Let's HEAL!

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  • Ep 36: What Happens When You Choose Yourself for One Year? This Trauma Survivor's Answer
    #HowtoHeal #HealingFromTrauma #ChildhoodTrauma #ChoosingYourself
    Healing from trauma is possible when you finally choose yourself. Ebony Jones-Thomas shares her sexual assault survivor story and how one transformative year changed everything—leading to love, boundaries, and purpose.
    My guest in this episode is Ebony Jones-Thomas, courageously sharing her journey of overcoming childhood trauma, foster care, grief, and identity after adoption, and multiple assaults. At age 24, she made a decision that transformed her life: taking one full year for people-pleasing recovery
    and healing from trauma. Our conversation explores PTSD recovery and
    resilience, how to heal through forgiveness and self-forgiveness, setting
    boundaries with family and in-laws, faith-based healing, and why choosing yourself equips you for every future challenge.
    This is Ebony's first time sharing publicly.
    --- CHAPTERS ---
    00:00 Introduction: The moment everything changed
    04:50 Ebony's trauma story: Birth through multiple assaults
    16:00 Understanding grief and identity after adoption
    24:15 The breaking point: Choosing to rewrite her story
    27:20 One year of healing: Celibacy, therapy, and self-forgiveness
    32:00 Meeting her husband and finding true love
    38:10 Mother-in-law rejection and standing firm in healing
    45:10 How healing provides tools for future challenges
    54:10 Why survivors don't come forward: Me Too insights
    58:50 Connecting with Ebony's work and closing thoughts
    --- CONNECT WITH EBONY ---
    ✨ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yourrunningrecruiter
    ✨ Website: YourRunningRecruiter.com
    --- FREE RESOURCE ---
    ✨Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    --- WORK WITH BETH ---
    ✨Mentoring (1:1 / group) → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/work-with-me
    ✨Speaking & Interviews → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/speaking
    ✨Book: "Becoming an Empowered Survivor" → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/books
    --- CONNECT WITH BETH ---
    ✨Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    ✨YouTube | TikTok → @BethJonesHEALingMentor
    Thank you for watching this video. Click the "SUBSCRIBE" button to stay connected with this podcast.
    #sexualassaultsurvivors #HealingFromTrauma #ChildhoodTrauma #OvercomingTrauma #PTSDRecovery
    1 hr 3 min
  • Ep 35: Losing Two Sons in 7 Months | How Faith and Purpose Heal Unimaginable Grief
    Trigger Warning: Suicide, addiction, overdose, grief.
    #childloss #griefhealing #faithandpurpose
    What keeps you going when you lose two children in seven months? Paula Baldwin shares her raw journey from devastating loss to purposeful healing—and why she believes her pain has meaning.
    My guest in this episode is a mother who experienced the unimaginable—losing her youngest son, Dylan, to suicide and her middle son, Dayton, to addiction, just seven months apart. Our conversation explores Paula's journey through grief, the importance of support groups, the questions that may never be answered, and how faith and purpose can sustain you
    through the darkest valleys. This is Paula's first time sharing her story
    publicly, and her vulnerability and strength will touch your heart.
    --- CHAPTERS ---
    00:00 Honoring Dylan & the reality of grief
    01:25 Meet Paula + why this story matters
    04:18 Content warning & caring for yourself
    9:36 Finding survivor support groups
    20:49 Wrestling with “why” & faith-based healing
    21:02 Dayton’s story: addiction & overdose grief support
    34:03 From pain to purpose—helping others
    45:18 How to connect + next steps
    --- CONNECT WITH PAULA ---
    ✨ Contact Paula through Beth: [email protected]
    --- FREE RESOURCES ---
    ✨Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    ✨Subscribe to this podcast
    --- WORK WITH BETH ---
    ✨Mentoring (1:1 / group) → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/work-with-me
    ✨Speaking & Interviews → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/speaking
    ✨Book: "Becoming an
    Empowered Survivor" → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/books
    --- CONNECT WITH BETH ---
    ✨Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    ✨TikTok | YouTube →
    @BethJonesHEALingMentor
    Thank you for watching this video. Click the "SUBSCRIBE" button to stay connected with this podcast.
