Let's Unpack

In this solo episode, I’m unpacking my anxious attachment—what it looks like in my friendships, and how it’s shaped the way I relate to Jesus. I talk about that constant pull between wanting closeness and fearing distance, and how quickly I can believe the lie that one mistake makes God pull away from me.

I open up about the thoughts that hit when I “mess up”—feeling rejected, overanalyzing everything, and assuming Jesus must be disappointed or done with me. But instead of staying there, I walk through practical ways I’m learning to confront those lies and ground myself in truth.

This is for anyone who loves God but still wrestles with feeling secure in that love. We’re getting honest, naming the lies, and taking small, real steps toward freedom

In this episode of "Let's Unpack," we dive into the unpredictable nature of life and the lessons learned over the past year. With reflections on faith, community, and personal growth.

In this episode of Let’s Unpack, we step into one of the most honest and difficult realities of suffering—what happens when the desire to keep fighting doesn’t come easy.

We sit down with James Dunn, a brother in Christ from the Southern Connecticut Church of Christ, as he shares his recent cancer diagnosis and the journey that followed. But what makes this conversation especially powerful is James’ honesty about something many people feel but rarely say out loud—the struggle to even want to fight to live.

Rather than offering surface-level answers, James invites us into the real tension of faith and suffering. What does it look like to trust God when your strength feels low? When your motivation fades? When the fight itself feels overwhelming?

And yet, in that tension, we also see something deeply inspiring—a quiet resilience, a decision to keep going, and a faith that is not fake, but forged in the fire.

Whether you’ve been impacted by cancer, walking through your own hardship, or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers both honesty and hope.

💬 In this episode, we unpack:
• The internal battle of wanting to keep fighting• How a cancer diagnosis impacts faith and identity• Being real with God in moments of weakness• Finding strength when motivation is low• Encouragement for those facing illness or supporting loved ones

This episode is raw, vulnerable, and deeply human—and it reminds us that sometimes the greatest act of faith is simply choosing to keep going.

Patrick is back! 🎉 In this episode, he opens up about delivering his daughter (yes, you read that right 👀), the emotions he felt during his paternity leave, and how that season shaped his faith. Guillermo and Bianca jump in to share their personal reasons for going to church, digging into the heart behind community, worship, and love.

One of our favorite takeaways from Patrick:

“Church is not about what people are gonna be able to do for you; it’s about you loving people. Church becomes an opportunity for you to worship God through your love for people.”

This conversation is raw, encouraging, and a reminder of why showing up matters—not just for us, but for God and for others.

In this heartfelt episode of Let's Unpack, Guillermo and Bianca kick things off with a joyful update—Patrick is out this week because he just welcomed a baby girl! 🎉 Bianca opens up about reconnecting with her father after two years, sharing an emotional reflection on Father’s Day. She and Guillermo dive deep into how their relationships with their parents have shaped them, and how those dynamics differ from the bonds they’ve built with friends. Later, they’re joined by Brielle, a campus student, who shares her powerful testimony about taking a step back from ministry, her journey toward vulnerability, and what it’s been like returning with a new perspective.

This episode is raw, real, and full of growth. Let’s unpack it together.

Brielle Comes in at 25:20

After a long pause, Let’s Unpack is back — and life has been a lot. Patrick just had surgery and is preparing to welcome his second child — his first baby girl. Bianca is taking space to heal And Guillermo is wrestling with faith, feeling distant from God, stuck between the pressure to “make it” and the call to trust Jesus.

In this vulnerable conversation, Guillermo, Pat, and Bianca sit with the pain and patterns of mistrust, emotional deprivation, and self-sacrifice. Together, they explore how early wounds shape the way we love, trust, and show up — often at the cost of ourselves. They reflect on what it means to live with unmet emotional needs, to carry invisible fears into our closest relationships, and to lose parts of ourselves while trying to hold everyone else together. This episode isn’t about quick fixes — it’s about naming the hurt, understanding the roots, and beginning the long, necessary work of healing.

In this episode of Let's Unpack, we explore the profound impact of emotional deprivation on our lives and how schema therapy has helped us better understand our triggers. We discuss how these emotional wounds shape our responses to others, particularly in the realm of forgiveness. Tune in as we reflect on how recognizing our triggers and healing through Jesus Christ can lead us to deeper emotional freedom and spiritual growth

A lot has been happening behind the scenes—busy school schedules, miscommunication, creative ruts, and just life being life. But after some time away, we’re back and ready to unpack it all! In this episode, we catch up on what’s been going on in our lives, the challenges we’ve faced, and how we’re navigating it all as disciples. Let’s talk about the struggles, the growth, and everything in between.

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In this episode of Let’s Unpack, we sit down with Jason Burns to dive deep into the schema of “failure”—how it shapes his self-perception and impacts his relationships. Together, we explore the dynamics of male and female friendships within romantic relationships, the complexities of trust, and the fine line between emotional and physical cheating. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation about vulnerability, expectations, and the lessons we can all learn about connection and self-worth.