Let's Talk With Coach Che Marville

⚠️ Sensitive Content Advisory:This episode of Let’s Talk contains discussions about sex, relationships, and societal taboos, which may not be suitable for all audiences. Listener discretion is advised.

In this episode of Let's Talk, produced by WiseMindly Inc., Coach Che Marville welcomes Cindy Gallop, founder of IfWeRanTheWorld and MakeLoveNotPorn. Cindy dives into the surprising origin of MakeLoveNotPorn and her mission to challenge societal taboos around sex, relationships, and personal freedom.

Through candid storytelling, Cindy reflects on her life, work, and the importance of redefining intimacy, all while building a business designed to promote both well-being and financial sustainability.

The Accidental Creation of MakeLoveNotPorn:

Cindy shares how dating younger men opened her eyes to the problematic role of porn as a default form of sex education. In response, she launched MakeLoveNotPorn at the 2009 TED conference to normalize conversations around sex, relationships, and consent through a documentary-style platform.

Socializing and Destigmatizing Sex:

Cindy explains how her platform provides a glimpse into real-world sex, distinct from performative pornography. With 100% human curation, MakeLoveNotPorn promotes healthy, authentic, and diverse expressions of intimacy, helping to foster consent, emotional vulnerability, and respect.

Men’s Unexpected Emotional Reactions:

Cindy reveals that many male users express gratitude and even emotional release, sharing that watching the videos on MakeLoveNotPorn often brings them to tears. The platform offers a rare space for men to see and express vulnerability in ways they don’t encounter elsewhere, challenging toxic masculinity and promoting emotional well-being.

Redefining Relationships Beyond Traditional Norms:

Cindy discusses her personal approach to relationships, embracing non-traditional dynamics. She highlights the importance of designing relationships that work for the individual, whether that means polyamory, casual connections, or solo exploration.

The Challenges of Running a Mission-Driven Business:

Cindy details the barriers she faces as a female entrepreneur in the adult space, including difficulties accessing payment processors and advertising platforms. Despite these obstacles, Cindy remains committed to her mission, emphasizing that safety and consent are core to her platform's human-curated model.

Crowdfunding and Expanding Sex Education:

Cindy introduces MakeLoveNotPorn's crowdfunding campaign on WeFunder, led by actress Jameela Jamil. The funding will support the creation of MakeLoveNotPorn Academy, an educational platform that curates sex education content for children and families, filling a vital gap in modern education.

You can learn more about Cindy Gallop at https://www.instagram.com/cindygallop/ or https://www.instagram.com/makelovenotporn/

Cindy's TED Talk:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV8n_E_6Tpc

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⚠️ Sensitive Content Advisory:This episode of Let’s Talk contains discussions about sex, relationships, and societal taboos, which may not be suitable for all audiences. Listener discretion is advised.

In this episode of Let's Talk, produced by WiseMindly Inc., Coach Che Marville welcomes Cindy Gallop, founder of IfWeRanTheWorld and MakeLoveNotPorn. Cindy dives into the surprising origin of MakeLoveNotPorn and her mission to challenge societal taboos around sex, relationships, and personal freedom.

Through candid storytelling, Cindy reflects on her life, work, and the importance of redefining intimacy, all while building a business designed to promote both well-being and financial sustainability.

The Accidental Creation of MakeLoveNotPorn:

Cindy shares how dating younger men opened her eyes to the problematic role of porn as a default form of sex education. In response, she launched MakeLoveNotPorn at the 2009 TED conference to normalize conversations around sex, relationships, and consent through a documentary-style platform.

Socializing and Destigmatizing Sex:

Cindy explains how her platform provides a glimpse into real-world sex, distinct from performative pornography. With 100% human curation, MakeLoveNotPorn promotes healthy, authentic, and diverse expressions of intimacy, helping to foster consent, emotional vulnerability, and respect.

Men’s Unexpected Emotional Reactions:

Cindy reveals that many male users express gratitude and even emotional release, sharing that watching the videos on MakeLoveNotPorn often brings them to tears. The platform offers a rare space for men to see and express vulnerability in ways they don’t encounter elsewhere, challenging toxic masculinity and promoting emotional well-being.

Redefining Relationships Beyond Traditional Norms:

Cindy discusses her personal approach to relationships, embracing non-traditional dynamics. She highlights the importance of designing relationships that work for the individual, whether that means polyamory, casual connections, or solo exploration.

The Challenges of Running a Mission-Driven Business:

Cindy details the barriers she faces as a female entrepreneur in the adult space, including difficulties accessing payment processors and advertising platforms. Despite these obstacles, Cindy remains committed to her mission, emphasizing that safety and consent are core to her platform's human-curated model.

Crowdfunding and Expanding Sex Education:

Cindy introduces MakeLoveNotPorn's crowdfunding campaign on WeFunder, led by actress Jameela Jamil. The funding will support the creation of MakeLoveNotPorn Academy, an educational platform that curates sex education content for children and families, filling a vital gap in modern education.

You can learn more about Cindy Gallop at https://www.instagram.com/cindygallop/ or https://www.instagram.com/makelovenotporn/

Cindy's TED Talk:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV8n_E_6Tpc

🎙️ Don’t Miss a Beat – Join the Conversation with Coach Che Marville! 🎙️

Unlock powerful insights, bold conversations, and life-changing ideas on Let’s Talk with Coach Che Marville. Each episode dives deep into transformation, well-being, and the human experience. Ready to grow, heal, and connect?

👉 Subscribe now never to miss an episode and be the first to hear from thought leaders like Cindy Gallop and more.

