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Ever thought about reconnecting with a past poly or kinky partner? It can be tricky. Can you really pick up where you left off? We'll dive into that question and share some real-life stories of reconnecting that didn't quite go as planned—and why they failed. But it’s not all doom and gloom. We’ve got a feel-good tale of a couple who rekindled their spark after months apart and what made it work.

Before you reach out to an old flame, there’s one crucial thing you need to consider. We’ll tell you exactly what that is. Plus, we’ll give you the perfect message to send to reconnect with an old partner and increase your chances of getting a positive response.

Timing is everything, so we’ll discuss when it's right to suggest meeting up in person. And there's one topic you should totally avoid in your messages—unless they bring it up first. Ready to navigate the dos and don’ts of rekindling old connections? Let’s get into it!

• Can you ever pick up an old connection where you left off?
• Some real-life stories of reconnecting gone wrong - and why they failed.
• A feel-good tale of a couple rekindling their spark after months apart - what made it work.
• The most important thing to think about before reaching out to an old flame.
• The exact message to send to reconnect with an old kinky and poly partner - and get a positive response.
• When’s the right time to suggest meeting up in person?
• The one topic you should totally avoid in your messages - unless they bring it up first.

1. Before you send that first message, get clear on your intention. Are you just looking to hook up again, or do you actually miss them and want another shot?
2. Skip talking about what you want at the start. In your first text, just check in with them and see how things are going.
3. Hold off on the sexting. Just because you’ve been intimate before doesn’t mean they’re ready to go there again.

In the world of BDSM and kink, the lines between personal pleasure and partnership fidelity can sometimes blur. Today, we're diving deep into a topic that stirs up plenty of controversy: Is playing with a professional Dom considered cheating? Purity opens up about her encounters with married subs who navigate the delicate balance of satisfying their kinks while remaining faithful to their partners.

So, what exactly constitutes cheating? As everyone has their own set of relationship rules, identifying what crosses the line can be complex. We'll explore how to determine if you're cheating, based on varying definitions and relationship dynamics.

Moreover, can someone engage with a Dom or play partner without catching feelings? It's a common fear among married or partnered individuals stepping into play or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships. We'll discuss the emotional risks and how to manage them.

But not all strategies for fulfilling your desires are created equal. We'll look at some approaches that might seem good on paper but fail in practice, especially when your significant other isn't into the same things. Is constantly seeking new, one-time play partners a healthy way to manage your needs? Or does it lead to its own set of problems?

Wrapping up, we'll guide you through the right way to satisfy your kinks when your partner isn’t on board, ensuring respect and consent are never compromised. Join us as we unpack these thorny issues, aiming to shed light on a path that keeps relationships intact while honoring personal desires.

• Purity shares her story of being approached by married subs looking to satisfy their kinks without cheating on their wives.
• What is cheating?
• How to know if you're cheating when everyone has different rules.
• Is it possible to play with a Dom or play partner without developing feelings for them?
• Why married/partnered people are scared of developing feelings for play or ENM partners - and how to deal with it.
• Bad strategies for satisfying your kinks when your partner isn't into the same things as you.
• Is always looking for new, one-time play partners healthy?
• The right way to satisfy your kinks when you're partner isn't on board.

• Everyone has a different definition of cheating. Discuss boundaries with your partner before engaging with new people. And if you ever feel like you're cheating, you probably are.
• Developing feelings for other people, including play partners, is natural. It's part of being human. Expect it to happen, but don't make it mean anything about this new relationships. You can have feelings for someone new without it hurting your marriage or primary relationship.
• Your kinks are never going away. The sooner you open up to your partner, the sooner you can create a fully satisfying relationship for everyone involved.

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Setting up a dating profile that stands out in the poly and kinky communities?

Now, while looks are important, they're not the be-all and end-all. There’s something else that significantly influences swipe rates. And speaking of swiping, let’s talk about those subtle red flags in pictures that might be sending potential matches left instead of right.

When it comes to your bio, there are some common pitfalls that could be stopping you from getting matches. Don't worry, though, we'll also share three key things you can add to your bio to draw in a high-quality partner, even if you’re struggling with what to say.

Finally, we’ll help you perfect the "What I'm looking for" section to ensure you attract exactly the right kind of partner for your adventures. Ready to revamp your profile? Let’s get into the nitty-gritty of creating a dating profile that's truly irresistible.

