Welcome to our fourth episode of 'Talk To Your Partner' where we explore the essential topic of personal values. This episode delves into how identifying and understanding your values can guide your decisions, foster healthier relationships, and provide a sense of purpose and direction in life.

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Exercise - Write a Personal Values Statement:

Join us for this insightful episode as we guide you through the process of discovering and building your personal values, helping you to live a more aligned and fulfilling life.

Keywords: Personal values, understanding values, building values, relationship advice, deconstruction, moral compass, core values, authentic relationships, self-improvement, deconstruction.

Welcome to Episode 12 of "Love Beyond Belief," where we dive into the controversial topic of being "joyfully available" in marriage. In this episode, we tackle the fundamentalist concept that wives should always be sexually available to their husbands, a belief perpetuated by the Quiverfull movement and popularized by influencers like The Duggars and Lori Alexander.

Content Warning: This episode includes discussions of sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised.

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Join us for a candid discussion that aims to debunk these harmful ideologies and provide a healthier perspective on sexual consent and mutual respect in marriage.

Keywords: Joyfully available, Quiverfull movement, Michelle Duggar, Christian fundamentalism, marital intimacy, complementarian theology, Lori Alexander, relationship advice, deconstruction

Buckle up for a wild ride through the 'Left Behind' cinematic universe! Join Coal and Lindsey as they dissect these apocalyptic classics, where the special effects are questionable, the acting is...unique, and the theological twists will have you scratching your head. Get ready for a hilarious look at a film franchise that's unintentionally entertaining.

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This episode dives into the power of communication for stronger relationships. Coal and Lindsey explore positive reinforcement, highlighting the importance of appreciating the little things your partner does. They also discuss the pitfalls of negative reinforcement, emphasizing the need to address issues constructively and find solutions together. Don't forget to tune in for their personal stories and actionable tips!

Key Points:

Call to Action: Take the challenge! This week, actively appreciate your partner and address one potential issue constructively.

Your partner's deconstructing their faith, and you love them – now what? We discuss navigating belief shifts with compassion and the dangers of turning any belief system (or lack thereof) into a weapon. Learn how to find common ground, focus on your connection, and create a space for respectful differences.

We also discuss recent updates from Girl Defined, whose co-founder is currently speaking up about her husband's deconstruction.

This episode of Love Beyond Belief dives into the world-famous "5 Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman. Your hosts, Coal and Lindsey explore the theory, its impact on relationships, and some interesting debates surrounding it.

The Love Language Revolution:

We introduce Dr. Chapman's theory, categorizing how we express and receive love: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch.

From Personal Struggles to Bestseller:

We delve into Dr. Chapman's personal story, highlighting his own marital struggles and the "aha moment" that sparked the creation of the "5 Love Languages."

Love it or hate it, The 5 Love Languages is something you will bump into in your life. It can be helpful, a good starting point for this type of thinking. We talk about pros and cons, criticisms, and even take the quiz ourselves!

Content Warning: This episode briefly mentions sexual assault.

Today on the show, Lindsey and Coal are talking about the conservative dating scene in America.

Values & Boundaries: The Real Dealbreakers

Let's shift the focus to the foundation of any healthy relationship: shared values and strong personal boundaries. These, Christian or secular, are the real dealbreakers for a successful connection.

Courtship vs. Open Exploration

The episode dives into the traditional Christian approach of courtship, with marriage as the singular goal. Coal and Lindsey explore its history and compare it to the open-ended exploration of secular dating. They even discuss the potential drawbacks of rigid courtship methods, referencing Josh Harris's controversial book "I Kissed Dating Goodbye."

Beyond the Label:

Focusing solely on faith compatibility might overlook crucial aspects of a healthy relationship. Instead, let's emphasize recognizing red flags, building on shared values, and finding a partner who truly complements you.

This TTYP episode dives into a powerful experience many couples face – navigating your relationship when you deconstruct your Christian faith. Coal and Lindsey are here to guide you through redefining your purpose together.

We open by acknowledging the potential for nihilism after leaving a faith-based framework. Many were told their purpose was preordained, a path towards an afterlife filled with rewards. Let's discuss how this shift can be disorienting, emphasizing the importance of finding purpose in your relationship here and now.

Moving Forward, Hand in Hand:

Love Beyond Belief is here to support you! This episode provides some practical tools and resources:

This episode of Love Beyond Belief tackles a topic close to many hearts: cohabitation and its intersection with Christian faith. Coal and Lindsey share their own perspectives and stories growing up in Christian households, navigating the church's traditional views on living together outside of marriage.

The episode explores the research on happiness and cohabitation. While some studies suggest cohabiting couples may be less happy than married couples, others show similar levels of satisfaction. We will discuss the factors that can contribute to a successful cohabitation experience, like clear communication, shared values, and established boundaries.

We hope you enjoy this episode!

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