Love And Legacy

Love And Legacy

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  • 117 Inspiring People to Dream Bigger with Joey Toth

    In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Joey Toth. He is the COO of the David Tutera brand and a Keynote-Motivational Speaker. He aims to combine best practices from many industries and other ideas to create a company that stands out and provides a unique experience to everyone they touch. Today, Joe shares all about his organization, mindset, and how things can grow and evolve.

     

    Standout Quotes:

    • "Life is an evolution, not a revolving cycle. It's about embracing growth, new experiences, and the endless possibilities that await." [Joey]
    • "Yoga has the power to awaken and connect us to our true selves, opening doors to profound transformation and endless growth." [Joey]
    • "Transformation grounds us, quiets the monkey mind, and allows us to appreciate the wonders of life around us." [Maria]
    • "By aligning our passions, talents, and dreams, we can create something bigger than ourselves, make a difference, and experience the magic of shared experiences." [Joey]
    • "In a world where experiences matter, creating unforgettable moments and inspiring others to dream big sets businesses apart and makes a lasting difference." [Maria]
    • "I believe success is not limited to financial achievements, but rather the freedom to pursue one's passions, create meaningful experiences, and make a positive impact on others." [Maria]
    • "I believe that families come in all different shapes and sizes, and it's important to embrace and support each other through the challenges and changes. We have the power to create a loving and accepting environment for our children to thrive in." [Maria]

      •  

      Key Takeaways:

      • Embrace opportunities to explore outside your comfort zone and gain a taste of different fields.
      • Growth is an ongoing process throughout our lives, with each experience presenting new opportunities for self-discovery.
      • Transformation can bring a sense of presence and awareness, helping us connect with what truly matters.
      • Complementary partnerships are essential for success in any venture, where strengths and weaknesses balance each other.
      • Creating a safe and supportive environment allows individuals to let go of their vulnerabilities and openly share their fears and thoughts, fostering personal growth and connection.
      • Success is subjective and can vary significantly from person to person. It can encompass various aspects of life, such as financial stability, freedom to pursue passions, or engage in philanthropy.


        • Episode Timeline:

        [00:03] Introducing Joey Toth

        [05:44] How was Joey’s Transformational Journey?

        [09:11] What’s the Difference of Coaching and Personal Coaching?

        [12:25] How did David and Joey Got Together?

        [19:05] What Makes Us Stand Out?

        [26:41] How Does Joey Define Success?

        [34:21] Where to Reach Joey Toth?

         

         

        Learn more about Joey Toth and Mindset Coaching at:

        Website: https://www.yourcoachjoey.com/

        38 min
      • 116 The Evolution of Notary Services During the Pandemic w Vanessa Terry

        In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, our guest is Vanessa Terry. She is a Texas notary public, a certified signing agent, and a member of the National Notary Association. She has over ten years of experience in the notary industry and is also committed to providing reliable, efficient, and professional notary services to her clients. Notary 2 Notary offers a wide range of notary services, including document notarization, loan signings, power of attorney, and more. Today, Vanessa shares all about her organization, notary, and how the notary changed during the pandemic.

        Standout Quotes:

        "Most people are looking for financial freedom, but beyond that, peace is what's important." [Vanessa]

        "You can do the things you love with the people you love and still serve yourself by being a woman in the professional world as well." [Vanessa]

        "I always say, 'The easy part is getting commissioned.' The hard part is building a business and getting clients." [Vanessa]

        Key Takeaways:

        Notary 2 Notary trains people nationwide on building a successful notary business.

        Notary 2 Notary has expanded into a signing service and is building an E-notary platform called I-Notarized.

        E-notaries are becoming more common and convenient, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic.

        Episode Timeline:

        [00:03] Meet today's guest "Vanessa Terry," Owner of Notary 2 Notary

        [3:08] What is Notary 2 Notary?

        [5:03] What is the future of notary businesses and wedding officiants?

        [10:17] How to become a notary public?

        [13:04] What is the hard part of being a notary?

        [16:28] What is your advice for people starting in a notary business?

        [18:48] Where can people find you and connect with you?


