success – The power of authenticity in building an audience and staying true to yourself online.
The Physical Demands of Drag – The pressure to stay in shape, managing body image, and the impact of eating disorders.
Queer Visibility & Inclusivity – Evolving beauty standards in drag and why representation matters.
Fighting Hate & Discrimination – The challenges faced by drag performers in today’s political climate and how allies can show up for the LGBTQ+ community.

Tune in for an honest, eye-opening, and empowering conversation. 

Plus, don’t forget to follow Jessica L’Whor on social media and check out their podcast!

Jessica L'Whor:

Instagram: @jessicalwhor
Tiktok: @jessicalwhor
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jessicalwhor
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jess-talks/id1661888129
website: https://www.jessicalwhor.com/

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Queer Rights, Global Bans & A Game of 'Would You Rather' 

In this  episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we dive into some big LGBTQIA+ issues making headlines. We also play a game of Would You Rather, but with a Queer twist.

🔥 What’s Inside This Episode?

🚫 Hormone Ban in Queensland – Why has the government blocked gender-affirming care for trans youth 

🏑 Trans Women Banned from Women's Teams - England Hockey – The latest in a wave of discriminatory sports policies and what it means for global LGBTQ+ rights.

🌎 The Domino Effect – How these global decisions are impacting Australia and sparking fear for the future of queer rights.

🏳️‍🌈 The Importance of Representation – Erasure and why visibility matters more than ever.

👀 Personal Stories & A Fun Twist! – From coming out in small towns vs. big cities to a hilarious round of Queer Would You Rather, this episode has it all.

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In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we welcome Dr. Lucas Wilson—a passionate postdoctoral researcher, queer advocate, and survivor of conversion therapy. Join us as we uncover the raw, honest truth about his life, work, and the profound impact of evangelical homophobia.

Dr. Wilson shares his powerful journey of resilience, starting with his experiences at Liberty University—one of the most controversial evangelical institutions linked to conversion therapy. We dive deep into the roots of evangelical homophobia, the manipulative practices used to enforce shame, and the emotional conditioning that binds individuals to harmful beliefs.

Together, we explore:

• How conversion therapy affects mental health and self-worth.
• The complexities of evangelicalism and its connection to systemic homophobia.
• The role of education, community, and empowerment in healing.

As we wrap up, Dr. Wilson introduces his groundbreaking book, Shame-Sex Attraction Survivors' Stories of Conversion Therapy. This compelling collection of personal stories offers invaluable insights into the queer experience while exposing the harm caused by conversion therapy and evangelical culture.

This candid conversation isn’t just educational—it’s a rallying call for awareness, support, and change. Tune in to this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer Podcast to hear Dr. Lucas Wilson’s story and gain a deeper understanding of the LGBTQIA+ struggle against oppressive systems.

✨ Support Resources: If this episode brings up anything for you, reach out for help:

• Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14
• Qlife: 1800 184 527 or www.qlife.org.au
• Trevor Project (US): 866-488-7386 or www.thetrevorproject.org

🎧 Don’t miss it—stream Let’s Be Perfectly Queer wherever you listen to podcasts!

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Hey there, fabulous listeners! In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of queer icons and activists. Picture this: a dinner party where we get to invite all the influential figures who've made a significant impact on the queer community. Who would we choose? Tune in to find out!

We also discuss the exciting possibility of Perth becoming the host city for the Gay Games in 2030! 

In addition, Archie shares a personal announcement about his teaching career and the challenges he has faced.  We reflect on the pressures and changes in the education system and discusses the growing number of teachers leaving the profession due to burnout and lack of support. 

Don't forget to share your thoughts and let us know who you would invite to your ultimate queer dinner party. We love hearing from you! You can reach us on Instagram or email us at let'[email protected].

And remember, we're taking a short break after this episode, but we'll be back with a brand-new season in mid to late January. We appreciate each and every one of you for being part of our podcast journey.

Enjoy the episode and have a safe and joyful festive season!




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In this episode, we delve into our experiences at PrideFEST, a 10-day extravaganza of incredible events. We watched the Cricket Uni Pride round, got dressed up for the AGWA Pride Ball, attended the Pride opening at the Piazza, joined Perth Front Runners for a medal-worthy walk, met some of you at Fair Day, went to PICA After Dark and soaked in the vibrant atmosphere of the parade. This November has been a celebration of love, diversity, and the power of community.

Now, let's switch gears a bit. We have an exciting interview lined up with Antony, a participant in the groundbreaking LGBTQ+ reality dating show Boyscation Too. Anthony shares with us his experiences on the show, including the challenges and growth he experienced.

