Love And Legacy

Love And Legacy

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  • 127 Celebrate Love with Inclusivity: A Hassle-Free Wedding Planning Journey Awaits You

    In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Nora Sheils. She is a Portland native, founder of Bridal Bliss, INC, and an expert in all things weddings. In 2018, Nora co-founded Rock Paper Coin, a revolutionary platform that brings together event professionals and engaged couples to simplify and streamline the often daunting contract and invoice process. Nora's attention to detail, strict standard for quality, enthusiasm, and comforting demeanor put her clients at ease and have catapulted her as a leader in the wedding industry. Today, Nora shares her expertise in creating inclusive weddings and simplifying the process of proposals, contracts, invoicing, and payment processing, making it a stress-free and enjoyable experience for couples and vendors alike.


    Standout Quotes:

    • "There's no reason to discriminate. Love is love, and people are people like we're out to help everyone and better our industry." [Nora]
    • "Having a planner is so important because they take on all the logistics
      • and all the deeds, so you can focus on keeping things smooth with the family and enjoying your engagement and all of that." [Nora]
    • "Our goal is to simplify that process for the vendor, clients, and planners. We incorporate communication with planners, who can act on their
      • clients' behalf if given permission. It just makes everyone's life easier."
      [Nora]
    • " Take advantage of all the customer service options out there. Reach
      • out and it'll save you time rather than figuring it out all by yourself. [Nora]

       

      Key Takeaways:

      • Embrace inclusivity and acceptance in your own life. Love is a universal force, and treating everyone with respect, regardless of their identity, is crucial for building a compassionate and harmonious society.
      • Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Seek out friendships and professional relationships with those who share your love, respect, and inclusivity values.
      • Just as a couple transforms during the journey toward marriage,
        • remember that personal growth and change are natural parts of life. Embrace these transformations in yourself and others, and approach challenges with empathy and understanding, recognizing that there might be underlying reasons for their behavior.
      • Life's obstacles are easier with a strong team. Whether it's a wedding planner or supportive friends and family, surround yourself with people who can assist you in managing logistics, and provide emotional support so you can focus on what counts.
      • Amidst all the planning and preparations, it's important to remember the journey's significance. Focus on enjoying moments with loved ones and savoring the engagement period rather than getting overwhelmed by minor details.
      • Be proactive in identifying challenges or inefficiencies in your industry or daily life. If you notice a gap that needs filling, take the initiative to find solutions and improve things, even if it initially seems daunting.

        •  

        Episode Timeline:

        [01:00] Introducing Nora Sheils

        [02:57] How did Nora become so interested in weddings?

        [07:24] How Important Is Inclusivity for Nora?

        [13:37] What Is The Purpose of Planning in Weddings?

        [16:11] How To Find a Niche In a Market Gap?

        [21:07] What is Nora's Focus on David Tutera's Event?

        [23:26] How does ChatGPT change Blogging?

        [25:29] What Advice Would Nora Give to People?

         

        Learn more about Nora Sheils at:

        Website: https://www.bridalbliss.com/

        https://rockpapercoin.com/

        31 min
      • 126 Event Planning Excellence: How to Grow a Successful Business by Creating Unforgettable Weddings and Events

        In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Danielle Leilani. She is the founder of the international event planning and design powerhouse, Leilani Social. She is also a celebrity wedding planner, a business teacher, and a lifestyle personality. Danielle and her team created perfect events for celebrities, influencers, and brands worldwide using the Leilani Method. Today, Danielle shares her expertise in executing dream weddings and events and

        growing a successful business in the event planning industry.

         

        Standout Quotes:

        • "I started thinking I can do this on my own. I want to do this independently, and my soul was calling me to do things my way." [Danielle]
        • "We are so conditioned to play small. In hindsight, why didn't I
          • think I would own my own business? You know, I had an inkling, right, but that noise or that sound in your voice gets stronger and stronger, the more like conditioning you shed." [Danielle]
        • "Start before you're ready. Do it even though you don't feel it
          • because it'll shift your brain chemistry." [Danielle]
        • "You got to be a little delusional, and you can't let people say
          • things, or they'll write you. Just have to tune out the noise and stay focused. And it's about how bad you want it." [Danielle]
        • "There are several moments in your life where you reach a certain
          • point. And then you're like, wow, I've graduated or elevated past that place. What's next." [Danielle]
        • "It's about being a smart business person and about being not only flexible but smart and savvy as you navigate this crazy industry and life as an entrepreneur." [Danielle]

