Love Beyond Limits

In this episode, we explore how to smoothly transition from social events to romantic connections. How do you find events that are filled with people looking for the same thing you are? What’s the secret to picking up on body language cues that scream “I’m interested!”? Is there a right way to ask for contact details without being awkward?

If you’re curious about how to turn a casual chat into a romantic connection, this episode is for you. Let’s dive into the art of making that transition seamlessly and see how to ask for a date like a pro. Tune in to learn the ins and outs of sparking a romantic connection!

• How to pick the perfect events to meet potential partners who are looking for the same dynamic as you.
• Setting the right intention for the night - do this wrong and you may repel potential partners!
• The right questions to ask to discover if the person you're interested in is open to dating - and what their relationship style is.
• Should you ask for someone's contact details? The body language cues that tell you your potential partner is just as keen as you to connect further.
• When is it the right time to ask for someone's contact details?
• How to ask for a date the right way.

1. Go out to have a good time and meet some cool people. We all hope to find the right partner at these events, but coming on too strong can make people put their guard up and turn them off from getting to know you.
2. Shifting from socializing to dating is more of an art than a science. It's not about having the perfect lines or timing your number request just right. It's about showing real interest in the person you're talking to and building an authentic connection.
3. Be upfront about your intentions when you ask someone out. You might see it as a date, but they could see it as just a friendly meetup.

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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of solo polyamory. Curious about what solo poly actually means and how it differs from being single? We’re breaking it down and sharing what it takes to become solo poly.

Desire shares her experience with solo polyamory and whether it’s everything it’s cracked up to be. We'll chat about why people choose this path and how to handle the loneliness that can sometimes creep in.

Thinking solo poly might be for you? Tune in to learn the number one sign it’s not, and what you can do if you find yourself in that boat. Don't miss out on this deep dive into the nuances of solo polyamory!

• What is solo poly?
• How do you become solo poly?
• Solo poly VS single poly: what's the difference?
• Desire's experience with solo poly: is it all it's cracked up to be?
• Why people choose to practice solo poly?
• The loneliness of solo poly - and how to deal with it.
• Are solo poly people treated fairly by their partners' metamours?
• Being jealous of your partner VS being jealous of a nesting dynamic: what's the difference?
• The number one sign solo poly is not for you - and what to do about it.

• Solo poly individuals prioritize themselves as their main partner and enjoy dating multiple people without the intention of settling down. Being single poly means identifying as polyamorous, even if you're not currently in any romantic relationships.
• Going solo poly gives you a ton of freedom, but it can get lonely. Once the thrill wears off, you might miss having someone to cuddle with every night or share holidays like Christmas.
• Solo poly can happen by choice or by chance. You may genuinely not want to ever settle down with anyone or you may simply not have found the right partner to share your life with yet.

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In this episode, we're diving into the Tribe experiment, exploring why it’s way more than just a sex party—it's a full-on community. Wondering what Tribe is all about and how to get in on their exclusive socials and parties? We've got the lowdown on the crowd, the venues, and, of course, the dress code.

Thinking about joining Tribe? We’ll discuss who it’s for, and you’ll hear Purity’s take on why she’s steering clear, while Desire explains why Tribe is her top pick for sex communities in London right now.

Tune in to get the final verdict on whether Tribe is worth joining. You won't want to miss this one!

• What is Tribe?
• How do you get access to Tribe socials and parties?
• What's the crowd like?
• Where are the socials and parties hosted?
• What do you wear at the Tribe socials and parties?
• Themed parties: how to rock the dress code without breaking the bank.
• Food and drinks: what to expect at the socials and parties?
• Fun games to spice up the night.
• What happens at the Tribe parties?
• Who should join Tribe?
• Purity's experience: why you won't be seeing her at Tribe anytime soon.
• Desire's experience: why Tribe is currently her fave sex community in London.
• The final verdict: is Tribe worth joining?