• How to pick the right pictures for your dating profile.
• How many pictures should you have on your dating profile?
• Do looks matter? (Hint, not as much as this one thing)
• Red flags in pictures - the subtle signs that make your potential match swipe left.
• Is filtering your pictures cheating (and the right way to do it)?
• Should you include sexy pictures in your dating profile?
• Is it ok to include pictures of other people in your dating profile?
• The number one picture hack to get more matches swipe right.
• The most common mistake people make in their bio that stops them from getting matches
• 3 things to write in your bio to attract a high quality partner - even if you don't know what to say
• How to fill in the "What I'm looking for" section, so you can attract partners that are the right match for you

1. Be honest. Don't be afraid to share your dealbreakers and what you're looking for in a relationship. You'll save yourself time (and money, if you're paying for the date) and only match with people who are the best fit for you.
2. Grooming is more important than looks. Who wants to go on a date with someone who looks like he couldn't be bothered to take a shower when taking his profile picture?
3. When writing your bio, ask yourself: what do I want people to know about me? Add a curious fun fact to pique interest.

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Thinking about hitting up the Fox Den Skulk social? Let's dive into whether it's your next must-go event. How does the venue itself play into this? We'll dive into whether it's just a cool setting or if it really helps you connect.

What's the dress code? From casual to extravagant, we’ll tell you how to match the mood. Who's going to be there? Expect a mix of seasoned community members and curious newcomers, all ready to mingle. And if you get peckish, we’ll cover what kind of food and drink you can snag without missing a beat.

No need for a membership to join the fun, so is it worth checking out their themed parties? We’ll wrap up with a quick verdict on whether the Fox Den Skulk social should be your next night out. Tune in to find out if this is your scene!

• What is the Fox Den?
• The venue - does it help or hinder networking?
• What do you wear at the Fox Den social?
• The crowd - who can you expect to meet?
• Food and drink - what you can get at the venue
• Do you need a membership to attend the Fox Den Skulk social?
• What kind of parties does Fox Den host - and are they right for you?
• Fox Den Skulk: who is it for?
• The final verdict: is it worth going to the Fox Den Skulk social?

1. Fox Den is a favourite for newcomers to the poly and kinky scene, thanks to its friendly and inclusive vibe. You'll meet a lot of newbies who are as eager to mingle and make connections.
2. You don't need a membership to attend a Fox Den Skulk, but you do need one to attend their play parties. The vetting process involves a call with the founder, Foxy, to make sure you're the right fit for the community.
3. Fox Den hosts luxurious and cozy dinner parties, big glamorous balls, educational workshops, and informational pub social - no matter what you're into, there's something for everyone.

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Diving right into the digital world of dating, especially on kinky apps, can feel like navigating a minefield. Let's talk about that crucial first message—because yes, it can make or break your chances. Desire has seen it all, from cringe-worthy openers that had her hitting the block buttons faster than you can say "swipe left" to messages that piqued her interest immediately.

What do men think women want, and what do they actually want? There's often a big gap there, not to mention the mess caused by fake femdoms that hurts everyone's game.

Approaching someone on these apps? It’s crucial to get the tone right. Going full dom on a submissive before even meeting? Big no-no. We'll break down the right way to craft that first message—one that sparks excitement and curiosity instead of the urge to swipe left. Plus, we’ll give you examples of what works to get that eager reply. Ready to turn your dating app experience around? Let’s dive in.

• Examples of intro messages Desire received that made her block or report the guy on kinky apps (don't do this!).
• What men think women on kinky apps want.
• What women on kinky apps really want.
• The rise of the fake femdoms phenomenon (and why it hurts everyone on kinky apps).
• How to approach submissive women VS how to approach submissive men - why what works with men backfires with women.
• If you're approaching a submissive on a kinky app, is it ok to dom them before even meeting them in person?
• The secret to writing a first message that makes your kinky interest excited to engage with you (80% of people DON'T do this!).
• Examples of intro messages that get replies.

• When writing that first message, imagine the person is in front of you. What would you say to him/her?
• Sending very sexual messages as an introduction is the same as barging into someone's living room without being invited: it's a boundary violation.
• Let the conversation naturally evolve towards sex and kink. If you feel you're pushing it, you probably are - and it won't end well.

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So, Purity hit up Amsterdam's Red Light District, and let me tell you, it was a trip. Ever wonder if a solo gal can actually hire a prostitute there? Purity's got the scoop, plus some wild stories about giving unsolicited business tips to pimps and getting mistaken for one of the local working girls. It's all in a day's (or night's) adventure when you're exploring solo in Amsterdam's most buzzing neighborhood.