    #letsheal #childloss #suicideloss #addictionloss #grief #faithhealing #traumarecovery #survivorstory #paintopur­pose #griefjourney #healingispossible
    47 min
  • Ep 34: Breaking Generational Silence: When Speaking Out Saves Lives
    #breakingsilence #generationaltrauma #childprotection
    #speakingout
    "I was given the life I was given, so that when this happened to my family, I would make that right decision of reporting and of protecting her, and of doing everything for her that was not done for me..." - Angelina Loeza
    What if your most painful experience was actually preparing you to save someone else's life? When Angelina Loeza's 4-year-old daughter made
    an outcry about sexual abuse, she faced an impossible choice: continue the generational pattern of silence or break the cycle forever.
    My guest in this episode is author and advocate Angelina Loeza, a mother of three who courageously broke a generational cycle of silence around childhood sexual abuse. Our conversation explores Angelina's journey
    from childhood trauma survivor to protective mother who made the difficult but necessary choice to report her daughter's abuse—ultimately leading to a life sentence conviction for the perpetrator. The episode highlights the power of speaking truth, the healing that comes from breaking family secrets, and how our past pain can become our greatest purpose in protecting the next generation.
    --- CHAPTERS ---
    00:00:00 - Introduction and Welcome
    00:05:06 - Angelina's Background and Family
    00:08:16 - Childhood Sexual Abuse and Family Response
    00:12:01 - The Impact of Not Being Believed
    00:18:24 - Misconceptions About Love and Relationships
    00:25:09 - Meeting Her Husband and Learning True Love
    00:31:11 - Her Daughter's Outcry - The Pivot Point
    00:36:03 - Making the Decision to Report
    00:38:05 - Successful Prosecution and Life Sentence
    00:40:05 - God's Message and Isaiah and Understanding Her Calling to Write
     00:45:17 - Family Pushback vs. Public Reception
    00:53:36 - Healing is Never Complete
    --- CONNECT WITH ANGELINA ---
    ✨Book: "Shut Up: Making Private Matters Public" available on Amazon
    ✨Facebook: Angelina Loeza (personal page)
    ✨Facebook: Angelina Speaker Author (professional page)
    ✨Nonprofit: www.servicedogsforkids.org
    --- FREE RESOURCES ---
    ✨Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    ✨Join the Empowered Survivors Community → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/community
    --- WORK WITH BETH ---
    ✨Mentoring (1:1 / group)
    → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/work-with-me
    ✨Speaking & Interviews → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/speaking
    ✨Book: "Becoming an Empowered Survivor" → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/books
    --- CONNECT WITH BETH ---
    ✨Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    ✨Facebook | Instagram → @BethJonesHEALingMentor
    Thank you for watching this video. Click the "SUBSCRIBE" button to stay connected with this podcast.
    #letsheal #childhoodtrauma #childabuse #sexualabuse #familysecrets
    #protectingchildren #courtadvocacy #servicedogs #faithhealing #traumarecovery #survivorstory #couragetoSpeak #breakinggenerationalcurses #HealingIsPossible
    1 hr 2 min
  • Ep 33: Gut Health is the Foundation of ALL Health
    #guthealth #holistichealing #traumahealing
    Gut health and emotional healing are more connected than you
    might think—and this conversation with Dr. Selvi Rengasami reveals exactly how. If you've been struggling with digestive issues, chronic inflammation, or feeling disconnected from your intuition, your body might be telling you something deeper about unprocessed trauma.
    Dr. Selvi is a Western-trained medical doctor turned holistic health coach who discovered through her own journey with Crohn's disease that gut health is truly the foundation of all wellness. After seven abdominal surgeries and two near-death experiences, she found healing through
    holistic approaches when Western medicine fell short. In this powerful episode, she shares how the body stores grief, fear, and anger physically in the gut—and how healing your gut can transform not just your physical health, but your emotional state, boundaries, and spiritual connection.