• The Tribe community is attractive, friendly, and mischievous. If you're easily offended, you won't vibe well with this crowd.
• Tribe parties have cool themes, like Rockstars & Groupies and Welcome To The Jungle. Make an effort to follow the dress code. It makes the night more fun for everyone!
• Guests are strongly encouraged to do a STD test before attending a party. As soon as you arrive, you'll get a wristband. Its colour indicates how recent your last negative test was. It gives everyone peace of mind and encourages shame-free discussions about sexual health.

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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of doms and how to tell the real ones from the fakes. Desire shares her wild experiences and why it’s super important for submissives to find the right match, even if someone seems super attractive at first.

We’ll talk about what makes a dom legit and explore the little differences in how they start the kink conversation. Ever wondered why consent is such a big deal in BDSM, or how to spot when it’s being respected? We’ve got some eye-opening insights.

Curious about what real doms do when planning a scene or providing aftercare? Or how to handle things when they don’t go as planned? Tune in to learn how to find a genuine dom and make sure your experiences are awesome. This episode is packed with tips to help you navigate the kink world with confidence.

• Desire's experience with fake doms.
• What is a fake dom?
• Why submissive should avoid fake doms - even when they really fancy them
• Sign #1: Fake doms tries to dominate you from your first interaction.
• Fake doms VS real doms: how to start the kink conversation.
• Sign #2: Assuming submissive = consent.
• Fake doms VS real doms: how to plan BDSM scenes.
• Sign #3: Fake doms are only interested in his pleasure, not the sub's pleasure.
• Sign #4: Fake doms don't provide aftercare.
• Sign #5: Fake doms get angry when the sub disappoints or doesn't want to obey unconditionally.
• Fake doms VS real doms: How they react when a sub stops the play.

3 VALUE BOMBS

1. Don't assume submissives are down to play with anyone. A sub gets to choose her dom and what she submits to. Always have a conversation about desires and boundaries before play.
2. Being a real dom is about having control. If a dom loses it when a sub doesn’t want to do something or calls it quits, they’re not truly dominant.
3. The difference between a fake and an inexperienced dom? An inexperienced dom is eager to learn and please their subs. A fake dom couldn’t care less about their subs and just wants to get what they want.

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In this episode, we’re tackling a big one: dealing with jealousy in polyamorous relationships. Ever thought you knew what jealousy is? Think again! We’ll break down why we feel it and why it's not always what it seems.

Wondering if all ENM folks feel that warm, fuzzy compersion? Spoiler: not always. And yes, poly people experience jealousy too. The usual monogamous tricks for handling jealousy? They don’t cut it here. We’ll show you what actually works.

Learn the healthy way to manage jealousy without putting the brakes on your partner’s freedom. Should you tell your partner when you’re feeling those jealous pangs? We’ll guide you through that tricky conversation and what to do if your partner brushes off your feelings.

Tune in for real talk and solid advice on keeping jealousy from messing with your poly vibes.

• Jealousy: what it is (hint: it's not what you think!) and why we feel it.
• What is compersion - and do all ENM people feel it?
• Do poly people experience jealousy?
• Why the traditional, monogamous way of handling jealousy doesn't work - and what to do instead.
• The healthy way of handling jealousy, so you can get your needs met without restricting your partner's freedom.
• Should you tell your partner when you're experiencing jealousy?
• How to have the jealousy conversation with your partner.
• What to do when your partner ignores your jealousy feelings.

1. Jealousy is the fear of losing someone or something you love. It's just a messenger that highlights your insecurities, so you can heal them.
2. Feeling jealous? Before bringing it up with your partner, figure out what’s making you feel insecure and then ask them to help you work through it.
3. If your partner is gaslighting you or brushing off your jealous feelings, that’s a big red flag. A good partner won’t let you control their freedom, but they’ll make sure you feel emotionally supported.

