Living Deeply with Markieta Carter

Is your child “too sensitive,” or do they simply feel deeply? 💜 This Living Deeply episode explores emotional sensitivity in children, its strengths, what it isn’t, and how parents can provide the understanding, boundaries, and emotional tools sensitive children need to thrive.

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Verbal abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars, but the words can stay with us long after the conversation—or even the relationship—has ended.

In this episode of the Living Deeply Podcast, Markieta explores what recovering from verbal abuse can look like when someone else’s criticism, insults, manipulation, or constant negative words have slowly become part of your own inner dialogue.

This episode focuses on recognizing the difference between their voice and your voice, rebuilding trust in yourself, establishing healthy boundaries, and learning to speak to yourself with compassion again.

Markieta also guides listeners through powerful affirmations for healing, including:

✨ I am worthy of respect.

Healing doesn’t mean pretending the words never hurt. It means deciding those words no longer get the final say about who you are.

🎙️ Listen, breathe, repeat the affirmations, and begin replacing the voice that hurt you with one that honors you.

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Can you appreciate Jesus without worshiping him? Can you learn from his teachings while choosing to honor and explore your own ancestral lineage?

In this episode of Living Deeply, Markieta explores why she considers herself a fan of the Jesus Christ portrayed in biblical stories while no longer identifying as a Christian. She reflects on Jesus as a first-century Jewish man with his own ancestry, culture, and history—and asks why so many Black Americans were taught to develop a spiritual relationship with Jesus while often knowing very little about their own ancestors.

Markieta also explores a question at the center of her evolving spirituality: Why was talking to Jesus considered normal, while connecting with our own ancestors was often portrayed as something to fear?

This episode isn't about attacking Jesus or telling anyone what they should believe. It's about questioning inherited beliefs, examining the complicated relationship between Christianity and Black American history, and making room for ancestral connection, curiosity, and spiritual exploration.

Markieta shares why she can admire teachings attributed to Jesus about love, compassion, justice, and caring for marginalized people without believing that admiration requires worship.

For her, Jesus can have a seat in the library without owning the entire library.

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How to Co-Parent With an Ex You Don’t Like

You can love your children deeply and still not like the person you have to co-parent with.

In this episode of Living Deeply Podcast, Markieta gets real about what healthy co-parenting can look like when friendship with your ex simply isn't part of the equation.

From setting boundaries and communicating without getting pulled into unnecessary conflict to accepting that you can't control what happens in the other parent's household, this conversation is about choosing peace without pretending everything is perfect.

Markieta also challenges the idea that protecting children means hiding difficult realities from them. Instead, she shares her belief in honest, age-appropriate conversations that allow children to understand what's happening in their family without making them responsible for fixing it, choosing sides, or carrying their parents' emotional burdens.

Because successful co-parenting doesn't have to mean vacations together, shared holidays, or becoming best friends after the breakup.

Sometimes it simply means respecting each other's roles, showing up for your children, maintaining healthy boundaries, telling the truth with love, and refusing to let your feelings toward each other become your children's burden.

The goal isn't friendship. The goal is peace.

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Living Deeply Podcast — real life, real conversations, and what it means to live deeply.

This week, Markieta is switching hats. 🎙️⚖️ Drawing from her professional career in Human Resources, employee relations, HR credentials, and advanced education in labor and employment law, she breaks down what women should know about protecting themselves at work.

From discrimination and retaliation to documenting concerns, approaching HR, navigating the EEOC, finding an employment attorney, and understanding retainers versus contingency agreements, this episode is about becoming a more informed advocate for yourself.

💜 Know your rights. Know your worth. Protect your career and your peace.

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Educational information only. This episode is not legal advice. Markieta Carter is not an attorney and does not work for or represent the EEOC.

Sundays as a Humanist in the South

What does Sunday feel like when you’ve deconstructed the religion you once believed—but still miss the community that came with it?

In this episode, Markieta shares what it feels like to be a humanist in the South, where churches are everywhere but finding meaningful non-religious community can feel much harder. She reflects on feeling pulled toward progressive and LGBTQ+-affirming churches while simultaneously struggling with hearing scriptures she no longer believes and teachings that have historically been used to oppress others.

Instead of remaining stuck in anger or forcing herself back into spaces she has outgrown, Markieta is choosing to create something different: community centered on compassion, critical thinking, connection, purpose, and simply being good humans.

It can be lonely to think for yourself—especially when doing so means walking away from beliefs and traditions that once gave you belonging. But there is also tremendous freedom in being able to question, learn, evolve, and decide for yourself what you believe.

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You don't have to return to a space you've outgrown just because you miss community. Sometimes, you can build the community you wish existed.

In Part Two of “Why I Don’t Date Transphobic Women,” Markieta shares how a dating boundary rooted in her values unexpectedly came full circle.

After previously walking away from a potential relationship because of a woman’s transphobic beliefs, Markieta was recently contacted by an incarcerated trans woman who founded an LGBTQ+ organization within her prison. The connection caused Markieta to reflect on why choosing partners who respect the humanity of others matters far beyond romantic compatibility.

As this new connection develops, supporting the organization may require Markieta to travel to the prison to encourage its founder and LGBTQ+ members in person. She considers how different that experience might be if she were partnered with someone who questioned her involvement simply because the community leader is transgender.

This episode explores dating boundaries, LGBTQ+ solidarity, allyship, human dignity, and the importance of choosing relationships that don’t require you to compromise your values.

Sometimes the people we choose not to make room for create space for connections we never expected.

Listen to Part Two to hear how one dating boundary came full circle.

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My ex-husband used to tell me, "You deserve to be treated like a queen." Those words always left me confused because I couldn't understand why he believed that, yet I didn't feel that way in our marriage. Years later, I realized he was right—I did deserve that kind of love. Neither of us just knew that, for me, it would eventually be a woman who made me feel truly seen, heard, appreciated, and emotionally safe.

In this deeply personal episode, I share my journey as a later-in-life lesbian, how growing up with religious expectations shaped my early choices, why I married quickly to avoid "living in sin," and how self-discovery led me to a life that finally feels authentic. This episode is about choosing yourself, embracing your truth, and recognizing that sometimes two good people simply aren't the right partners for each other.

Whether you're questioning your identity, navigating a major life transition, or simply learning to love yourself more deeply, I hope this conversation reminds you that it's never too late to build a life that truly fits who you are.

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In this episode, Markieta Carter shares why discovering transphobic beliefs in someone she was dating became an immediate dealbreaker.

As a lesbian and a humanist, she believes that respect for the dignity and humanity of all people is a core value. She explores how bias can exist even within the LGBTQ+ community and why shared identities do not automatically create compatibility.

This episode examines the difference between commonality and compatibility, the importance of shared values in relationships, and why some differences reflect deeper conflicts in worldview.

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In this honest and thought-provoking episode of The Living Deeply Podcast, Markieta opens up about why she personally chooses not to date bisexual women as a lesbian woman — not from a place of hate, but from a place of compatibility, emotional alignment, and personal boundaries.

This episode explores:

• The difference between preference and disrespect

Markieta also shares her perspective on woman-centered relationships, emotional security, and why forcing compatibility can lead to emotional exhaustion.

This conversation is raw, respectful, and unapologetically authentic.

✨ Honest. Respectful. Real.

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