    What you'll discover in this episode:
    • Why gut health affects your metabolism, hormones, immune system, mood, and intuition
    • How unprocessed trauma manifests as physical symptoms in your digestive system
    • How your gut is the only body system fully open to the external world—and why that matters
    • The role of somatic experiencing, nervous system work, and medical intuition in healing
    • Why the gut is called your "second brain" and produces most of your serotonin
    Whether you're dealing with bloating, chronic pain, autoimmune issues, or simply feel like something is "off" in your body, this conversation offers hope and practical insights into alternative healing modalities. Dr. Selvi's journey from Western medicine to holistic health coaching shows that your body holds the wisdom you need—you just need to learn how to listen.
    --- CHAPTERS ---
    00:00:00 - Introduction and Meeting Dr. Selvi Rengasami
    00:05:30 - Her Rock Bottom: Seven Surgeries and Two Near-Death Experiences
    00:10:30 - The Body Keeps the Score: Trauma in the Gut
    00:12:30 - From Medical Brain to Acceptance and Surrender
    00:15:30 - Ancestral Trauma and Being a Curse Breaker
    00:17:00 - Fear Absorbed in the Womb
    00:21:30 - The Cat's Arthritis Story: A Turning Point
    00:25:00 - Discovering Holistic Health and Acupuncture
    00:27:30 - Diet's Role in Natural Aging
    00:35:00 - The Microbiome and Emotional Health
    00:36:00 - Fasting and Listening to Your Body
    00:40:00 - Spiritual Gifts and Gut Health Connection
    00:43:30 - Reconnecting Women to Their Inner Wisdom
    00:45:00 - Client Story: Setting Boundaries Organically
    00:47:00 - Why the Gut Stores Trauma
    00:49:00 - The Gut as Our Second Brain: Serotonin Production
    --- CONNECT WITH DR. SELVI ---
    ✨ Website: www.drselvimi.com
    ✨Free Resource: Downloadable Digestive Relief Toolkit
    ✨ Instagram: @drselvimi
    ✨Facebook: selvi.rengasami
    --- FREE RESOURCES ---
    ✨ Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    ✨ Join the Empowered Survivors Community → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/community
    --- WORK WITH BETH ---
    ✨ Mentoring (1:1 / group) → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/work-with-me
    ✨ Speaking & Interviews → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/speaking
    ✨ Book: "Becoming an Empowered Survivor" → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/books
    --- CONNECT WITH BETH ---
    ✨ Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    ✨ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/BethJonesHEALingMentor
    ✨ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/bethjoneshealingmentor/
    Thank you for listening to this episode. Please subscribe to my podcast to stay connected with the inspirational healing messages I share with you regularly.
    55 min
  • Ep 32: From Toxic Relationships to Inner Peace: Breaking the Cycle of Trauma
    #toxicrelationships #breakingcycles #innerwork
    #intentionalhealing
    "I kept being in toxic, abusive relationships. I felt like I was on a hamster wheel of trying to be better and wanting better, but not attracting better. So that's when I really was just like, okay, I need to do something and I need to look inward instead of blaming everybody else around me." - Priscilla Quezada
    How do you break free when toxic relationships feel like the only thing you know? Priscilla Quezada shares her powerful journey from childhood sexual abuse to founding Powerful Authentic Queen—and the moment she realized she had to change herself to break the pattern.
    My guest in this episode is Priscilla Quezada, founder of Powerful Authentic Queen (PAQ), a brand empowering women who have experienced sexual abuse and domestic violence to reclaim their power after trauma. Our conversation explores Priscilla's journey from recognizing patterns of toxic relationships to doing the intentional inner work required for true healing. She shares candidly about her two pivot points—one driven by suicidal depression, the other by intentional commitment to healing—and how cultural expectations around machismo complicated her family dynamics. The episode highlights the importance of looking inward, setting boundaries with family, and building a toolbox of healing modalities that create lasting transformation.
