Let's Talk Dementia

When you were growing up, your mother most likely said "Be careful."  Today, I am saying the same thing.  Especially when it comes to hiring in-home help for your loved one with dementia.

If you are unhappy, could it be a result of your mindset?  Are you dwelling on the negative rather than the positive?  Let's look at that idea in today's episode.

You'll teach yourself a new way to behave, and set a standard for the type of person you are truly are - not the one you've dreamed about becoming -  by who you practice being every single day. (Rachel Hollis in her book GIRL, WASH YOUR FACE.  I highly recommend this book.  Here is the link - https://amzn.to/3pkfFeD )

You grew up thinking your parents never had sex.  You preferred NOT to think about them having sex as you became an adult.  When they moved to an assisted living, you were sure they NEVER had sex.  Today's show may change your mind on those thoughts.4

If I can make you giggle today, I will have accomplished my goal!

Thanksgiving Day is just around the corner. While you are busy planning the menu, take time to plan for a successful visit for your loved one with dementia.

If your loved one has Alzheimer's, it does not necessarily mean they have hearing loss.  In fact, most folks hear you quite well.  That leads us to this question - Why are you yelling at them?  Let's talk about that on today's episode.

Who doesn't enjoy having their hands rubbed or their back massaged?  Let's talk about that in relation to good communication techniques.

You know what they say about assuming?  When you assume, you make an ASS out of U and ME!  (Ass-U-Me)  Let's avoid that in all communication, but let's be very diligent to not assume when communicating with our loved ones with dementia. 

Are you in the process of moving your loved one to assisted living or memory care?  Have you thought about how to make their apartment most effective and attractive?  Those things are important, and I hope you will gain good tips from this episode.