        Learn more about Vanessa Terry

        and the Notary 2 Notary at:

        Website: https://notary2notary.com/

        Phone: 804-352-5979

        23 min
      • 115 Making Your Wedding Day Unforgettable: Insights from Meghan Ely

        Weddings are enjoyable events filled with dancing, music, parties, and enjoyable activities. Additionally, they connect friends, family members, and strangers.

        Marriage is, after all, a lovely social occasion in our culture. It serves as a means of creating fresh ties between two individuals and their respective families. It is always important to celebrate this very special occasion to remember a long-standing promise of unshakable love. Your wedding day is, after all, one of the happiest days of your life. In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by Meghan Ely as they talk about the wedding industry, standing out as a business, and more!


        Standout Quotes:

        • “Nobody has unlimited bandwidth.” [Meghan]
        • “It's important that you find what your niches are.” [Maria]
        • “Podcasts are just a wonderful way to showcase what you know and share your personality.” [Meghan]
        • “I was very grateful for the people who gave me opportunities.” [Meghan]
        • “For public relations, the simplest way is to say that you've got a message, and you're trying to reach a certain audience with that message.” [Meghan]


          • Key Takeaways:

          • Everybody has their limits. Finding something you can focus on and specialize in is better than being a jack of all trades.
          • Giving yourself a platform is always a good way to show yourself off and what you are capable of in order to attract business.
          • Success is achieved not only with yourself but with the people that helped you all throughout your struggles to achieve it. It’s always important to show appreciation for their help.
          • Reaching out to your audience is key to having a good working relationship with them.


            • Episode Timeline:

            [00:20] Meet today’s guest “Meghan Ely,” President of the OFD Consulting

            [1:41] Meghan talks about her meeting with Alan Berg

            [4:04] The “Sock Situation”

            [5:42] Surprise and Delight!

            [7:20] How do you stand out as a business?

            [9:16] What are Meghan’s thoughts about podcasting?

            [10:22] How did OFD start?

            [13:48] What is the difference between public relations and advertising/marketing?

            [16:17] Podcast as a PR strategy

            [17:23] Finding your niche and focusing on it

            [20:24] What should be done to make the wedding industry better?

            [25:31] A learning process

            [26:37] What is Meghan’s advice?

            [27:16] Meghan’s promotions

             

            Learn more about Meghan Ely at:

            Website: https://ofdconsulting.com/

            Phone: 804-543-6400

            31 min
          • 114 How Can You be a Great Wedding Officiant That Produces a Unique Wedding Ceremony with Clint Hufft

            Having an unforgettable wedding ceremony needs a lot of effort and time preparation. That's why getting someone that is professional in wedding ceremonies will be a big help for you. In this episode of True Love Knots with Maria Romano, our guest is Clint Hufft. He is a wedding officiant, a spokesperson, and an auctioneer. Today, we're going to talk about how Clint got started, what he does in the wedding industry, and what you can get out of it if you're looking to get involved in the wedding industry. 

             

            Standout Quotes:

            • "I think my connection to the couple is the most important thing. I want the guests to feel welcome. I want them to feel included. But I am very clear that it's not about the guests at all. It's about the couple and the connection between the couple." [Clint]
              • "I always want to make sure they understand that where the license is issued, you are under the auspices of the civil laws of matrimony. And so you better be aware of that. That means that if couples come from other states, I recommend they do their due diligence and find out what the laws of matrimony are in your state." [Clint]
                • "I would suggest that if you want to be an officiant, the first thing you do is become an excellent public speaker. That means you need to be able to embrace the moment and feel comfortable in it because the minute that somebody thinks you're nervous, they're disconnected from the emotional content of what's happening, the significance of what's happening, and their focus is on you." [Clint]

                  • Key Takeaways:

                  • The most important thing is for the couple to remember and have brilliant memories of their wedding that they can look back on. And anytime anything triggers the memory of their wedding ceremony, it's a good feeling.
                    • Is it important for you to have the document and everything locally so that you can easily access that? A license signed by an officiant beyond the country's borders can be contested as invalid.
                      • One of the most important things to remember if you want to be an officiant is how to speak to the public comfortably. It isn't just about talking in front of many people but the nuances of doing it well.


