In this episode of Thinking Out Loud, Cameron and Nathan dive deep into the theological roots of Western love, exposing how today’s culture has redefined love using borrowed Christian language—without the God who gives it meaning. Drawing from philosophers like Simon May and theologians such as N.T. Wright, we challenge the four foundational assumptions about love in today’s world: that it is unconditional, disinterested, all-affirming, and enduring. These ideas, often taken for granted, echo divine attributes that humans simply can't sustain. As we attempt to live them out without God, we end up playing God ourselves—a move that leads not to freedom, but confusion and relational breakdown.Whether it’s the phrase “love is love” or the cultural obsession with affirmation, this discussion unpacks how our post-Christian society has built a fragile theology of love on sand—and what Scripture says we should build instead. This is a must-listen for any Christian thinker, pastor, or layperson wrestling with the cultural narratives of identity, romance, and meaning.

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📚 Referenced Authors & Ideas:

Simon May – Love: A New Understanding of an Ancient Emotion

N.T. Wright

Charles Taylor