    --- CHAPTERS ---
    00:00:00 - Introduction and Welcome
    00:01:20 - Meeting Priscilla Quezada 00:02:10 - Introducing Powerful Authentic Queen (PAQ)
    00:05:00 - Childhood S3xu@l Abuse and Patterns
    00:06:00 - The Hamster Wheel of Toxic Relationships
    00:07:00 - Looking Inward vs. Blaming Others
    00:10:00 - Family Dynamics and Boundaries
    00:10:30 – Healing Journey Pivot Points
    00:17:30 - Being Intentional About Healing
    00:23:30 - Having Courage to Leave Toxic Situations
    00:34:30 - Cultural Overlay: Machismo and Dominican Background
    00:37:30 - Seeing a Healthy Relationship: Aunt and Uncle
    00:44:00 - Learning Self-Love Through Relationships
    00:51:00 - Finding Internal Peace
    --- CONNECT WITH PRISCILLA ---
    ✨ Website: www.powerfulauthenticqueen.com
    ✨Instagram: @powerfulauthenticqueen ✨ Personal Social Media:
    @priscillaquezada (LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube)
    --- FREE RESOURCES ---
    ✨ Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    ✨ Join the Empowered Survivors Community → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/community
    --- WORK WITH BETH ---
    ✨ Mentoring (1:1 / group) →
    https://empoweredsurvivors.com/work-with-me
    ✨Speaking & Interviews → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/speaking
    ✨ Book: "Becoming an Empowered Survivor" → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/books
    --- CONNECT WITH BETH ---
    ✨ Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    ✨Facebook | Instagram → @BethJonesHEALingMentor
    Thank you for listening to this episode. Click the "SUBSCRIBE" button to stay connected with this podcast.
    #letsheal #toxicrelationships #domesticviolence #childhoodtrauma #sexualabuse #healingjourney #breakingcycles #generationaltrauma #innerwork #intentionalhealing #boundaries #familydynamics
    #culturaltrauma #traumarecovery #survivorstory #powerfulauthenticqueen #priscillaquezada
    55 min
  • Ep 31: Human Design & Relationship Spheres | The Key to Love | Danielle Laura
    #humandesign #genekeys #relationshipspheres
    #energeticselfmastery
    "When we look at all of these spheres together, the light, the shadow, and the gift of every single one of them, it liberates us to choose relationships in our life, whether it's romantic or platonic, that are actually nourishing, healthy, and mutually fulfilling. And who doesn't want that?" - Danielle Laura
    What if understanding your energetic blueprint could transform every relationship in your life? If you've ever wondered why some relationships feel effortless while others drain your energy, this conversation will reveal the missing piece.
    My guest in this episode is Danielle Laura, an energetic self-mastery expert specializing in Human Design and Gene Keys. Our conversation explores how understanding your energetic blueprint can revolutionize your relationships and help you choose connections that are truly
    nourishing and fulfilling. Danielle shares her unique approach to spiritual
    gifting and how these ancient systems can guide us back to who we were designed to be before trauma and conditioning.
    — CHAPTERS —
    00:00:00 - Opening Hook: The Key to Choosing Healthy
    Relationships
    00:02:30 - Meet Danielle Laura: Energetic Self-Mastery
    Expert
    00:06:00 - Understanding Your Energetic Blueprint vs
    Personality Tests
    00:09:00 - The Journey from Shadow to Light State
    00:16:30 - What Are Relationship Spheres?