          •  

          Key Takeaways:

          • Understand that sometimes, your dreams may take you places you never
            • expected. Be open to new opportunities, even if they seem daunting or far away.
          • Set ambitious yet achievable goals for yourself. Even if they seem
            • lofty, with hard work and dedication, you might surprise yourself by surpassing them.
          • Trust your intuition and leap when it strongly calls you. Even when
            • there's uncertainty or fear, listening to your gut can lead you to your
            rightful path.
          • Tuning out negative voices and focusing on your path is essential.
            • Remember, your dedication, focus, and how much you want to achieve your goals truly matter.
          • Always be prepared for growth and evolution in your personal and
            • professional life. Don't shy away from exploring new chapters and asking, "What's next?". Life is about progression, not stagnation.
          • Accessibility is key. Strive to provide services that cater to a wide range of budgets without compromising on the quality of your work. Everyone
            • deserves to experience your services, regardless of their budget.
          • Whether it's in your pricing, the services you provide, or the way you approach your business, being flexible can help you navigate changes and opportunities that come your way.

            •  

            Episode Timeline:

            [00:46] Introducing Danielle Leilani

            [03:15] How Did Danielle Become a Wedding Planner?

            [10:09] What's the Importance of Listening To Your Gut Feeling?

            [13:52] What's Danielle's Way to Develop Confidence?

            [20:46] How Did Danielle Start Her Company?

            [29:57] How to Pick the Right Speakers?

            [26:51] What is Danielle's Words of Wisdom?

            [32:28] Where to Reach Danielle Leilani?

             

            Learn more about Danielle Leilani at:

            Website: https://www.leilaniweddings.com/

            Leilani Social: https://www.danielleleilani.com/

            35 min
          • 125 Behind the Scenes of Wedding Planning: Expert Tips and Inspiring Stories with Anna Lorenz

            In this episode of True Love Knots, we are joined by Anna Lorenz, a wedding planner, and event coordinator. She will be one of the guest speakers for the David Tutera Experience. Join us today as Anna shares what it's like to be in the wedding industry and how she got started.


            Standout Quotes:

            • "Everyone has their opinion from the outside" [Anna]
            • "I'm not the type of person that can just sit on my beanbag and eat bonbons at home. I am a go kind of girl." [Anna]
            • "I'm saying no to things that don't bring me joy." [Anna]
            • "You have to do what's right for you and your family and your well-being and your self-care." [Anna]
            • "At the end of the day, if you are not giving yourself that self-love, if you are not giving yourself even the room to have those feelings, then you are doing no service to anybody around you." [Anna]
            • "We all have to run our own race. If you spend all that time looking over your shoulder, you're not going to see what's in front of you." [Anna]
            • "Let those opinions of other people go because that is what's holding you back." [Anna]


              • Key Takeaways:

              • Professionalism and a cheerful demeanor are always required in the wedding and event industry, regardless of what happens in your life or your personal relationship.
              • Anna started as a wedding photographer. As time went by, it grew into planning and coordinating.
              • Anna left photography behind. When an opportunity came to buy a bridal shop, she saw this as a great opportunity.


                • Episode Timeline:

                [00:09] Introduction of today's guest

                [02:21] About the multi-generational farm

                [03:43] How many children do you have?

                [05:00] How did you meet David Tutera?

                [06:53] What did you and David talk about?

                [09:05] What are you going to talk about?

                [11:11] What's your advice for people going through a difficult time?

                [13:42] Why don't people tell us what they think?

                [15:13] How did you start working in the wedding industry?

                [18:31] How do you like officiating?

                [19:27] What is the experience like in a David Tutera event?

                [22:22] Will you also be opening a men's suit business?

                [22:52] What would you tell your 21-year-old self?


                Visit http://www.bellebridalbellingham.com/

                26 min
              • 124 Transforming Wedding Planning into an Exciting Adventure: Expert Tips with Charley Isabella King

                Wedding planning can be a stressful and overwhelming process, but with the right approach and mindset, it can also be an exciting adventure. In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria and Charley will talk about what happens when you plan for a wedding, how you can solve problems throughout it, and many more!