In this episode, we delve into the sometimes murky waters of dating and kink, exploring stories like Purity’s and Desire’s, where romantic dates unexpectedly turned into encounters with fetishists looking for free thrills. Discover the lengths some go to promise kinks without commitment and learn to spot the red flags that signal someone’s true intentions. We’ll share practical tips to safeguard yourself against hookup and kink hunters, ensuring your dating experiences align with what you truly seek. Join us as we navigate the complexities of intimacy and desire in today’s dating landscape.

• Purity's tale: Getting played by a fetishist for free kinks
• Desire's journey: Romantic dates that turned into random hookups
• The crazy extents people go to for free kinks - only giving empty promises
• Red flags your date just wants hookups and kinks - even if they say they want a relationship
• Top tips to guard yourself against hookup and kink hunters

1. When what they say and what they do don't match up, it's a huge red flag. If they're always making promises but never delivering, they're likely stringing you along for their own benefit.
2. New to the scene? Be careful. If you’re just starting out and don’t have much experience, you’re more likely to get taken advantage of. Connect with people who’ve been around longer—they can give you tips and tell you who to watch out for.
3. Trust your gut. If it feels like you're putting in all the effort and your partner isn’t meeting your needs, don’t make excuses for them. Just walk away.

Talking about your kinks with your partner can feel daunting, but it doesn't have to be. Have you ever wondered why so many kinksters hide their desires from their partners? The reasons might surprise you. We'll explore the best time to bring up your kink and share a no-pressure approach to kick-start the conversation.

What if your partner doesn’t even want to talk about it? We’ll cover strategies to navigate this tricky situation. And if they’re not open to exploring your kinks, don’t worry—breaking up or suppressing your desires aren't the only options.

Plus, we’ll uncover the real reasons your partner might feel hurt by your revelations and how to prevent that from happening. Tune in for tips and insights on making these conversations smoother and more comfortable.

• Why kinksters hide their kinks from their partners - it's not always what you think.
• When's the best time to have the kink conversation with your partner?
• The no-pressure way to initiate the kink conversation with your partner.
• What to do when your partner doesn't even want to have the kink conversation.
• What to do when your partner isn't open to exploring your kinks (hint: breaking up and suppressing your kinks aren't the only options).
• The real reason your partner may be hurt by your revelations - and what to do to prevent it.

1. Don't just drop the kink talk out of nowhere. Pick a quiet time and place where you won't be interrupted, and give them a heads-up first.
2. If your kink is pretty wild or you're unsure how your partner will react, start off easy with a general chat. You could say something like, 'So, I came across this article on water sports. What do you think about that?'
3. Opened up about your kink to your partner after years together and got a terrible reaction? t's not the kink that bothers them—they just feel like they've been living with a stranger. The earlier you share your kinks, the better.

Curious about the London Foot Party, the ultimate event for foot fetishists? We'll dive into what this unique gathering is all about and where it's hosted. Wondering about the crowd? We'll give you a glimpse of who you can expect to meet.

Is membership required to attend? We’ll discuss that too. And what’s the vetting process like for women? How do dress codes differ for men and women? We’ll cover all of that.

Pay-to-play might sound sleazy, but it's far from it. Want to know what happens during a paid session and how much it costs? We've got the details. Plus, we’ll introduce you to the organizers behind the London Foot Party.

Who is this event really for? Stay tuned as we unravel the mysteries and give you the inside scoop on this fascinating event.

• What is London Foot Party?
• Where is the party hosted?
• What's the crowd like?
• Do you need a membership to attend the party?
• What's the vetting process for women like?
• Men Vs women: what's the dress code?
• Pay to play: what you need to know before you engage with a girl - and why it's not as sleazy as you think.
• What happens during a paid session - and how much is it?
• What are the organisers of London Foot Party like?
• Who is London Foot Party for?