    00:22:00 - The Four Relationship Quotients Explained
    00:33:30 - Beth's EQ Sphere: From Seriousness to Ecstasy
    00:48:30 - Understanding Emotional Frequencies in
    Relationships
    00:53:00 - Why 80% of Relationship Problems Start with
    Self-Awareness
    00:55:30 - Beth's Complete Relationship Mantra Revealed
    01:04:00 - Spirituality and Human Design: A Christian
    Perspective
    01:11:30 - How Human Design Brought Danielle Closer to God
     
    — CONNECT WITH DANIELLE —
    ✨Website: daniellelaura.com
    ✨Facebook: danielle.laura.73113
    ✨Instagram: _daniellelaura_
    ✨YouTube: @_daniellelaura_
     
    — FREE RESOURCES —
    ✨Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide
    → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    ✨Join the Empowered Survivors Community
    → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/community
     
    — WORK WITH BETH —
    ✨Mentoring (1:1 / group) → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/work-with-me
    ✨Speaking & Interviews → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/speaking
    ✨Book: “Becoming an Empowered Survivor”
    → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/books
     
    — CONNECT WITH BETH —
    ✨Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    ✨Facebook | Instagram → @BethJonesHEALingMentor
     
    Thank you for watching this video. Click the "SUBSCRIBE" button to stay connected with this podcast.
     
    #letsheal #spiritualgifting #shadowwork #lightstate
    #relationshiphealing #emotionalfrequency #energeticblueprint
    #relationshippatterns #vibratinalfrequency #divineinspiration #energetichealing #soulwork #relationshipmastery #emotionalintelligence
    1 hr 17 min
  • Ep 30: My Astrologer Predicted Everything: Job Loss, Family Crisis & Finding Love
    What happens when an astrologer predicts your entire year with stunning accuracy? In this deeply personal episode, Beth Jones, the host of this podcast, shares her extraordinary journey through 18 months of astrological predictions that came true exactly as foretold - from career changes to family crises to finding her life partner precisely when predicted.
    --- CHAPTERS ---
    00:00 Opening Hook: Getting Fired After 32 Years
    02:00 Introduction: My Year of Living Life Foretold
    04:00 Why Most People Get Astrology Wrong
    06:00 Part 1: The Prophecy - March 15, 2024 Reading
    15:00 Part 2: The Prophecy Fulfilled
    16:00 Love and Family: The Tough Love Lesson
    18:00 The Family Crisis That Had to Happen
    20:00 Work and Healing: Career Death and Rebirth
    22:00 Getting Fired: When God Was Ready
    24:00 Pioneering New Healing Territory
    25:00 Love and Relationships: The Awakener Trail
    29:00 Mr. Escape: Learning Not to Settle
    30:00 Mr. Cloak: When Meditation Becomes Avoidance
    32:00 The Teacher: Mastering the Four Levels of Intimacy
    34:00 Mr. False Pretenses: The Block I Didn't Know I Had
    36:00 Discovering My Unconscious Racial Block
    40:00 Finding My Person for Christmas
    41:00 Part 3: The Bigger Picture
    42:00 What the Stars Knew All Along
    --- FREE RESOURCES ---
    Download: The Healing Quick Start Guide → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/heal
    Join the Empowered Survivors Community → Empowered Survivors Community - Empowered Survivors
    --- WORK WITH BETH ---
    Mentoring (1:1) → Contact Beth Jones - EmpoweredSurvivors
    The Empowered Survivor’s Journey → Work With Me - EmpoweredSurvivors
    Speaking & Interviews → Inspirational Speaker - EmpoweredSurvivors
    Book: "Becoming an Empowered Survivor" → Beth Jones Books - EmpoweredSurvivors
    --- CONNECT ---
    Website → https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    Facebook → Facebook
    #astrology #divinetiming #spiritualawakening #healingjourney #traumarecovery #careerchange #findinglove #spiritualgrowth #lifetransformation #healingmentor #letsheal
    44 min
  • Ep 29: I Broke Completely - From Ground Zero to Self-Love
    What happens when a lifelong people-pleaser hits absolute rock bottom? If you're drowning in overwhelm while helping everyone else, this story will change your perspective.
    My guest in this episode is my good friend, Cami Foerster, author of "The Selah Journey" and a certified life coach specializing in burnout recovery. Our conversation covers Cami's profound transformation from chronic overwhelm and people-pleasing to radical self-discovery and healing. The episode highlights the power of hitting "ground zero" as a catalyst for complete life transformation and the biblical concept of "Selah" - the healing power of pause, rest, and reflection.
