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  • 137 Find Yourself Before Finding Love: Contestant Estefania Garcia's Top Dating Advice from Netflix's Love is Blind

    In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Estefania Garcia. She is a dynamic and inspiring high school teacher who has made her mark as a cast member on the fifth season of the hit reality series "Love Is Blind." Estefania is known for her dedication to education and adventurous spirit that leads her to explore various cultures and landscapes around the globe. Estefania's preferences in a partner are clear: she gravitates away from individuals who exude an overbearing sense of dominance and those who neglect personal tidiness. Her quest for love is guided by her desire for genuine connection rather than superficial attributes. Today, Estefania shares her insights and experiences from the moment she decided to join "Love Is Blind," detailing the emotional rollercoaster of seeking love in such a unique format, the challenges of forming deep connections sight unseen, and the growth she's encountered both personally and romantically throughout this unprecedented journey.


    Standout Quotes:

    • "It's very easy to make connections when you have no distractions, and you're solely focused on connecting with people on an emotional level." [Estefania]
    • "For me, love is very special. I don't just go around saying I love you to everybody." [Estefania]
    • "I never wanted to be that person who only cares about how they look, but sadly, physical attraction and chemistry are very important." [Estefania]
    • "All the decisions that I was making, my head was where it was supposed to be, so I feel like that's why my decisions were different from the other people too." [Estefania]
    • "Try to connect and ask all the questions that you have. Sometimes we have those questions, and we're scared to ask them, but I think it's very important for a relationship." [Estefania]
    • Key Takeaways:

      • Hope is a powerful motivator when it comes to taking chances on love and entering with high expectations can propel you towards finding what you seek.
      • Understand the weight of your words, especially when it comes to expressing love. Reserve "I love you" for moments and people that truly resonate with your heart.
      • Connections are more than just shared interests or compatible personalities; they're also about the energy and vibration that someone brings into your space.
      • Take time for self-reflection before entering the dating scene to ensure you're not carrying unresolved issues from past relationships. Be mindful of what you share and when; revealing too much too soon can work against you.
      • Embrace your individuality and wear it like armor. Being authentically you is not something you should ever compromise on, even if it feels like it might please someone else in the short term.
      • Ask the hard questions that linger in the back of your mind because communication is the bedrock of any strong relationship.

      • Episode Timeline:

        [00:00] Introducing Estefania Garcia

        [02:57] What did Estefania share about her background and her path to becoming a contestant on "Love is Blind"?

        [10:17] In what ways did Estefania's outlook on relationships change post-show?

        [16:09] What is Estefania's advice for the younger generation looking for the right one?

        [22:27] What insights or advice does Estefania offer future participants of "Love is Blind"?

        [21:07] How did Estefania view the disclosure of personal information during the show?


        Learn more about Estefania Garcia at:

        Website: https://www.instagram.com/estefbaila/


        31 min
      • 136 When Home Visits Reveal Who Your One True Love Really Is

        Hello, everyone! Maria Romano here, your guide to finding love again. Going back to the dating world, you may choose someone who has children. Meeting with the family is tough, as you need to consider their feelings and try to find a way to fit in. But if you love your partner, you will make an effort to make sure that your partner's family will be happy as well. In today’s episode of True Love Knots, Maria will share her thoughts about the latest episode of The Bachelor Show and shed some advice for people in similar situations. Tune in to learn more!

        Standout Quotes:

        When you're walking into this type of relationship, remember to tread cautiously, be who you are, and don't be overly friendly.

        I wonder if Gary’s going to wind up staying with whoever he's chosen. Because what I think is, there's going to be a whole new world for him and for all of the women that were on as well.

        You can fall in love with somebody. You can fall in love if you choose to.

        Whoever you bring into your life, you want them to set an example for your grandchildren and your children as well.

        Key Takeaways:

        Meeting your partner's children is tough since they can feel jealous, and children don't want to feel like they're being replaced.

        Children do make a difference. And they can make or break the relationship. They can definitely make or break that relationship when they welcome somebody into the family.

        Gary only says he loves Faith and Lesley. But in Maria’s eyes, Theresa is the one for Gary.

        Gary is a very emotional man, and he's going to have his challenges when the show is finished.

        When dating someone, it's critical that they have a comparable background. They don't have to have the same history as us, but having a similar background makes things easier as we mature.

        Episode Timeline:

        [00:14] New episode of The Golden Bachelor About Gary visiting women’s families

        [1:29] What is the problem when meeting your lover’s children and grandchildren?