Follow Che Marville across platforms for updates, behind-the-scenes moments, and conversations that inspire:

🔵 Twitter: @CheMarvilleReal

📸 Instagram: @chemarville

📘 Facebook: @CheMarville

✨ Subscribe. Share. Leave a Review. Your reviews make a difference and help spread the message further. Let's keep the journey going – stay connected, stay curious, and let’s keep talking!

🎙️ Unlocking Positivity with Catherine Sanderson: Transformative Thinking & Resilience in Every Step | Let's Talk Podcast with Coach Che Marville

Welcome to "Let's Talk," your go-to space for empowering conversations, produced by WiseMindly Inc. In this episode, Coach Che Marville invites the brilliant Catherine Sanderson, author, professor, and positivity expert, to discuss mental resilience, shifting mindsets, and the power of small moments to enhance well-being.

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This episode unpacks the stigma around toxic positivity and explores the science-based practices that shift negativity toward meaningful growth. Catherine shares stories from her book that explore how perception shapes outcomes—from her son's academic turnaround to meaningful volunteering experiences.

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Tune in to learn how small mindset shifts can unlock joy, create resilience, and deepen your connections with others. This episode will leave you energized, ready to reframe your challenges, and inspired to move toward positivity.

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💬 Connect with Catherine Sanderson:
Website: sandersonspeaking.com
Instagram: @sandersonspeaking

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🎙️ Let's Talk with Che presents an essential conversation with Dr. Natalie Perkins, a public health expert and founder of Pauz. Together, Che and Natalie dive deep into the complexities of perimenopause, menopause, and reclaiming health and vitality. From the societal stigma surrounding aging to redefining sexual wellness, this episode offers a candid exploration of women’s health, advocacy, and empowerment in midlife.

What You'll Learn:

Listen now to discover how women can embrace change, find purpose, and thrive confidently, one pause at a time.

Call to Action:

Tune in and join the conversation! Visit https://pauz.health/for more transformative insights and coaching programs for midlife women ready to reclaim their power. 🎧

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We All Need A Village In Midlife

In this episode of Dear Che, Coach Che Marville addresses a heartfelt letter from a woman named Lisa, who shares her struggles with midlife challenges, including hormonal changes, family dynamics, and the need for community support. Che emphasizes the importance of self-care, understanding hormonal health, and seeking help from professionals. The conversation highlights the necessity of building a supportive village, advocating for oneself, and embracing the transformative opportunities that midlife presents.

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Che speaks with Dr. Avis Jones-DeWeever, a renowned educator and entrepreneur, in this insightful conversation. Dr. Jones-DeWeever shares her journey from academia to entrepreneurship, highlighting her mission to empower women of color in business and leadership.

The discussion covers pressing societal issues, including:

Dr. Jones-DeWeever offers a nuanced perspective on the unique challenges faced by Black women, addressing:

The conversation delves into political representation, examining figures like Kamala Harris and the complex dynamics of race in politics. Dr. Jones-DeWeever provides valuable insights on:

Throughout the episode, Dr. Jones-DeWeever emphasizes her core message: the transformative power of betting on oneself. She encourages women to recognize their worth, pursue their ambitions, and create their own pathways to success.

Listeners can connect with Dr. Avis Jones-DeWeever and explore her work:

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In this episode of Let's Talk, Coach Che Marville explores the transformative power of yoga and mindfulness, emphasizing the importance of self-love in teaching and personal growth. She reflects on the significance of names and identity, particularly in the context of aging and societal perceptions of older women. Che encourages listeners to embrace life at any age, to reinvent themselves, and to live fully without the constraints of societal expectations.

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In this episode of Let's Talk, Coach Che from WiseMindly addresses the critical importance of mental health in the workplace, especially in light of rapid technological advancements and the rise of AI.

Coach Che emphasizes that as organizations focus on AI and technology strategies, they must equally prioritize the mental health and well-being of their employees. This isn't just about occasional wellness initiatives, but about fundamentally rethinking how work impacts mental health in our rapidly changing world.

Join us for this timely and crucial discussion on the intersection of technology, workplace culture, and mental health. Learn why psychological safety is not just a "nice-to-have" but an essential component of successful, future-ready organizations.

#MentalHealthAtWork #AIandWellness #WorkplaceWellbeing #TechAndMentalHealth

Navigating Midlife and Building Resilience: A Journey Through Grief and Transformation

Welcome, friends! I'm Coach Che Marville, host of Let's Talk. As we launch Season 4, I reflect on how this journey, which began during the pandemic, has evolved. What started as a response to isolation and loss has blossomed into a space for connection, relationships, and growth. In this episode, I share my experiences with grief, midlife transformation, and the lessons I've learned.

When I began Let's Talk, I was grieving the loss of my mother, a spiritual mentor and guide. Her passing from COVID-19 shook me deeply, igniting a long journey of healing. Much like midlife, grief is a catalyst for change, forcing us to confront who we are and who we're becoming.

Midlife brings biological and emotional shifts, including the challenges of perimenopause. Like many, I struggled with unexpected symptoms like anxiety and weight gain. But through weightlifting and embracing new habits, I found strength. Midlife isn't about holding on to the past; it's about growth and creating new patterns for the future.

Connection is also vital to our well-being. Building and nurturing relationships is crucial in a world that often isolates us. Podcasting has allowed me to share stories, build community, and rebuild the village.

As we progress, I invite you to join me in creating new habits for strength, resilience, and well-being. Together, we can thrive in midlife and beyond.

Stay connected, stay curious, and keep talking.

— Coach Che Marville

Upcoming Episode: Natalie Perkins, CEO of Pauz, joins us to discuss building resilience and success in midlife. Don't miss it!

Let’s Talk Returns On October 5.2024