Not all pain is the same. Some pain hurts to signal danger. Other times it hurts as part of healing. Sometimes it just hurts so good!

Learn about the different types of pain and how to use them in kinky fun.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/09/14/pain-the-good-the-bad-the-fun/

Looking for ideas beyond maid/hotel guest, professor/student tropes for role play? Auntie Vice offers ten modern takes on role play!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/04/13/10-new-role-play-ideas/

As BDSM and kink has become more mainstream narratives about the "submissive as a vessel for a Dominant's will" and "submission as a gift" have become predominate in the pop culture representations of our relationships. How real are these narratives? What does a healthy power exchange relationship look like? This post seeks to answer your questions!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/04/28/what-is-a-submissives-responsibility/

Some folks use the pain of a BDSM play scene to escape from their minds or bodies. Others embrace it as a way to become more present. This post explores how to become present during a pain filled BDSM scene.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/10/05/pain-and-presence/

Auntie Vice explores the process to becoming a sex writer.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/09/embracing-sex-writing/

Sex life in a bit of a rut? Bored? Looking for ways to spice it up a bit? Here are some tips and tools for creating a personal way to up the hottness in the bedroom.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/04/10/need-a-little-sexy-inspiration-try-this/

Peter Minkoff guest posts with very practical tips for anal sex

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/12/10/10-things-every-bottom-should-know/

Looking for information on how to tie up a cock and balls? Jett Oxy guest writes a great introduction!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/12/28/introduction-to-cock-and-ball-bondage/

Embracing the spirit of Valentine's Day, here are tips on adding strange, new, or just outright weird sex to your life!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/22/national-weird-sex-day/

Whether you are new to kink or an established player, there are some core things every kinky person should try once in a lifetime. None of these are sex things--- these are all about community, learning, connecting, and exploring your kinky self! Here are 10 things every kinky person should try in a lifetime.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/14/10-things-every-kinky-person-should-try/