                Standout Quotes:

                • “If you just don't do anything, you're going to lose the connections. People need help, you need to bring people together.”
                • “It's really important that we all bring our authentic selves to our clients because that's who they're hiring.”
                • “You want the guests to come away feeling some emotion. Maybe not realizing what it was but knowing that they just experienced something that they have never experienced before at any event.”


                  • Key Takeaways:

                  • Stay active in your connections and help bring people together to maintain those relationships.
                  • Be your authentic self when dealing with clients as that is who they truly want to work with.
                  • Leave an emotional impact on event guests, making them feel they experienced something unique and special.


                    • Episode Timeline:

                    [0:51] Maria introduces Charley

                    [4:42] The power of the internet

                    [7:32] Dealing with rejection

                    [11:45] Charley’s transition to the events industry

                    [16:49] Overcoming adversity

                    [20:25] The key is to be calm and flexible

                    [22:41] Keeping all parties happy

                    [24:32] I am what I am

                    [29:18] The key ingredient in the hospitality industry

                    [32:47] Final word

                    Contact Charley King: 310.770.2898 | [email protected]

                    Or Visit https://www.bluebellevents.com/

                    Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at:

                    Website: https://trueloveknots.com

                    Phone: +1 702-501-4150


                    38 min
                  • 123 Unlocking Your True Potential: Embracing Talents and Sharing Testimonies for a Better World with Jestina Weems

                    In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Jestina Weems. She is the author of the beloved children's book "My Goal and Ralph" and the founder of Victims to Victory, a nonprofit that utilizes art to aid in the healing of children and young adults who have experienced trauma. Additionally, she founded the "O.MA Black National Committee," which provides support and grant opportunities for people of color in business. Jestina is the driving force behind Mob Styles, a professional flash mob company. Furthermore, she co-founded "Nana's," a catering service specializing in cannabis-infused dishes. She has empowered individuals through her program called "Me Sexual," which supports survivors of sexual abuse, and she is a co-producer of the musical "We Are the Dream." Today, Jestina shares her faith, belief in the power of manifestation, and the importance of embracing one's talents and sharing personal testimony for the greater good.


                    Standout Quotes:

                    • "Trauma can be transformed into stepping stones for success." [Jestina]
                    • "Expressing ourselves through art can be a powerful tool for healing and growth." [Jestina]
                    • "Tapping into our talents allows us to push through the pain and present our best selves." [Jestina]
                    • "Find resources or tools that actually strengthen your weaknesses and give you the courage and the ability to put yourself out there." [Jestina]
                    • "The best thing a person can have when they put something on is confidence." [Jestina]
                      • "Everything's a process when you're creative, and you really want
                        • to make things big." [Jestina]
                      • "Share your testimony because more lives would be truly changed
                        • if more people shared their testimony." [Jestina]


                        Key Takeaways:

                        • Embrace your weaknesses and seek tools or resources to overcome them. They can help you present your best self.
                        • Recognize and believe in your innate talents. You have what it takes
                          • to succeed.
                        • Confidence is key. Regardless of your appearance or size, confidence
                          • can transform how you present yourself and make a difference in how others perceive you.
                        • Don't limit yourself to familiar surroundings. Step outside your
                          • comfort zone and seek connections with like-minded individuals who can support your growth.
                        • Make time for the things you love and remind yourself of your
                          • greatness. Don't lose sight of your passions amidst the routines of life.
                        • Dream big and aim for greatness in all your endeavors. Set your sights
                          • high and believe in your ability to achieve remarkable things.
                        • Never let your talents go to waste. Find ways to utilize and share
                          • them, even if it means adapting and exploring new opportunities.
                        • Have faith in a higher power, trusting that difficult situations can
                          • be overcome with divine intervention and guidance.

                           

                          Episode Timeline:

                          [01:52] Introducing Jestina Weems

                          [02:57] Why did Jestina Share Her Testimony?

                          [06:22] What's the Importance of Being Yourself?

                          [10:47] How was Jestina Inspired to be an actress?

                          [19:05] How Did Jestina meet the man who changed her life?

                          [20:43] How to Pick the Right Speakers?

                          [26:51] What is the importance of Knowing Your Purpose?

                          [29:20] Where to Reach Jestina Weems?


                          Learn more about Jestina Weems at:

                          Website: https://about.me/Jestina

                          34 min
                        • 122 Physical Disabilities

                          In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria will talk about how to make a comfortable wedding ceremony for people with physical disabilities. It’s a challenge for people with disabilities to go to certain events because of their circumstances. But there is no reason for them to experience the love and joy of a wedding ceremony. So as a wedding organizer, do your best to make them comfortable in any way you can! Tune in to this episode to learn more!