But wait, there's more. Purity didn't stop there; she checked out the Prostitution Museum and let's just say, there were some eye-openers. However, the Sex Museum? Kind of a letdown for her. And because it's Amsterdam, there were also some left-field observations about everything from pubic hair trends to why crepes are ridiculously expensive. Purity's take on Amsterdam? It's wild, weird, and totally worth the wander.

• What Purity did in the red district.
• Is it possible for a single woman to hire a prostitute in the red district?
• Giving business advice to pimps, being mistaken for a working girl, and other shenanigans that happen to women walking alone in the red district.
• Visiting the Prostitution Museum in Amsterdam: what are the highlights?
• Why the Sex Museum disappointed Purity.
• Pubic hair, expensive crepes, and other random thoughts about Amsterdam.

1. It's safe for a woman to walk alone in the red district. But if you're wearing makeup and look polished, you may be mistaken for a working girl.
2. If you're a woman looking to hire a prostitute for 1:1 play, expect to be charged extra. Very few working girls offer this service, so it comes at a premium.
3. The highlight of the Prostitution Museum? The Confessions Section, where people disclose (anonymously!) their biggest kinks and most secret fantasies.

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Is it time to open up about being poly or exploring kink? Let's dive into Desire's story. After spending six years in a monogamous relationship, she decided it was time to embrace and open up about being poly. If you're sitting on a similar fence, this episode's for you. We're unpacking those moments that whisper, "Hey, it's time," and how to lean into those conversations with your nearest and dearest.

Navigating these waters can be tricky, right? How do you even begin that chat, and what if the response isn't what you hoped for? We've got you covered with some friendly advice on getting the ball rolling in a positive way and handling the mix of reactions that might come your way. Plus, we're talking about setting up those all-important boundaries so that moving forward, everyone's clear on what this means for you. It's all about building a foundation of respect and understanding as you step into your truth.

• Desire shares her decision to open up her 6 years monogamous relationship.
• When you realise you're poly or kinky, should you tell your friends and family straight away?
• The subtle sign that tells you it's time to be open about being poly or having a kink
• Why Desire decided to come out as poly to her friends and family very early on in her journey
• The hidden benefits of coming out as poly you may not be aware of (that make coming out so worth it!)
• Practical tips on how to come out to your friends and family
• How to start the coming out conversation on the right foot
• How to deal with people's judgements and opinions, especially when they don't agree with your lifestyle choices
• How to set boundaries and expectations for the future, so the people in your life know how to treat you going forward

1. Give the people you love credit. While your disclosure might catch them off guard, they're likely to appreciate your trust in sharing this part of yourself and will mainly wish for your happiness.
2. Be open to all kinds of questions (people are curious!), but don't feel pressured into changing your mind. You're asking for support, not permission.
3. Don't be afraid to set boundaries. Most people don't know how to deal with this revelation, so state what you expect and ask for the support you need to take your relationships to the next level.

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Diving into the kinky scene? It's a whole world of excitement and exploration, but it comes with a price tag. What does it really cost to get your kink on? We're going beyond the entry fees of those high-end, glitzy events to uncover the real deal about splurging versus saving in this lifestyle.

Ever wonder if those luxe kinky parties are worth it, or what sneaky expenses might catch you off guard? We're getting into the nitty-gritty of what men and women are shelling out in this scene - spoiler: it's not always what you'd expect.

And for the professionals among us, like dommes hosting sessions at places like Bossy Paw, there's a whole other layer of costs. Plus, we've got the inside scoop on snagging the best deals for that perfect kinky outfit, including where to find those Honey Birdette lookalikes without emptying your wallet.

Wrapping it up, we'll share some savvy tips for living that luxe kinky life on a budget. What's really worth your hard-earned cash, and where can you cut corners? Stick with us as we dive into the dollars and sense of living it up, kinky-style.

• Introduction to the kinky scene: what is it and what to expect
• The most common expense you'll encounter in the kinky scene
• Are expensive, luxury kinky events worth the price tag?
• The hidden costs of living a kinky lifestyle
• What men spend money on VS what women spend money on: who spends more for a kinky lifestyle?
• The hidden expenses professional dommes face when charging for sessions at kinky events, like Bossy Paw
• Best places to shop for kinky outfits - including where to find affordable dupes for luxurious Honey Birdette lingerie
• Our top tips on how to live a luxury lifestyle on a budget
• What's worth splurging on and what to save on when living a kinky lifestyle

• Both men and women spend a similar amount of money to embrace a kinky lifestyle. They just invest their money in different things.
• Keep in mind the hidden expenses that come with attending an event, including travel, outfit... You're paying for a lot more than the ticket price.
• When you're new to the scene, try attending as many events as you can to discover what you really enjoy. Once you've found your scene, then it's time to invest in the right attire, gadgets, and everything else for the full experience.