                        • Episode Timeline:

                         

                        [00:10] Meet today’s guest, Clint Huff

                        [01:17] How Clint started in the wedding industry?

                        [08:01] Does the couple have a template to create their own ceremony?

                        [11:43] How much preparation does it take for Clint?

                        [16:19] Special licensing and where does Clint perform most of his ceremonies?

                        [27:36] Where do you think the wedding industry is going?

                        [33:36] What would you tell somebody that wants to get involved in the wedding

                        industry?

                        [37:46] Wedding MBA


                        Learn more about Clint Hufft at:


                        Website:

                        • https://weddingmba.com/
                        • http://clinthufft.com/


                          • 42 min
                        • 113 Have You Ever Said I Don't Instead Of I Do?

                          Weddings are occasions to commemorate a historic pledge of unwavering love. One of the best days of your life is your wedding day. From the walk down the aisle to the first dance as husband and wife, the memories made on that special day are certain to last a lifetime. Weddings are a wonderful occasion to send your best wishes and wisecracks to the bride and groom, whether you're a part of the memorable day or are just present for this solemn ritual. In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria will talk about stopping or declining wedding ceremonies.

                          Standout Quotes:

                          • “I speak about love in the workplace because as far as I'm concerned, we need to bring more love everywhere.”
                          • “The wedding is one of the most important days of your life. it should be a day where there is lots of love and lots of joy.”
                          • “It’s important to enjoy what you hear in the ceremony. If you’re flooded with doubt and anger, it doesn’t serve anyone.”

                            • Key Takeaways:

                            • Love makes the world go round, so spread it wide and far!
                            • Couples should always make their wedding ceremonies memorable because it’s one of the most important events that define a couple’s relationship.
                            • Enjoy the day and don’t let the negativity get to you on such an important day.

                              • Episode Timeline:

                              [00:02] Introduction

                              [1:40] Performing Wedding Ceremonies

                              [3:53] Maria’s Experience of Stopping a Ceremony

                              [6:24] Maria Walks Out

                              [10:01] The Importance of a Wedding

                              [12:44] Final Word

                              Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at:

                              Website: https://trueloveknots.com

                              Phone: +1 702-501-4150

                              15 min
                            • 112 Do You Need A Wedding Officiant

                              Do you need a wedding officiant for your ceremony? Maria Romano asks in this edition of the True Love Knots Podcast. Maria discusses a subject that is frequently brought up by engaged couples in this episode.

                              Standout Quotes:

                              • "You need to make sure they file the paperwork. Sometimes they forget, especially if you have a friend or a family member that is part of the celebration day." [Maria]
                              • "The officiant starts the whole trajectory for your celebration that day." [Maria]
                              • "It's important that you live up to that dream to come true the way you want, the way you envision it coming to life." [Maria]

                                • Key Takeaways:

                                • The most important step to take after officiating a wedding is to submit your marriage certificate correctly.
                                • Choose an officiant that incorporates you and your partner and makes your special loved one part of that important moment.

                                  • Episode Timeline:

                                  [00:32] Introducing Maria Romano

                                  [01:18] How Did Maria Got Involve In Performing the Wedding Ceremony?

                                  [03:06] What Are To Look For In A Wedding Officiant?

                                  [07:59] What Are The Steps To Getting Married?

                                  [10:36] Where To Reach Maria Romano?

                                  Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:

                                  Website: https://trueloveknots.com/

                                  13 min
                                • 111 Wedding MBA Podcast 212 With Maria Romano

                                  Maria Romano is the guest in the episode of the Wedding MBA Podcast. She is an officiant in Las Vegas for 14 years. She not only officiated wedding ceremonies but also developed courses for wedding officiants. Today, she will share her experiences as a wedding officiant and the things she’s doing to make herself unique from other officiants. Stay tuned!