                          Standout Quotes:

                          • “It's when you don't ask that sometimes, you're not doing the right thing.”
                          • “As you go through life, be a little bit more observant. When you speak to somebody that's maybe in a wheelchair, don't look down on them.”

                            • Key Takeaways:

                            • Don’t hesitate or be afraid to ask the couple if one or both of them have a physical disability.
                            • Make the wedding comfortable for everyone, especially for the couple.
                            • Be observant, and don’t look down on any with a physical disability.

                              • Episode Timeline:

                              [01:14] Introducing The Topic About People With Physical Disabilities

                              [2:52] Maria shares a story of forming a comfortable wedding ceremony

                              [5:15] Don’t Be Afraid To Ask

                              [5:40] Maria shares a story of a blind couple's wedding ceremony

                              [7:16] Maria’s announcement format before starting a wedding ceremony

                              10 min
                            • 121 Perfect Wedding Guest

                              In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria will discuss why it is relevant to be the perfect guest and how to be the perfect guest. Wedding day is a special day. Being invited to it is an honor, so put your effort into being the perfect guest for the couple. Tune in to this episode to learn more!

                              Standout Quotes:

                              “A couple's wedding day is one of the most memorable days of their lives. And when you are invited as a guest, it's an honor to be part of their special day.”

                              “You want the couple to have the best experience. Likewise, the couple also wants you to have the best experience.”

                              “You want to enjoy the ceremony, whether the ceremony is 5,10, or 35 minutes, whatever it is you want to be present”.

                              Key Takeaways:

                              • Be ready to attend the ceremony.
                              • Show up not on time but early.
                              • Try to refrain from videotaping or taking pictures, and just enjoy the wedding.
                              • It's an honor to be part of the wedding.

                                • Episode Timeline:

                                [00:36] Introducing the topic of being the perfect wedding guest

                                [1:41] Show Up Early

                                [2:34] Be present at the wedding

                                [3:47] Enjoy the special day

                                [4:37] Be the perfect guest

                                [5:34] An honor to be part of a couple’s day

                                8 min
                              • 120 Finding Love Again

                                In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria will talk about how to find love again and what you’ll need to get back into the dating world, regardless of age. If you believe you can’t love again after losing your partner, think again. Age will not be a hindrance for anyone who wants to experience love. Tune in to this episode to learn more!


                                Standout Quotes:

                                • “Take time to heal because you want to be the best version and bring the best version of yourself.”
                                • “Having more clarity about who you are allows you to find the partner you want to last a lifetime.”
                                • “Take the time to reflect on any past relationships and what you've learned and understand.”
                                • “Don't care how old you are; take your time.”
                                • “You can find love after divorce or death, and you can find love at any age.”


                                  • Key Takeaways:

                                  Knowing to find the right partner is the key to any successful relationship.

                                  When in grief, take your time to heal.

                                  Most men will return to the dating world much quicker than women.

                                  Take your time to learn from your past relationship.

                                  Focus on self-care and self-love.

                                  Don’t be afraid to try new experiences

                                  When you are writing your profile, talk about your positive traits.

                                  Take your time to get to know someone, don't rush into a relationship.

                                  Make sure you spend time working on who you are.


                                  Episode Timeline:

                                  [00:29] Introducing the topic of relationships and finding love again

                                  [1:36] What is the key to any successful relationships?

                                  [1:55] What it takes to get back into the dating world?

                                  [4:00] What should you widows or widowers do?

                                  [5:58] Why self-care and self-love is important?

                                  [7:17] The significance of expanding your social circle

                                  [8:42] Being open to new experiences

                                  [9:52] Take your time to know someone

                                  [10:30] The most crucial thing for Maria when meeting somebody 

                                  [11:36] Find a therapist when you’re dating

                                  [12:07] Maria shares a sweet story of an elderly couple

                                  15 min
                                • 119 A Different Stigma, A Different Connection, and A New Connection with Paul Zolman

                                  In this episode of the Live Your SPAlife Podcast, Diane is joined by Paul Zolman. Paul is a self-proclaimed “Love Language Linguist”. He is also a speaker, author, educator, veteran, and entrepreneur. In his book "Role of Love," Paul explores the concept of love languages and their impact on our lives, examining how these languages can be used to create positive change and transform relationships. Through examples and stories of individuals who have applied these principles in their own lives, the book highlights the transformative power of love and how it can enhance our well-being and improve our connections with others.


