02_Joy In Covid

It’s no secret quarantine has been difficult for everyone and something we can all agree, it’s been a challenge but a grate question to ask is how can we find joy in the mist of quarantine? Christy Love and Stephen Dela Cruz shed some light on this question. Quarantine aside, how do or can we expect the unexpected? You can’t! It’s all about mid over matter. Ultimately stress happens because we tend to set expectations and when those expectations aren’t met, we get upset. It may not sound as positive but “Nothing last forever” meaning this quarantine isn’t forever. Stephen touches base on Niro Linguistic Programing (NLP) - “Choose your words wisely” using the word “if” isn’t as effective as using the word “when.” “What you see is what you receive.” Adding on to that, our minds are very powerful and we need to nourish it with changing our inner and outer dialog. Christy adds, “Don’t let excuses be the one that stops you! If we lived a life without excuses, how much further would we be in life?”  What would your life look like? 

How amazing would it be to live life on your terms? In this podcast Christy Love and Stephen Dela Cruz shares their personal stories with you about how they met and how their journey brought them to this moment. Christy and Stephen are a product of the term “opposites attract.” Early this summer, June 2020 they celebrated 11 years of marriage but their story goes way back. These two love birds met in bible school and dated for about 4 years before getting married, which means they’ve been together for 15 years. A key aspect to their relationship and life style is knowing how to live in the moment and planning for the future. Both certified in life coaching, they live a very positive lifestyle.

Stephen got started as a business coach but expanded his horizons and his opportunities. He says a quote that’s stuck with him since day one is, “Your money grows in your pocket only as much as you grow as a person.” He’s also very inspired by Tony Robbins who can talk anyone out of suiside in a matter of minutes. From one life coach to another life coach that’s a very admirable skill. Stephen speaks more in depth about his upcoming and his views but if there’s a piece of advice he can give you right now it would be,

“What you believe is how you behave and how you behave is what you become.” ~ Stephen Dela Cruz

Stephen is a very supportive husband and Christy reciprocates the same energy. She’s known in the entertainment industry but this podcast shows a piece of her personal life and views that not many get to hear about. She’s also a certified life coach and had started her life coaching school of greatness. Christy’s also very excited she’s now working closely with her husband, Stephen in Life By Design which inspired her to continue her personal development.  Christy is just like everyone else, she’s human and she has her fears but her definition of living a life by design is, “living out your greatness that is meant to come out of you.”What’s your definition?