Submissives often experience difficulty navigating their own desires. We naturally tend to want to serve our dominant partners first before meeting our own needs. There are many reasons people are attracted to submission. Understanding your desires and how to navigate them is a key part to creating your version of submission.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/03/15/should-submissives-express-their-needs/

Are you afraid to try something that intrigues you? Is your fear holding you back in a relationship? Here are some tips to conquer your fears and explore what you desire.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/06/21/scared-tips-to-conquer-fears/

Do you or a partner have body image concerns/issues? Are you looking for ways to grow you body confidence and self-love? Here are three great body-affirming exercises to do with an intimate partner!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/08/16/an-introduction-to-body-affirming-kink-play/

If you are new(ish) to kink and BDSM it can be both thrilling and overwhelming! Looking for some solid tips on how to start exploring this new-found world? Looking for resources and insider how-to's? This post is for you!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/08/02/7-tips-when-you-are-new-to-kink/

Protocols- rues and rituals formalized in a power exchange relationship- can lend security, structure, and sexiness to a relationship. Most often, the Dominant designs protocols for the submissive. Here are ways to flip the script and create protocols for Dominants.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/05/30/flip-it-and-reverse-it-protocols-for-dominants/

Adding marijuana to your pre-sex life can have very positive benefits. Here is how to keep your kink play safe, sane, and consensual while high!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/07/22/combining-weed-and-kink-read-this/

Aftercare, the things you do right after a kinky play session to reground you and your partner(s), is often mentioned as important. It is not frequently explained in a way which allows you to find the aftercare plan right for you. This post takes you through finding and planning for your own aftercare needs.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/07/16/how-do-you-create-an-aftercare-plan/

You have probably seen people wearing a collar to represent something in BDSM. Here, guest poster Spices of Lust, explains what the significance of a collar is and why it is so important to BDSM.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/06/19/why-collars-are-important-to-bdsm/

Great sex rarely "just happens." Great sex requires some planning. It may sound counterintuitive, especially if you watch too many rom-coms, but sex needs some pregaming. Here are some tips on how to have better sex with a plan.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/08/27/sexier-sex-plan-for-it/

Tips on how to stay safe and sexy during the pandemic

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/04/10/how-to-swing-safely-during-the-covid-19-pandemic/