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Are you getting mixed results on the Feeld app and wondering if you should give their socials a go?

In this episode, Desire and Purity delve into the intriguing world of Feeld, exploring the difference between its in-person events and the online dating app. Is the crowd the same?

From discussing the allure of the venue to detailing the nuances of bar service, they leave no stone unturned. Wondering what attire is appropriate for a Feeld social? They've got you covered.

Plus, they address common queries such as membership requirements and offer handy tips for initiating conversations with strangers, especially for those feeling a tad shy. And of course, they share whether they found any romantic connections at these events and ultimately deliver their final verdict on whether attending Feeld socials is worth it.

• What is the Feeld online dating app?
• What is the Feeld social?
• Feeld app VS Feel social: is the crowd the same?
• Why Desire is off the Feeld app, but she still loves to go to the socials.
• The venue - a beautiful space with a couple of drawbacks.
• The bar: how long does it take to get a drink?
• What do you wear at the Feeld social?
• Do you need a membership to attend the Feeld social?
• The easy way to start conversations with strangers at the Feeld social if you're feeling shy.
• Did we get any partners out of the Feeld social?
• Feeld social: who is it for?
• The final verdict: is it worth going to the Feeld social?

1. It's common for Feeld events to oversell tickets beyond venue capacity. Arrive early to take advantage of the free drinks and avoid queuing outside for a chance to get in.
2. Be open to conversations about polyamory and kink. Feeld caters to people who are curious to explore a different kind of relationship - and sex.
3. The atmosphere at the social event differs from that of the app. If you've ever felt uneasy about aggressive approaches online, you'll find our in-person crowd super respectful and friendly!

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Desire had high hopes for her date with the man she met online. Their virtual connection sizzled with anticipation, promising an evening filled with excitement and potential fireworks. But as the night unfolded, what started as a promising encounter quickly took a turn for the uncomfortable.

In this episode, we're diving deep into Desire's date disaster. We'll chat about how men and women see online connections differently. See, while men might think it's all smooth sailing from the dating app to an in-person date, ladies are more cautious. They're all about feeling safe and comfortable and taking things slowly.

We'll also talk about the importance of respecting boundaries. Sometimes, even the nicest gestures can come off all wrong, leaving the other person feeling weird and uncomfortable. Plus, we'll touch on the whole mixed signals thing. When a woman's feeling scared or uneasy, she might send out some mixed vibes as a defense mechanism.

So, if you're keen to hear about the highs and lows of modern dating, buckle up. We're diving into the wild world of online connections, decoding mixed signals, and figuring out how to keep things chill on a date.

• Desire shares how she met her date and the sensual connection they developed online - will it lead to fireworks in person?
• How women think of a sizzling online connection VS how men think about it - and how this key difference leads to mixed expectations on a first date.
• Is it ever a good idea to break your dating rules before a date?
• How a nice gesture can create a bad first impression that's almost impossible to recover from - and how to avoid making this mistake.
• How to get out of something you don't want to do on a date in a polite and safe way.
• How a woman behaves when the freeze fear response is triggered on a date - and the mixed signals it sends to her date.
• The secret reason a woman kisses a man she never wants to see again on a first date - and how to tell if the kiss was real or not.
• What to do when your date keeps violating your boundaries: honest mistake or gigantic red flag?
• What Desire's date could have done differently to create an excited evening that would have gotten her eager to play.

1. We've all been there - the online convo's popping, you're thinking you've found your soulmate, and then bam! You meet up, and it's like, "Wait, where did all the vibes go?" Yeah, it happens. Here's the deal: no matter how awesome the online connection feels, meeting in person is a whole new game. So, take it easy, keep it chill, and remember, it's basically a first-time encounter.
2. Sex happens in a safe and fun environment . If you're meeting a new lady, hold off on ordering that drink until she arrives. Even the sweetest gestures can feel off if you're jumping the gun on those essential safety precautions.
3. If a woman refuses a drink, puts her coat between you, or asks to slow down, it's a clear sign she's not comfortable. Ignoring these boundaries means there's no turning back.

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