• London Foot Party is a pay to play event. They make sure the women participating are really into the play, so everyone involved can have an awesome and genuine time. It's all about creating a great atmosphere where people can truly enjoy themselves.
• London Foot Party is the top foot party for anyone with a foot fetish. The cool atmosphere and real crowd make it a perfect place to indulge in all your foot fantasies.
• At London Foot Parties, there's always a theme. The women have to follow a fun dress code, but men can rock whatever they're comfortable in.

BDSM marks: show them off or hide them in the summer? Many subs cherish these marks despite the pain because they’re symbols of intense and intimate experiences.

But summer poses a unique challenge. You might not want to sport those marks with all the skin-baring outfits and trips to the beach. How do you ask your dom to avoid leaving marks during this season? We’ll give you some pointers on how to make that request.

If you do end up with marks, we’ve got the best techniques to conceal them. We’ll also dive into whether BDSM marks are viewed differently on men versus women and what that means for your summer wardrobe choices. And, of course, we'll cover what to do when those marks make an unexpected appearance, despite your best efforts to keep them hidden.

Tune in for all the tips and insights you need to navigate BDSM marks in the sunny season.

• What are BDSM marks?
• Why subs love getting marks from BDSM play - despite the pain.
• Why doms love marking their subs during BDSM play.
• A few reasons you may not want to get any BDSM marks in the summer - and how to make the request to your dom.
• Best techniques to conceal BDSM marks in the summer.
• Are BDSM marks perceived differently on men and women?
• What to do when your BDSM marks accidentally show up, despite all your best efforts to conceal them.

• BDSM marks can be cherished as pleasant reminders of intense, beautiful moments shared with your dom or sub. They symbolize the trust, connection, and mutual enjoyment experienced during your play sessions, making them much more than just physical marks on the skin.
• If you're planning a beach holiday, don't hesitate to ask your Dom to go easy on you, ensuring you can enjoy your trip without visible bruises. Alternatively, schedule your play sessions with enough time for marks to heal before you hit the beach or board your flight.
• Long-lasting foundations are your best friend for covering severe bruising, even when you're in the water. Just make sure to apply them correctly for maximum coverage and durability, ensuring your marks stay hidden while you enjoy your summer activities.

Can you find true love on kinky apps? Let's dive into Desire's journey to find out. She joined We Are X two years ago, but a sexy date made her decide to leave them for good. We’ll discuss how to tweak your dating profile to attract better matches and reveal the two words you should never use if you’re looking for a serious relationship.

Kinky apps market themselves differently to men and women, affecting your chances of finding the right match. We'll explore whether these apps can hurt a woman's self-esteem and if Desire was naive to search for love on them. Who are these apps really for, and who should avoid them?

Desire has a new strategy to find a polyamorous primary partner. Join us as we explore the world of kinky apps and the search for true love.

• Why Desire joined kinky apps We Are X (then Killing Kittens) two years ago.
• The sexy date that made Desire decide to leave We Are X (and other kinky apps) for good.
• The evolution of a dating profile: how to tweak what you're looking for to attract better matches.
• The two words you should NEVER use in a dating profile if you're looking for a serious relationship.
• How kinky apps market themselves differently to men and women - and how that affects your chances of finding the right match for you.
• Do kinky apps hurt a woman's self-esteem?
• Was Desire naive to look for love on kinky apps like We Are X?
• Who are these kinky apps for?
• Who should avoid kinky apps - even when they're looking for a kinky partner.
• Desire's new strategy to find a polyamorous primary partner.

1. Matched with a promising partner online? Always ask them what attracted them to your profile. You'll immediately know if they've read what you're looking for or just trying their luck.
2. Kinky apps are great for people who are too busy to date and just want to find play partners or friends with benefits. If you're looking for love, you may end up with your hopes (and self-esteem) crushed.
3. Using dating apps feels like a fast track to finding a date. You can easily get a match for the night, but you'll end up meeting a ton of people who just waste your time. This can make you lose faith in love. But don't stress, the perfect person is out there, and you might bump into them when you least expect it.

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