        [02:44] Maria’s advice for going into this type of relationship

        [3:32] What are Maria’s thoughts on Gary in the latest episode?

        [04:23] What is the common trait among the last three women?

        [04:58] Gary only saying he loves Faith and Lesley

        [06:56] Gary’s emotional feelings in choosing between the last two women

        [07:40] Why Maria is rooting Theresa for Gary?

        [08:16] What do you think about dating and meeting your partner's children and grandchildren?



        11 min
      • 135 Building Stronger Connections: Expert Advice on Conflict Resolution with Ryan Dunlop

        Implementing effective strategies is not confined to the professional realm; it's equally crucial on a personal level. Just as strategic planning enhances organizational success, applying thoughtful approaches in personal life can lead to better decision-making, goal achievement, and overall life satisfaction. In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by Ryan Dunlop, and they will be talking about skillsets that you can integrate not just in your professional life, but your personal life as well, and much more!

        Standout Quotes:

        • “When we're under pressure, we tend to blow things up and we catastrophize.”
        • “What seems strong on the front end is just hardness and hard things break.”
        • “It takes time to relearn ourselves before we can go on and introduce ourselves confidently into the space of another person.”
        • Key Takeaways:

          It is a common human tendency to amplify challenges and engage in catastrophizing, wherein the perceived magnitude of problems is inflated, potentially leading to heightened stress and a distorted perspective of the actual situation.

          Apparent strength at first glance often disguises itself as mere hardness, and it's essential to recognize that hard things are prone to break.

          Relearning ourselves is a necessary precursor to confidently stepping into the space of another person, a process that demands time and introspection.

          Episode Timeline:

          [0:02] Introducing the guest

          [05:09] Stress management and emotional resilience in law enforcement

          [12:03] Developing resilience and self-awareness in dating and relationships

          [14:54] Communication skills in difficult conversations

          [18:47] Conflict resolution

          [24:31] Relationship issues

          [28:41] interpersonal connections


          Learn more about Ryan Dunlop"

          https://www.conflictish.com/

          https://www.instagram.com/conflictish/

          https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanmdunlap/


          Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at:

          Website: https://trueloveknots.com

          Phone: +1 702-501-4150

          36 min
        • 134 You Can Find Love Again, Get Out in the Dating World

          When somebody is talking, listen carefully. Be respectful to others because if you want respect, then you must be the first one to show respect. In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria will share her thoughts on episode three of The Bachelor's show. She talks about how brave the women are on the show for putting themselves out, the importance of listening to others, why you still can find love, no matter your age, and more.

          Standout Quotes:

          It's important that even if you disagree or don't like what somebody does, listen to them. Give them that courtesy and respect.

          Guys out there, take a lesson from Jerry. Don't always jump the gun. And the same thing for women. Don't always assume. And this is whether you're in a relationship or you're not in a relationship, whatever it is.

          You, too, can find love again; just have an open mind and open heart and be ready.

          Key Takeaways:

          Listen to what anyone says, whether you like it or not. It’s part of being respectful to others.

          Don't always assume and give somebody the benefit of the doubt, especially if they apologize.

          Sometimes, it's not always going to work, and it’s okay. You'll find that perfect person for you. Because there are 8 billion people in the world, you will surely find one someday.


          Episode Timeline:

          [00:53] Amazing Women in the new episode of The Golden Bachelor

          [1:26] Why did Joan leave Jerry on the show?

          [2:33] Why does Maria feel sorry for Teresa in the show?

          [4:20] What is the importance of having a mediator?

          [5:28] Why you should listen and give respect and courtesy?

          [6:41] Lessons to take from The Bachelor show

          [7:11] What lessons can men take in the Show?

          [7:47] What should you do while waiting for the show?

          [8:15] Be ready to take the first step

          10 min
        • 133 Empathy Unveiled: Golden Bachelor Episode 2 Recap and Unexpected Twists with Maria Romano

          Have you ever wondered what it truly means to find love and connection in a world filled with challenges and surprises? Maria Romano explores the complexities of relationships, dating, and love in "The Golden Bachelor Episode 2" in the True Love Knots Podcast episode.


