Literally My Life

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Ladies, we’ve all been there—waiting on that text back, making excuses for his bare minimum energy, and hoping he’ll finally act right. But guess what? We’re not doing that anymore! In this episode, I’m giving you the ultimate playbook on how to never get played again. We’re talking red flags, self-worth, and how to move like that girl. Plus, I’m answering some juicy Ask Alex questions—should you ever give a man a second chance? How do you know if he actually likes you or is just bored? And most importantly, how do you become so unplayable that the only game being run is the one you control? Tap in, because after this episode, you’ll never let another clown fumble you again.

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymy... ⁠⁠   / literallymylifemgtgask   Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...Let’s talk about it ALL—birth control, periods, sex for the first time, boys, hygiene, and the things nobody prepared us for! In this episode, I’m joined by my best friend of seven years, Skyy, for a raw, unfiltered convo about the girlhood topics we had to figure out on our own. We’re breaking down everything from the best birth control options to dealing with period horror stories, setting boundaries with boys, and keeping it fresh (yes, we’re talking hygiene too!). Plus, I’m answering your Ask Alex questions with my signature big-sister advice. No shame, no judgment—just the real talk you need! 💖✨ Have a question or story to share? DM me for a chance to be featured in Part 2! 🎧

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In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of choosing silence over reaction and faith over worry. Discover how not reacting to the people and situations around you can be a powerful form of emotional control. We also explore the concept that you can either pray or worry, but you can’t do both at the same time. Tune in for practical insights on cultivating inner peace, letting go of stress, and embracing a mindset that empowers you to stay calm in the face of life’s challenges.

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Ever have those days where you just don’t feel like that girl? When life feels overwhelming, and your confidence is nowhere to be found? In this episode, I’m here to remind you that you are still her—a highly valued, unstoppable, Proverbs 31 woman, even in your funks. This is your motivational girl talk to help you push through self-doubt, embrace your worth, and step back into your power. Because no matter what season you're in, your value never changes. 💕 Tune in for the encouragement you didn’t know you needed!

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So many of us struggle with surrendering our lives completely to God—myself included. In this episode, I open up about my journey with control, trust issues, and the fear of feeling powerless. I’ve battled mental health struggles and addiction, but I’m learning that the key to true healing isn’t holding on tighter—it’s letting go and giving it all to God.

We’ll talk about why surrendering feels so hard, how to release the guilt and shame that keep us stuck, and what happens when we finally leave our problems at the foot of the cross. I’ll also answer Ask Alex questions from you all and end with an inspiring message about Abraham’s unshakable faith—because if he could trust God with his greatest blessing, why can’t we?

It’s time to stop fighting battles that were never ours to begin with. God’s plan is always greater than ours—so why are we still holding on?

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As Valentine’s Day approaches, love is in the air—but what doesreal love actually look like? In this deeply personal episode, I break downCiara’s Prayer lyric by lyric, using it as a guide to explore healing from heartbreak, overcoming loneliness, and redefining love through faith.

Right now, I’m struggling—with addiction, with a love that’s long gone, and with the shame that’s keeping me from running back to God. But just like Ciara prayed for a love that was patient, kind, and godly, I know I need to pray for the same—not just in relationships, but in how I love myself.

We’ll talk about:
💔 Finding purpose in pain and trusting God when love has left you broken.
🙌 Learning to wait for the love you deserve instead of settling for less.
👑 Reclaiming your worth—because you are a queen, a warrior, and a child of God.
🙏 A powerful prayer for healing, surrender, and stepping back into faith.

And of course, I’ll be answering yourAsk Alex questions about love, self-worth, and relationships. If you’ve ever felt lost, lonely, or unworthy of real love, this episode is for you.

✨Because love isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the person who’s ready to receive it. ✨

Tune in now. 🎙💖

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We’re back, girlies! After a two-week break, I’m excited to bring you this special video episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood. Let’s talk about letting go. In this episode, I’m getting real and personal about the things I’m releasing in 2025—like the shame that’s held me back, the lust that’s distracted me, and the anxiety that’s weighed on my spirit.

I’m also tackling overconsumption, whether it’s too much shopping, too much scrolling, or just doing too much, period. This is about creating space for peace, purpose, and joy. I’ll share the lessons I’ve learned, practical tips for letting go, and how we can all step into 2025 feeling lighter and more aligned.

It’s raw, it’s unfiltered, and it’s the reset you didn’t know you needed. Grab your journal, tune in, and let’s grow together!

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In this deeply personal and faith-filled episode, I open up like never before, sharing the journey that shaped who I am today. From transferring to Whitney Young during my sophomore year and enduring relentless bullying to facing a life-changing illness that left me unable to walk, talk, or eat—this is my story of loss, resilience, and ultimate redemption.

I take you through the darkest moments of my life: a year spent battling physical and emotional pain, devastating MRI results, three weeks in the hospital, and the mental health struggles that followed. But I also share how God met me in my lowest moments, how my faith carried me through, and how I’ve come out stronger on the other side.

This episode isn’t just about overcoming obstacles—it’s about flourishing in front of those who tried to break you, confronting your past, and embracing the purpose God has for your life. From rebuilding my relationship with God to finding healing through interviewing athletes and rediscovering my passion for life, I hope this story inspires you to trust the process and know that your comeback will always be greater than your setback.

Tune in for raw honesty, powerful lessons, and a message of hope for anyone who’s ever felt lost or broken. This episode is proof that God’s plan is always greater than the pain—and He will put you back together in front of the people who tried to tear you down.