Intention setting and asking for guidance are key to showing up in the best possible way, when visiting a loved one who is dying. Being open, listening, and observing will help you intuitively know what is needed. 

Reverend Bodhi Be is a trainer of death doulas and founded an organization along with his wife Leilah Be and Ram Dass, on Maui, working with families and professionals to engage in advocacy and educational programs on conscious aging, dying and death

Learn ways to stimulate your vegus nerve and try a breathing exercise.  I also guide you through the five senses practice to help you feel less overwhelmed.

Join us as Lori tells stories and shares what she has learned from 20+ years of working with people with dementia.  She encourages those visiting a loved one with dementia to separate the disease from the person, to let go of ego and to not take things personally.

We discuss how to support our children and offer understanding, even if their grieving process looks different than our own.

Erin notes that closure and ceremony are helpful in processing and suggests letting your children come up with ways to honor their loved one that feels good to them.

We learn to be aware of warning signs and are reminded to seek professional help right away for trauma.

Grief and grieving look different for all of us. Many people use creative outlets during their process, including Tanya, who wrote everything down that she could remember about her father. This was a cathartic experience for her and culminated in writing beautiful songs in her father’s honor, one of which is played at the end of the episode.

What is the difference between palliative and hospice care? When should a person forgo curative care? Why is it important to engage your hospice team early? What are the stages of dying (biological process)? Join us as the incredible Trailwinds Hospice team answers these important questions and more.

Lillian gives us an overview of hospice and digs into the various roles that make up the hospice team. Did you know that not all hospices are created equal and that you have a say in choosing the best fit for your loved one? Join us as we talk about hospice in general, the different types of hospices, and the questions you should be asking when interviewing care teams for your loved one.

Do you want to show up for someone you care about, but aren't sure what to say or do? We discuss ways to show support and care for loved ones who are passing on, and also for their spouses, family and friends who are grieving. 

We are compiling a list ranging from small gestures to profound action to take for the ones we love. Please share your ideas with me at [email protected]

We discuss normalizing the conversation around death as it is uncomfortable for most people.

Resources:

theconversationproject.org

BJ Miller's book Beginners Guide to the End 

We discuss how important it is to take care of yourself so you can show up in the best possible way for the people you love. 

In order to process and move through your own overwhelming emotions, you need reliable wellness tools. We offer a variety of tools so you may find the ones that work best for you and go back to them over and over again.

Jackie talks about breath work, prayer, meditation, journaling, poetry and more. Resources include:

Dr. Dan Siegel's Wheel of Awareness -https://drdansiegel.com/wheel-of-awareness/

Tara Brach's RAIN method: https -//www.tarabrach.com/rain/

Snow Geese by Mary Oliver