    💥Also available on YouTube channel @BethJonesHEALingMentor
    Highlights of this episode
    💛Ground zero or rock bottom can be a powerful catalyst for transformation. Sometimes we must break completely to rebuild authentically. The moment when continuing the same path becomes literally life-threatening is when real change becomes possible.
    💙People-pleasing and chronic helping others while neglecting yourself creates systemic inflammation, sleep disorders, and emotional numbness. Learning to recognize the difference between healthy helping and validation-seeking is crucial for recovery.
    💛The concept of "Selah" - pause, rest, reflection, and gratitude - provides a framework for sustainable healing. True self-care goes far beyond surface activities and requires addressing the root causes of overwhelm and burnout.
    💙Healing transformation affects all relationships. Some partnerships survive major personal changes while others don't, often depending on how both people respond to the growth process rather than the changes themselves.
    💛Learning to feel pride in your healing work is healthy and necessary. Breaking free from messages that emotions don't matter or that leading from the heart is weak allows for authentic self-expression and genuine self-love.
    💙The physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of rest must all be addressed in healing. Sleep regulation alone can take 12-18 months, and developing sustainableboundaries and self-care practices is an ongoing lifetime process.
    Connect with Cami
    ✨"The Selah Journey" book by Cami Foerster (available on Amazon)
    ✨The Selah Journey (www.theselahjourney.com)
    ✨Social media: Facebook cami.foerster | Instagram camifoerster
    Follow me, the HEALing Mentor
    🩵Website: https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    🩵Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethjoneshealingmentor
    🩵Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BethJonesHEALingMentor/
    🩵TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bethjoneshealingmentor
    🩵LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bethjoneshealingmentor/
    Thank you for listening, and please subscribe to my podcast.
    #healingmentor #healingjourney #letsheal #burnoutrecovery
    #peoplepleaser #groundzero #panicattack #overwhelm #perfectionism #depression #anxiety #selfcare #boundaries #selahjourney #chronicstress #emotionalhealing #sleephealing mentalhealthawareness #lifeCoach #spiritualhealing #gratitudepractice #mindfulness #naturetherapy #selflove #transformation #HealingIsPossible #BreakdownToBreakthrough
    1 hr 5 min
  • Ep 28: Healing After Major Life Changes (How to Cope With Trauma & Loss)
    #identitycrisis #lifetransitions
    "I feel more fully who I really am than I ever have in
    my whole life. I like myself more than I ever have. I'm using gifts I didn't
    even know I had..."
    My guest in this episode is leadership coach, author, speaker, and minister Becky Burroughs, who shares her journey through profound loss, including the end of a 41-year marriage, the deaths of her parents, and a significant
    career change. Becky describes the resulting identity crisis and feelings of
    being lost and broken at age 60. She explains how her faith became her anchor and led her toward "resilient healing"—not just surviving these devastating changes, but using them as a catalyst for profound self-discovery and coming home to her most authentic self. The conversation highlights the importance of rediscovering personal identity, celebrating small wins in healing, and reframing gratitude by focusing on lessons learned from hardship.
     If you have or are facing major life transitions and emotional challenges (who hasn’t/isn’t??), then this episode is for you.
     💥CTA: Please subscribe to my podcast. Your support will help me to continue bringing my HEALing message to the world.
    Takeaways & Timestamps
    💛Resilient healing means transformation, not just survival (00:04:30) - When life strips away the titles and roles that defined you, it's an opportunity to discover your authentic self and become the truest version of who you are, rather than just bouncing back.
    💙Grief accompanies all change, not just death (00:23:30) - Learning that with every change comes loss, and with loss comes grief. Naming, owning, and walking through grief for all life transitions—even positive ones—takes away its power over you.
    💛Healing has visible progression markers (00:12:00) - You'll know you're healing when you can talk about your trauma without falling apart, moving from sobbing and going fetal to standing strong while sharing your story with others.