          Standout Quotes:

          • "I think the episode, again, empathy is the biggest thing that I had seen throughout the episode with the way everybody was comforting each other." [Maria]
          • "At this point in life, when you're looking for that final ice, call it you hope that last soulmate, right, that last best friend, that last partner, that you take the time because you don't want to fast track it." [Maria]
          • "Sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone and try something new." [Maria]
          • Key Takeaways:

            • Be empathetic and understanding towards others, especially in times of emotional turmoil. It's important to be there for people when they need it the most.
            • Offer comfort and support to those going through difficult moments in their lives. A kind word or a helping hand can make a world of difference.
            • Take your time when looking for a life partner. Building a meaningful relationship takes time and shouldn't be rushed.
            • Value the camaraderie and friendships that form during your journey to find love. These connections can be as important as the romantic relationship itself.
            • Sometimes, it's necessary to step out of your comfort zone and try something new when it comes to relationships. Don't limit yourself to what's familiar.
            • Rejections can be opportunities to redirect your path. When someone doesn't reciprocate your feelings, it doesn't mean the end of the road; it's a chance to explore new possibilities.
            • Be a source of love and positivity in your interactions with others. Kindness and love have a way of making the world a better place.
            • Be open to new opportunities and experiences, even when your initial plans don't work out. Life often has unexpected and better things in store for you.
            • Episode Timeline:

              [00:16] The Golden Bachelor Episode 2

              [00:41] How are relationships and empathy portrayed in this episode?

              [03:16] What is the significance of empathy and the energy of a potential Real Housewife in the show?

              [04:24] What is the approach to seeking a new partner on this dating show?

              [10:36] How are the dynamics of love, relationships, and eliminations in Episode 2?

              Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:

              Website: https://trueloveknots.com/

              9 min
            • 132 Unlocking the Ageless Power of Love: Maria Romano's Insights on Finding Love Again in 'The Golden Bachelor

              You are never too old. Go out, find the right person, and share love. Love matters and everyone deserves to experience it. In this episode of the True Love Knots, Maria Romano will talk about The Golden Bachelor, a show that will inspire you to take action and find love again. Maria will also share her insights on how

              loving again will make your life better, how to find the right person, why women must support each other, and the aid she offers to start your love journey.

              Standout Quotes:

              ●       “You can have a beautiful relationship with somebody, whatever it looks to you.”

              ●       “When you put yourself out there and take a shot, you will learn to overcome the rejection process.”

              ●       “I don't care what anyone says; you are never too old.”

              ●       “Love takes time. Love needs to be nurtured. It needs to grow, and it grows in many different ways.”

              ●       “We need to hold on to and set an example as women that we should support each other and be there for each other.”

              ●       “The show will inspire people to get out there and take action, so they aspire to be like the people on the show to go and find love again.”


              Key Takeaways:

              ●       You want to find someone that's your best friend.

              ●       Even if women in the show are rejected, it is a great opportunity for them to gain confidence, love themselves, and be who they are and show it to the world.

              ●       It's best to meet someone who will love and care for you in the final stages of your life.  Being there for each other is a gift.

              ●       Rather than fight and be jealous of each other, it's more important for women to support each other.

              ●       The Golden Bachelor inspires people to take action and find love again.

              ●       We are made to feel love and connection. To give love and receive love. Just like food, water, and shelter, love matters.

               

              Episode Timeline:

              [01:01] The airing of The Golden Bachelor

              [02:01] The mindset to change your life

              [03:17] Finding the right person

              [03:57] People are made for connection

              [04:28] Go and watch the show

              [05:27] Go out, gain confidence, and overcome rejection

              [07:37] Love takes time to grow

              [8:11] Find somebody to give and receive love

              [9:52] Women being supportive and encouraging to each other

              [10:47] Why you should watch The Golden Bachelor?

              [11:22] Maria’s guidance in finding love again

              13 min
            • 131 True Love and Commitment: A Story of a Relationship with No Exit Plan w/ James & Becky

              James and Becky Zheng are a dynamic couple known for their business coaching skills and personal growth. For over a decade, they have been known as leaders in bringing biblical success principles to business. This has helped people worldwide

              get great results without working too hard. James helps his clients reach breakthroughs by drawing on his deep knowledge of personal success and biblical wisdom. Their mission is to help entrepreneurs develop their "inner warrior," which includes their spirit, mind, body, and business, to affect their communities positively. Becky, his partner and wife, co-founded and runs
              a group called Warrior Movement that teaches online entrepreneurs about health and wellness. Together, they bring a whole-person approach to business and personal growth, focusing on aligning one's ideals with one's journey as an
              entrepreneur. Today, James and Becky share their journey as a married couple, their ups and downs, how they overcame challenges, and what principles they instilled in their marriage.