                                  Standout Quotes:

                                  • “People decide they want to get out there, they have a passion for this, but they're thinking about the money. And you have to come from a standpoint of you have a passion for couples who have a passion for love.” [Maria]
                                  • “But everybody is a CEO, its Client Experience Officer. We all are Client Experience Officers. And I think today, what sets anybody apart is being able to deliver a great client experience. And it doesn't mean in the way of monetary, it just means in the way of providing great services.” [Maria]
                                  • “I wasn't perfect when I first started. There were certain things I did wrong. And I appreciate any feedback. And it's important because we all hate the fact that we perceive it as criticism. Yet, you must realize that this is the only means of growth.” [Maria]

                                    • Key Takeaways:

                                    • For the rest of their lives, the couple will remember what you said.
                                    • When you're actually listening to the client, listening to the couple, and hearing what they want, that makes all the difference in the world.
                                    • It’s important that you’re always open to feedback because that will help you to change the things needed in order for you to improve.

                                      • Episode Timeline:

                                      [00:42] Meet today’s guest, Maria Romano

                                      [02:04] Maria’s business, True Love Knots

                                      [02:51] How involved are you with a couple in regard to customizing the ceremony?

                                      [04:20] Coming into the event and wedding industry and having a business background in a completely different type of business.

                                      [05:49] How you decided what your business plan would be?

                                      [07:14] When you reached out to all your networking, was it one on one, did you go to the chapel? Or did you find a place where there were networking groups?

                                      [08:50] Did you network at all with event planners?

                                      [10:57] How you figured out what niche you are going to dive into wholeheartedly?

                                      [15:09] How often do you communicate to figure out how you can improve your business in their eyes?

                                      [17:30] What do you see as the future for you?

                                      [18:28] Tell me about the books you've already written.

                                      Learn more about Maria Romano at:

                                      https://trueloveknots.com/

                                      22 min
                                    • 110 Illuminating Ceremonies With Christopher Shelley

                                      In this episode of True Love knots, Maria Romano is with Christopher Shelley. Over the past ten years, Christopher transformed wedding ceremonies into energizing, humorous, and celebration-opening occasions. In upscale settings across the US, he’s been upending preconceived conceptions about ceremonies while energizing and delighting thousands of people. Today, Maria and Christopher will talk about the wedding business in New York, what makes him unique to other officiants, and his advice to other officiants. Stay tuned!

                                      Standout Quotes:

                                      • “I try to have an uplifting energy up there, I tried to be louder than most officiants they've heard, clearer than the most officiants they've heard, more theatrical, and just getting everyone get their attention going, get them excited, get them happy for what's about to happen.” [Christopher]
                                      • “When we interview, for example, we are selling ourselves, but it would help you just to listen to everything they can tell you about what they think their ceremony will be like, what they think their wedding will be like, get them talking as much as possible before you start going into your spiel about yourself.” [Christopher]
                                      • “Our clients are people who have never had to deal with wedding vendors before. They've never planned a wedding before. And hopefully the only time they're ever getting married. And so they don't know anything, so we're doing a lot of educating.” [Christopher]   

                                        • Key Takeaways:

                                        • People are surprised that a wedding ceremony can be funny. Making a different ceremony than usual will create a day to remember for the guests and the couple.
                                        • Slow down and listen to what your couple wants. You can learn so much about a couple if you listen carefully to them.
                                        • Officiants everywhere are constantly struggling to be recognized as wedding vendors. Because it is so deeply ingrained that this is the religious aspect, there are many places where people don't even consider the officiant a vendor.

                                          • Episode Timeline:

                                          [1:57] How Christopher get started in the wedding business

                                          [5:14]  The licensing process in New York for officiating

                                          [7:24] How does Christopher market himself?

                                          [9:07] Referrals

                                          [11:35] What sets Chris apart from anybody else in NYC?

