This episode of Love Beyond Belief challenges the idea that online dating apps hold the key to relationship success. Coal and Lindsey dive deep into the mechanics of Tinder, the most popular dating app in the world, and expose the disconnect between crafting the perfect profile and building a lasting connection.

The Algorithm's Allure, But Not the Answer:

They unveil how Tinder, like a slot machine, keeps users engaged with a low barrier to entry (swiping) and a dopamine rush of notifications. However, these mechanics prioritize matches over meaningful connections. The episode explores Tinder's own recommendations: ideal bio length, interests to highlight, and number of photos. But Coal and Lindsey argue these are just metrics, not recipes for lasting love.

Together, lets explore:

Matching Fatigue: Swiping becomes a chore, with many matches never leading to communication.

Shallow Connections: Quick judgments on profiles lead to a need for constant profile refreshes.

Focus on Quantity over Quality: Matches might be plentiful, but genuine connections are rare.

Misleading Success Metric: Dating apps prioritize "matches" over fostering real relationships.

Frustration for Serious Daters: The system can discourage those seeking true connections.

This month's episode of TTYP (Talk To Your Partner) dives into the essential art of the check-in. In our busy lives, it's easy to let communication fall by the wayside, leaving us feeling disconnected from our partners. But taking the time to regularly check-in can have a profound impact on your relationship, fostering deeper connection, understanding, and intimacy.

Premarital counseling might look like a faith-dominated field... It sure seemed that way when we were looking! The question is, can premarital counseling (church or no church) be worth it? We break down why it's a smart relationship investment. Learn how to spot potential issues, improve communication, and build a stronger foundation for marriage. We discuss:

Topics: premarital counseling, marriage preparation, relationship advice, couple's therapy, healthy communication, conflict resolution, divorce prevention, deconstruction

In this episode of Love Beyond Belief, Coal and Lindsey tackle a tough topic: the rising tide of loneliness in America. From isolation to disconnection, we delve into the statistics and explore the reasons why so many people are feeling alone, even in a hyper-connected world.

But fear not, chickens! We aren't here to paint a bleak picture. As always, we share some practical tips and tricks to help you combat loneliness and forge meaningful connections in your life. Whether you're feeling shy, overwhelmed, or simply lost in the shuffle, this episode will offer hope and guidance.

Tune in to learn:

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Join Lindsey and Coal, a young couple redefining marriage on their own terms, as they delve into the joys and challenges of a non-religious partnership. In this debut episode, they'll share their unique love story, from college crushes to building a life together.

Expect candid conversations about navigating religious deconstruction, embracing egalitarian values, and keeping communication open. They'll share their secrets to a thriving marriage – from intentional “talk time” to understanding that nobody's perfect.

Tune in to hear their challenges, triumphs, and everything in between as they invite you to join their growing community of non-religious couples living life (and loving it) on their own terms.

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