Communicating with our Kids about Internet Pornography
4 ways Porn causes problems:
Negative impact on couples/gender relationsLeads men and women to devalue each other.Dominated by hostile sexism, frequent violence, gender dominations and object functionBecause Porn floods the brain with dopamine, it shorts circuits other systems.Porn becomes addictive, and undermines attachment, intimacy and the ability to relate.
The more frequent the porn use the lower sexual satisfactionPorn as ‘instinctive’ is inaccurate and leads to low quality sex.Loneliness-porn is significantly related to loneliness. Porn is associated with relationship distress, disrupted attachment and strain in relational hardwiring, and causes harm to relationships.Divorce-doubles for men and women who use pornEffects of porn:Need bigger and bigger hits to get the same feelingCan shrink the brain-porn addicts have smaller volume and fewer unTurns off certain parts of the brain that process visual imagery.Circuits short term mentality- and devalues delayed gratification. Women in relationships with men who are addicted to porn, spectators reported not being as happy than with men who did not view pron.As Christians we should approach conversations with our kids about sexuality within the context of Marriage
Communicating with our Kids about Internet Pornography allows us to present sexuality within marriage and the importance of accountability and covenant.
Raising real men means teaching and training them to fight temptation and to consider their own sexuality within the context of Love, Honor, and Virtue.
Gregg Harris always said that we should not be teaching Sex Ed but Marriage Ed.
Biblical answer- 1 Corinthians 6:12-20 (on Sexual Immorality)
How to Talk to Your Kids about Porn blog postRaising Real MenLove, Honor, and VirtueCovenant EyesAccountability 2YouTraining Books:Every Man’s BattleEvery Young Man’s BattleRaising Real MenListen in as Dr. David and Lisa Nehring talk about helpful communication skills!
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