                                          [15:34] Wedding ceremony on a baseball field

                                          [16:53] Advice Chris will tell his young self

                                          [19:03] Price ranges for a ceremony in New York

                                          [22:00] Advice 


                                          Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:

                                          LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/  

                                          Website: https://trueloveknots.com/  


                                          Learn more about Christopher Shelley:

                                          LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopher-shelley-90a57820 

                                          Website: http://www.illuminatingceremonies.com/ 

                                          29 min
                                        • 109 Grow And Nurture, A Worth Of Journey To Joy With David Tutera

                                          How do you value yourself and know your worth? Many of us are dealing with difficulties in life that have an impact on how we view ourselves. But that's fine because we're just human. But don't let such difficulties diminish your value. Know that you're worthy no matter what.  In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria Romano talks to David Tutera. David is a celebrity wedding planner, speaker, and author of 8 books including Journey to Joy.  David discusses the background of his book as well as how his life experiences have taught him to recognize his value

                                          Standout Quotes:

                                          • "Surround yourself with people that believe you are great because you are." [David] 
                                          • "When you become successful in any career, it is our job to stand up and teach people." [David]
                                          • "Don't let someone influence your energy or make you feel less than who you are; just walk away." [David]

                                            • Key Takeaways:

                                            • If you walk around assuming that you're just not the value of what you're worth, you're not going to find yourself out of that darkness.
                                            • The problem with the special events industry is that the best of the best often brag about what they do instead of sharing tips on how to improve and succeed.
                                            • Stand up with pride and feel confident. Even though we may not always feel confident, we must project a confident attitude. When you need help, ask for it.

                                              • Episode Timeline:


                                              [0:41] Meet today’s guest, David Tutera

                                              [2:58] David’s family background

                                              [6:49] David and the Predator

                                              [14:23] The Blow Up

                                              [16:28] David was invited to speak at the view

                                              [18:35] Being involved in events and mentoring

                                              [23:33] Pain can be power

                                              [26:28] David’s mother

                                              [29:37] What would David Tutera say to his 21-year-old self today?


                                              Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:

                                              LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/ 

                                              Website: https://trueloveknots.com/ 


                                              Learn more about David Tutera at:


                                              LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-tutera-120a2620a  

                                              Website: https://davidtutera.com/ 


                                              32 min
                                            • 108 Exit Interviews Personal And Professional

                                              Parting ways is one of the hardest parts of a relationship, especially if you’ve been with that someone for so long that you have a lot of memories with them. Often, people suddenly leave without explaining the reason why. This also happens in a professional setting wherein an employee suddenly stops going to work and leaves the company. In this episode, Maria Romano shares her opinion about parting ways in a relationship for both personal and professional lives.

                                              Standout Quotes:

                                              • “There were times when somebody didn't show, that was their way of quitting. Unfortunately, they don't feel confident in themselves or their team leader to share why they're leaving. Even if they're leaving for something better, you always want to wish them well.”
                                              • “There's nothing wrong with conflict as long as you can share and articulate in a way where you're not hurting anybody. “
                                              • “Even if somebody else's behavior is bad, it doesn't mean you treat them the same way.”

                                                • Key Takeaways:

                                                • If you’re leaving, whether it’s personal or professional, make sure to let them know. Don’t ghost or leave them hanging. 
                                                • Let the other person know why you’re leaving, this is for them to understand your side. In this way, you are not burning bridges with them.
                                                • Just like in a company, having an exit interview in your personal life is important.
                                                • Treating people with kindness is important even if they have bad behavior. Maintain your class and composure. Wish them well and move on.

                                                  • Episode Timeline:

                                                  [0:33] Quietly Quitting

                                                  [1:16] Exit Interview and Parting Ways with a Company

                                                  [3:28] Personal Relationships

                                                  [4:34] Don’t Ghost Somebody

                                                  [5:11] Conclusion


                                                  Learn more about Maria Romano

                                                  Website: https://trueloveknots.com/

                                                  9 min

                                                About Love And Legacy

                                                From the publisher's feed

                                                Join Maria Romano, the dynamic host of Love And Legacy (Formerly True Love Knots), as she guides you through the exhilarating journey of finding love again after 40. Whether you're a widow, widower, or divorced, this podcast is your compass in the world of dating and relationships. Maria, an ordained minister who has officiated over 4,000 marriages, shares her wisdom and expertise to help you navigate modern love.