So, what are you waiting for? Tune in now to Let's Be Perfectly Queer and join us as we share our PrideFEST adventures and dive deep into the extraordinary world of Boyscation Too with Antony.





Topics Discussed:

- PrideFEST events in Perth, Western Australia
- Uni Pride round cricket match
- The AGWA Pride Ball at the Art Gallery of Western Australia
- Drag performances
- Pride opening at the Piazza
- Fair Day
- Pica After Dark
- Interview with Anthony from Boyscation Too
- Experiences on the reality show
- Importance of queer dating shows
- Personal growth and learning

Entities Mentioned:

- PrideFEST
- Pride WA
- Uni Pride
- AGWA Ball
- Art Gallery of Western Australia
- Le Gateaux Chocolat
- Cheeky Waffles
- Boyscation Too

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Hey, everyone and welcome to Let's Be Perfectly Queer podcast. This week's episode is all about Random LGBT Facts! Join me as I dive into some fascinating and sometimes mind-boggling trivia about the LGBTQIA+ community.

Did you know that the planet Mercury is a symbol used for the transgender community? 🌙✨ Or that in 1987, Delta Airways apologized for suggesting they should pay less compensation for a life lost in a plane crash if the passenger was gay? It's shocking how far we've come since then! 🌍✈️

We'll also discuss the estimated 8.8 million LGBTQIA+ individuals in the US and approximately 1 million children raised by same-sex couples. Family is family, no matter who we love! ❤️🌈

Join me for an insightful conversation with Archie as we explore these queer facts and challenge societal stereotypes. Tune in to the Let's Be Perfectly Queer podcast to learn more!


Topics Discussed:

-  Random queer facts
-  Symbolism of the planet Mercury for the transgender community
-  Controversial fact about Delta Airways and compensation for a gay passenger
-  Lack of conclusive research on the causes of sexual orientation
-  Statistics and representation of the LGBTQ+ community worldwide
-  States in the united states with the highest and lowest concentrations of gay
    couples
-  Discrimination and homophobia in politically conservative regions
-  Relationship between left-handedness and sexual orientation
-  Influence of hormones in the womb
-  Historical instances of sexual ambiguity and queer literature
-  Animal species exhibiting homosexual behavior

Entities Mentioned:

-  Let's Be Perfectly Queer (Podcast)
-  Delta Airways
-  California
-  Walt Whitman
-  Bruce Nugent
-  Lisa Ben
-  Daughters of Bilitus
-  Nazi concentration camps
-  ACDC (sexuality term)
-  AIDS
-  Dwarf chimpanzee


If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

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We've received some "fan mail" (well, anonymous messages really) after our last episode, where we discussed social transitioning. Shoutout to our mystery listener! We appreciate you sharing your journey and speaking out so bravely. Your voice matters 

In this episode, Katie will be reacting to some truly heart-wrenching homophobic comments we stumbled upon on a local brand's social media post. These comments were downright disgusting, and we'll be sharing a few examples (with warning!) to shed light on the ongoing challenges faced by our LGBTQ+ community. Stay tuned for Katie's responses! 

We also want to take a moment to remind you about the upcoming Pride events in Perth. Despite the hate and negativity some may express, Pride is a celebration of love, acceptance, and the fight against discrimination. We are proud to promote these events and stand with the LGBTQ+ community.

In addition to our podcast, we have some exciting events on the horizon. On the 17th of November, we'll be joining Fair Day, a vibrant Pride market event with amazing food, products, art exhibitions, and entertainment. Make sure to mark your calendars.

If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

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In this episode, we're diving into the fascinating world of queer representation in pop culture, specifically exploring the character of Agatha in the hit show Agatha All Along. Is it true representation or just Queer baiting? 

But that's not all. We also delve into the concept of social transitioning, discussing what it means to reflect your true, authentic self in your everyday life. From choosing a new name to changing pronouns and adopting different gender presentations, we cover it all. We share personal stories and experiences that shed light on this transformative journey.

We understand that social transitioning can be a complex and sometimes daunting process. That's why we provide valuable tips for a positive social transition, including taking it at your own pace, practicing self-care, and seeking support. We believe that everyone's journey is unique, and we accept and celebrate that diversity.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of representation, social transitioning, and the beautiful diversity of the queer experience. 

So, grab your headphones, get comfortable, and immerse yourself in the magical world of Let's Be Perfectly Queer. It's a podcast that embraces all aspects of queer identity and reminds us that the journey to self-discovery and acceptance is a beautiful, transformative adventure.

Until next time lovelies, stay perfectly queer!




If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

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