Love is not dead Just my husband! Widow Your Way with Rebecca Johnson

I have a long list of things I want to do and places to go. I make some of the same excuses as most people. I need more money or time off work. But that has not been what has really stopped me. 

It's years of being told to keep dreaming and feeling like it's always out of reach. I am so done with making excuses of why I can’t go here and there or do this and that! I am finding ways to make my dreams of traveling come true!

What are you waiting for? What is that one thing you want to do? That place you want to go more than anything? Something you have always dreamed of and thought was impossible. What is one little step you can take to get there? Whatever you do…. Don’t give up on that dream.   

As always, Widow Your Way!

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Do you ever feel trapped? Stuck in survival mode trying to figure out how to claw your way out? What does it take for you to escape a life of grief and sadness?

We all have our breaking points but it's what we choose to do after that defines us. We have to find the courage and break free! There is a whole new life out there waiting on his. We just have to be brave enough to go get it!

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Welcome to season 2 of Love is not dead, Just my husband! 

We are all forced to deal with unpleasantries in our life but we  can't let these tragedies define us! There comes a time when we have to deal with our shit! We have to take responsibility for our own actions. Meaning, we have to decide how we want to respond to the tragedies we are dealt. 

Will you choose to break down or a breakthrough? I don’t know about you, but for me it’s time for a reckoning. 

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Do you ever feel you were just meant for something else? Meant to be somewhere else? Like the life you are living was not meant for you! 

I’ve been feeling that way for a while now and have been trying to figure out what I need to do or what I even want. But how?  I have procrastinated, settled and made so many excuses that I have found my life becoming stagnant. Same thing day in and day out. Nothing different. Nothing exciting. Nothing changing. Everything the same. 

It's time to stop making excuses and make some changes! 

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Talking about death is difficult but funerals do tend to spark the conversation, but usually on a superficial level. It's not until you lose someone very close, having to plan a funeral and deal with the aftermath does it make you contemplate your own death. 

Death should not have us thinking about our dying. Death should have us thinking about living. How do you want to live the rest of your life? 

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We have all been pushed out of the nest in our lives. By our parents or unexpected circumstances in life. When death pushes us we tend to build a new nest for ourselves. A nest of grief, cozy enough for one. We can become comfortable there. With all your fears and resistance, you have to leave this nest. But how? Trust yourself. Listen to your intuition. Open your eyes. Open your heart and jump! It’s time to fly! 

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People ask me all the time how I came up with the podcast name Love is not dead, Just my husband. I have a slightly dark sense of humor and it was really me just joking around. I thought this podcast was going to be about me sharing funny stories of dating as a widow. Turns out I have a whole lot more to say. 

I used to think my journey was about being a widow, but it’s not. My journey is about love.  But not in the way that people think. I honestly don’t think I really know what love is anymore. What it means, how it feels, what does it look like?  Will I ever find love again? You have to keep listening to find out!

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I don’t normally share my experiences with psychics, mediums or tarot readings because everyone believes something different. I’m also not some hard core fanatic but I do enjoy it. I don't take messages from beyond too seriously but I do find comfort in having a reminder that Tom is still with me. We should probably know that our loved ones would want us to be happy, but sometimes we just want to hear it. And there is one little thing that has been mentioned so often that I can't help believe that some messages are real. You have to listen to know what it is! 

If you are interested, below are two Tarot Readers that I enjoy on YouTube that you may want to check out for free or contact for your own private reading.
Tarot Time with Dana and Lightworker Tarot & Oracle

Find and Follow Jackie (Psychic) on Instagram: @Sacred.Feminine.Rise
She also offers personal coaching, workshops, and retreats. 

If you are interested in the physic, send me a DM and I can share her information. 

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Want to know a dirty little secret? Some widows are actually happier after the loss of their spouse! I am one of those widows! 

I am a widow that is actually living happier after. And it's not that I'm happy that my husband died but where I am in my life, I am happier than expected and that is something that is hard for me to share with other people.

Sometimes there are circumstances in a marriage that some people just don't understand. In my case I found a sense of adventure that I didn't have in my marriage! But there are many other circumstances that would make this a true statement as well. No one should feel judged for moving forward and living a life that is best for them. What's the point of living if you are not going to live?

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Do you ever want to give a big F***K You to your spouse for dying? Do you ever feel guilty for saying bad things about your dead spouse? 

I hate that being a widow is so romanticized and I fell into that trap by idolizing my husband because you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I don't want to disrespect my husband in any way  but this is my story! And the only way for me to widow my own way is to acknowledge the anger I have towards Tom for dying and for the things that happened just before. This wasn't even something I thought I would ever talk about but the time seems right now. 

If I don't make peace with this it is going to be much harder to find a new happily ever ever. Because after all, love is not dead, just my husband.  

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