Practicing ethical nonmonogamy takes work and learning. Even if you are monogamous, the skills that make ethical nonmonogamy work are great for helping monogamous folks as well. Here are the major things can take away from nonmonogamy.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/12/03/what-monogamous-folks-can-learn-from-non-monogamy/

Are you looking to find that perfect sex toy for yourself? Here are tips on finding just the right one!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/05/13/sex-toy-buying-guide/

At some point in our lives, we will probably be in a relationship where we get cheated on. You hope the person you are dating will not cheat, but you can never be sure this won't happen. Here are tips on how to set up your relationship to survive a cheating incident and maintain your authentic self.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/05/25/do-this-before-a-partner-cheats/

Ever wonder what a kinky girl keeps in her bedside table? What are the true go-to items? This post reveals what I keep at my fingertips for sexy time!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/05/29/what-do-kinky-girls-keep-in-their-bedside-table/

Mantras, short repeated sayings which help you center and focus, can deepen your BDSM practices. This post explores how mantras are created, used, and what they can do to improve your kink practices.

his episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/03/why-mantras-are-important-to-bdsm/

Pride has been co-opted by companies trying to make a buck off the queer community. Pride is about our rights to exist and live out and proud! Here are 14 ideas which will embrace the true spirit of pride.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/08/14-ideas-to-embrace-the-true-spirit-of-pride/

Are you committing to your hot girl/guy/human summer? Want to host an orgy? Here are 7 tips on how to host a safe, sane and consensual group sex event from someone who has.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/23/7-tips-for-hosting-an-orgy/

Some people use the language of BDSM and kink to hide their abusive behaviors. People seeking relationships which will allow them control and the ability to hit others are drawn to kink dating sites but they do not intend to engage in consensual kink. Unfortunately Fetlife is inundated with these folks. Here are 7 tips to help you screen out the chafe.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/30/7-tips-to-help-you-screen-for-abusers-on-kink-sites/

Looking for an erotic story featuring nonbinary folks? Sci-fi take on gender changes and hot actions!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/04/14/new-boobs-short-erotic-story/