              Standout Quotes:

              "How many times have we tried to do everything on our own

              strength and it's just not enough. So we want to seek outside sources and long story short, that led me through faith that led me on a journey." [James]

              "You have to come into the relationship already making a decision

              because it's not going to be pretty when you put two imperfect people together. Divorce was not an option; we're going to make it work." [Becky]

              "Marriage wasn't made so that we could necessarily just be happy. Marriage was made so that we can be holy. We're like heavenly sandpaper together." [James]

              "Picking a spouse or relationship is the most important decision

              anyone can make. If it takes a little bit of time to sit and wait for that right person, then do that." [James]

              Key Takeaways:

              Embrace diversity in faith backgrounds. Respect and acknowledge that people come from various belief systems; having an open mind and heart towards

              them is essential.

              Don't be confined by societal expectations. You don't have to follow a predefined path or career just because it's expected. Explore your interests and passions, even if they diverge from traditional norms.

              Understand that a relationship's commitment level should be tailored to what works best for you and your partner. Don't compare your relationship to others, especially in the age of internet dating; focus on what feels right for both of you.

              Decide on commitment from the start: When entering a relationship, deliberate on the level of commitment you are willing to give. Discuss your expectations and non-negotiables early on to create a strong foundation.

              Understand that marriage is not just about happiness but personal

              growth and becoming better individuals together. Embrace the challenges and use them as opportunities for growth.

              Consider creating a list of qualities and attributes you desire in a

              partner. This can serve as a helpful guide when evaluating potential relationships and ensuring they align with your goals and values.

              Episode Timeline:

              [01:42] Introducing James and Becky Zheng

              [05:54] What do James and Becky consider a strength in relationships?

              [09:41] How Important Is Commitment for James and Becky?

              [16:26] What Is The Purpose of Waiting For The Right One?

              [16:11] How Does Social Media Influence People In Looking For A Partner?

              [24:02] What is James and Becky's Focus on Their Business?

              [31:13] How To Connect With James and Becky?

               

              Learn more about James and Becky at:

              Website:

              https://www.facebook.com/groups/wellness360jbz

              https://www.instagram.com/jamesczheng/

              https://www.instagram.com/beckymzheng/

              38 min
            • 130 Soulful Synergy: Paulette McWilliams on Music, Spirituality, and the Human Experience

              In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Paulette McWilliams. She is a highly accomplished vocalist with a career spanning over six decades and has maintained a remarkable presence in the music industry. Beyond her successful singing career, Paulette is dedicated to mentoring the next generation of singers and performers. She has served as a vocal coach for over 30 years, conducting master classes at renowned institutions like the Songwriting School of LA and the Musicians Institute in Hollywood, California. Today, Paulette shares her profound perspective on why God is essential in her life

              and how the power of music can bring healing to our souls.


              Standout Quotes:

              • "I am here to just bear witness to the fact that this is who I am. And I want someone who feels that way." [Paulette]
              • "Music is born of love to me, all music, whether you're singing about a breakup or a makeup. All music comes from the soul, comes from God."
              • [Paulette]
              • "Practice who it is you want to be. If you're practicing being very shy all the time, then that's where you're always going to be." [Paulette]
              • Key Takeaways:

                • Life throws challenges your way, and it's okay to feel hurt and question why. But remember, what truly matters is how you respond and what you learn from these experiences. Growth often emerges from adversity.
                • Being true to yourself, even if it means acknowledging your mistakes,
                • is essential. Authenticity paves the way for personal growth and understanding, allowing you to see yourself clearly.
                • Recognize that music is a universal gift that transcends language and
                • cultural barriers. Just like a single song can resonate worldwide, remember that shared experiences through art and expression can unite people.
                • Teach yourself and those around you that change is within your grasp.
                • If you're shy, practice confidence. If you're hesitant, practice courage. The more you embody these traits, the more they become woven into your being.
                • Embrace the unknown with an open heart. Don't let fear hinder your
                • journey towards your goals. By stepping out of your comfort zone and practicing new ways of being, you pave the way for a more fulfilling and expansive life.


                  Episode Timeline:

                  [02:01] Introducing Paulette McWilliams

                  [09:39] Why does McWilliams prioritize God over everything?

                  [15:25] How Can Music Heal Our Soul?

                  [20:06] What Is Paulette's Secret To A Well Modulated Voice?

                  [21:56] Paulette Talks About Her Albums

                  [26:30] What Advice Would Paulette Give to People?

                   

                  Learn more about Paulette McWilliams at:

                  Website: https://www.paulettemcwilliams.com/


                  30 min
                • 129 Playing with Fire: The Pros and Cons of Ex-communication in a New Relationship

                  In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria talks about returning to the dating world as a widow or widower. She will also share her thoughts and observations on the difference between men and women in terms of love and relationships. Stay tuned to learn more!