                                  Important topics discussed:

                                  • Role of Love
                                  • Love Languages
                                  • Paul’s story
                                  • Paul’s marriage
                                  • Developing the habit for love languages
                                  • Receiving people
                                  • Transformation in Paul’s personal life
                                  • Changes
                                  • Paul’s advice

                                    •  

                                    Quotes:

                                    [04:33] “I've learned that love is directional. You really can only give it away and only react when it comes your way.”

                                    [27:07] “Find that commonality and those bonds of love that are common with the people that you love.”

                                    [27:19] “Whatever we magnify is going to grow bigger. So if you find the things that you love about a person, rather than the things you dislike about that person, those things that you love are going to grow bigger.”

                                     

                                    Links and Resources:

                                     

                                    Role of Love website: https://roleoflove.com/

                                    30 min
                                  • 118 Finding Love in the Later Stages of Life with Cynthia Harris

                                    In this episode of the True Love Knotst, our guest is Cynthia Harris. She is a pianist and the founder of Classical Entertainment. Since childhood, Cynthia

                                    plays piano for wedding ceremonies. And as she grows to be an adult, she started to play on her friends and family's wedding. Because of her classical background, and her desire to be more in the entertainment industry, she created Classical Entertainment. Today, Cynthia shares all about classical music and ambiance music, love, business, and more!

                                    Standout Quotes:

                                    • I started Classical Entertainment because I have a classical background. But also, I wanted to move toward the entertainment side. [Cythia]
                                    • Don't be afraid of love. When it comes around, be open to it. But first, know yourself, know what you're looking for, and know what you've learned from previous relationships. And don't harbor ill will.  [Cythia]
                                    • When you find love in the later stages of life,  it was just like a direct hit. It was just wonderful. [Cythia]
                                    • I joined some of the networking communities, which I think because in those situations, you develop your relationships, and the relationships are really key.
                                    • How do you increase your visibility and your network when you show up as who you are? [Maria]
                                    • Working the way I do. working in this idiom, working in Las Vegas, in special events, in destination weddings, in local weddings, is just so thrilling. It's just fun. I enjoy each and every client or each and every couple. [Cythia]


                                      • Key Takeaways:

                                      • Classical Entertainment specializes in producing ambient music.
                                      • Cynthia became an organist and pianist in their church at the age of 16.
                                      • She can also play the instrument harpsichord.
                                      • Cynthia finds her love for life after a long time at a Christmas party.
                                      • Don’t be afraid in entering a new relationship. Just learn from your previous one, grew, and be better.
                                      • Fostering relationships with people is important.
                                      • Cynthia enjoys very much the work she is doing right now.


                                        • Episode Timeline:

                                        [00:08] Meet today’s guest “Cynthia Harris,” Founder of Classical Entertainment

                                        [1:33] Who is Cynthia, and how was her company Classical Entertainment started

                                        [4:31] What other events besides the wedding ceremony does Classical Entertainment perform?

                                        [6:39] Cynthia shares her story of playing in the Oregon Church

                                        [7:28] What instruments other than a piano can Cynthia Perform?

                                        [9:13] Cynthia’s favorite classical piece during a bridal march

                                        [10:42] What is Cynthia’s love life journey?

                                        [12:29] What are the signs Cynthia finds to confirm her love?

                                        [16:51] What are Cynthia and his husband's future goals?

                                        [18:53] How does Classical Entertainment promote or advertise its services?

                                        [21:54] What is Cythia's advice for music and love?


                                        Learn more about Cynthia Harris and Classical Entertainment at:

                                        Website: https://classicalentertainment.com/

                                        Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cynthiaharrislv/ 

                                        24 min

                                      About Love And Legacy

                                      From the publisher's feed

                                      Join Maria Romano, the dynamic host of Love And Legacy (Formerly True Love Knots), as she guides you through the exhilarating journey of finding love again after 40. Whether you're a widow, widower, or divorced, this podcast is your compass in the world of dating and relationships. Maria, an ordained minister who has officiated over 4,000 marriages, shares her wisdom and expertise to help you navigate modern love.