    💙Reframe gratitude through learning (00:16:30) - Instead of forcing gratitude for awful experiences, find gratitude for what they taught you: "I'm grateful for this because it taught me..." This approach redeems difficult experiences through the lessons gained.
    💛"We-ness" can erase personal identity (00:32:30) - Many people lose themselves in long-term relationships, especially when marrying young. Knowing who you are as an individual is crucial before you can successfully partner with someone else.
    💙Celebration and reflection fuel healing (00:14:30) - The "hard work of grief" requires intentional effort through reflective practices, honest self-examination, and celebrating even tiny victories to provide evidence that healing is happening.
    Connect with Becky
    ✨Book: "Come Back Home to You: Navigating Life's Transitions and Embracing Next Chapter Living" on Amazon
    ✨Podcast: "Leadership Becomes Her"
    ✨​Facebook​
    ✨​Instagram​
    ✨Email: ​[email protected]
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    🩵Website: https://empoweredsurvivors.com/
    🩵Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethjoneshealingmentor
    🩵Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BethJonesHEALingMentor/
    🩵TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bethjoneshealingmentor
    🩵LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bethjoneshealingmentor/
    #healingmentor #healingjourney #letsheal
    55 min
  • Ep 27: How Trauma Changes Your Brain (And How to Heal It) | Why Your Childhood Trauma Affects Learning | Trauma Therapist Explained
    My guest in this episode is Jessica Hammock, a licensed trauma specialist and director of behavioral and mental health for a large charter school system in Texas. Our conversation covers Jessica's profound personal journey through multiple traumas and her professional mission to help
    children and teens develop healthy coping strategies early in life. The episode highlights the intersection of personal healing and professional calling, demonstrating how our most difficult experiences can become our greatest tools for helping others.
    Jessica shares her deeply personal story of navigating multiple life-altering traumas. Three years into her marriage, her husband sustained a traumatic brain injury that erased his emotional memories of their entire relationship, including their courtship, dating, and wedding. This was
    followed by a ten-year journey with infertility involving multiple pregnancy losses. Through these experiences, Jessica discovered her true calling in trauma work, initially pursuing therapy training to help students overcome learning barriers caused by trauma.
    We explore Jessica's evolution from a teacher who wanted to improve math education to a trauma specialist who recognized that emotional
    healing must come before academic success. She discusses her own identity trauma from childhood and how understanding the brain's response to trauma has shaped both her personal healing and professional approach. Jessica emphasizes the power of choice in healing and the importance of helping children understand they have options in how they respond to difficult situations.
    💥CTA: Please subscribe to my podcast. Your support will help me to continue bringing my HEALing message to the world.
    💥Video version of Let's HEAL! with Beth Jones is available on YouTube.
    Highlights of this episode
    💛Trauma is an injury we sustain in our nervous system. Just like physical injuries, emotional injuries can heal. We shouldn't compare our trauma to others' experiences because each person's journey with trauma and healing is unique.
    💙The power of choice is fundamental to healing. Teaching children and teens that they have choices in how they respond to situations helps prevent the development of unhealthy belief systems and shame-based identities.
    💛Identity work is crucial in healing. Understanding who we truly are versus the identities that we take on or that others want us to wear helps us stay grounded during difficult times and relationship challenges.
    💙Memories and emotions work in complex ways. The brain can store experiences without emotional connections, and healing can happen even when direct memories aren't accessible through patterns of reactions and responses.
    💛Safe community is essential for healing, especially for young people. The challenge is helping teens find communities that support healing rather than trauma bonding around shared struggles.
    💙Hope consists of three elements: goal setting, pathways to completion, and agency (the belief that you can accomplish something). Speaking into people's ability to heal and grow provides crucial support in their healing journey.
     Connect with Jessica
    ✨Facebook: Jessica Vibrant Hammock
    ✨Instagram: Jessica Vibrant Hammock
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Welcome to Let’s HEAL! with Beth Jones. I’m Beth, your leadership performance strategist and the HEALing Mentor. We’re still talking about healing our survival patterns, but this show is taking the…