                  Standout Quotes:

                  ●     “When you get into a relationship, know what you want. And you need to make sure you have been healing from your past relationship. “

                  ●     “When you get back there in the dating world, and you are a widow, realize that you might not find the same type of relationship you had before. But that doesn't mean you can't have that. It just means it takes a little time to build up that trust, build up that commitment, and feel secure so that the other person feels secure as well.”

                  ●     “When you're in a relationship, married, or living with somebody, you live longer because you're healthier and you're happier.”

                  ●     “Wherever you're at in life, we're all going to find somebody. We don't have to rush.”

                  ●     “The best thing in the world is having somebody who can help you look at situations objectively instead of subjectively.”

                  ●     “Still always memorialize that person that was in your life. It doesn't mean that when you find a new partner, you're replacing them.”

                  Key Takeaways:

                  ●       Building a relationship takes time, especially in the later stage of life.

                  ●       Take time to build trust and commitment.

                  ●       The definition of love is different between men and women.

                  ●       Because you have lived life, you also know that when you make a commitment to somebody, married or not, you need to be there for them.

                  ●       You need to define what you're looking for in a relationship.

                  ●       Take the time to assess what worked in your past relationship before going forward.

                  ●       For men, you need to do work on yourself first and take the time to heal.

                  Episode Timeline:

                  [00:16] Are you happy with your life?

                  [0:44] How to Get Back in the dating world being a Widow or widower?

                  [2:46] Maria’s experience coming back to the dating world

                  [5:26] Women’s viewpoint of relationships

                  [8:08] Building trust and commitment

                  [9:40] Benefits of having a romantic relationship

                  [10:35] Find a therapist to help you

                  [11:15] Men getting back into the dating world

                  [13:25] Take your time, and don’t rush

                  [15:21] What are you looking for in a relationship?

                  [16:50] Maria’s recommended therapist

                  [17:25] Memorialize your past partner in life

                  8 min
                • 128 Love After Loss Embracing Life Again

                  In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria talks about returning to the dating world as a widow or widower. She will also share her thoughts and observations on the difference between men and women in terms of love and relationship. Stay tuned to learn more!

                  Standout Quotes:

                  ●     “When you get into a relationship, know what you want. And you need to make sure you have been healing from your past relationship. “

                  ●     “When you get back there in the dating world, and you are a widow, realize that you might not find the same type of relationship you had before. But that doesn't mean you can't have that. It just means it takes a little time to build up that trust, build up that commitment, and feel secure so that the other person feels secure as well.”

                  ●     “When you're in a relationship, married, or living with somebody, you live longer because you're healthier and you're happier.”

                  ●     “Wherever you're at in life, we're all going to find somebody. We don't have to rush.”

                  ●     “The best thing in the world is having somebody who can help you look at situations objectively instead of subjectively.”

                  ●     “Still always memorialize that person that was in your life. It doesn't mean that when you find a new partner, you're replacing them.”

                  Key Takeaways:

                  ●       Building a relationship takes time, especially in the later stage of life.

                  ●       Take time to build trust and commitment.

                  ●       The definition of love is different between men and women.

                  ●       Because you have lived life, you also know that when you make a commitment to somebody, married or not, you need to be there for them.

                  ●       You need to define what you're looking for in a relationship.

                  ●       Take the time to assess what worked in your past relationship before going forward.

                  ●       For men, you need to do work on yourself first and take the time to heal.

                  Episode Timeline:

                  [00:16] Are you happy with your life?

                  [0:44] How to Get Back in the dating world being a Widow or widower?

                  [2:46] Maria’s experience coming back to the dating world

                  [5:26] Women’s viewpoint of relationships

                  [8:08] Building trust and commitment

                  [9:40] Benefits of having a romantic relationship

                  [10:35] Find a therapist to help you

                  [11:15] Men getting back into the dating world

                  [13:25] Take your time, and don’t rush

                  [15:21] What are you looking for in a relationship?

                  [16:50] Maria’s recommended therapist

                  [17:25] Memorialize your past partner in life

                  21 min

                About Love And Legacy

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                Join Maria Romano, the dynamic host of Love And Legacy (Formerly True Love Knots), as she guides you through the exhilarating journey of finding love again after 40. Whether you're a widow, widower, or divorced, this podcast is your compass in the world of dating and relationships. Maria, an ordained minister who has officiated over 4,000 marriages, shares her wisdom and expertise to help you navigate modern love.