Many kink and BDSM educators will mention needing a kinky first aid kit. However, most do not provide you with a list of what you actually need! here is a practical list to creating your BDSM first aid kit complete with downloadable shopping list!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/30/essential-safety-gear-for-kinky-play/

Twenty percent of Americans desire to have a threesome. Approaching your first threesome can be intimidating, a bit scary, and definitely titillating. While there is no perfect formula which will guarantee a great outcome, there are some basic tips which will make it a better experience.

This post offers people practical tips on setting up threesome, how to approach your partners, and what you should ask prior to getting into the sack.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/29/so-you-want-to-try-a-threesome/

Kink and BDSM are more than sex, it is a unique subculture with unique values and practices. People who regularly engage in kink and BDSM speak openly about desires and needs, about power relationships and expectations of partners in a way not reflected in the predominant culture. This post discusses five ways BDSM can improve anyone's life, regardless of desired sexuality.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/02/20/5-ways-bdsm-will-improve-your-life/

Do you feel awkward sending sexts? Don't know how to ask a partner to sext? New and don't have the right vocabulary for sexrting?

Auntie Vice comes to the rescue with these Six Sexting Tips!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/04/23/six-sexting-tips/

It is common to hear "submission is a gift." The premise is that the submissive holds all the power until they agree to cede some to a dominant. At any time the submissive may withdraw power.

This concept is often presented as a way to help people not familiar with kink to feel better about trying kink. However, submission is much more complex and more nuanced that the concept of "submission as a gift." Explore how submission and control interplay in many kink relationships.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/05/04/submission-and-control/

Ever want to try fisting? Scared? Not sure how? Afraid of hurting your partner? I've got you covered!  Here are the basics for anal or vaginal fisting!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/06/24/fisting-101/

As public spaces reopen, the kink world is starting to get back to in-person events! This is great. But... you may not realize how much you have changed in the past year. Get ready to re-enter the in-person world of kink with these 7 tips.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/16/7-tips-for-navigating-the-post-covid-kink-world/

LGBTQ+ Pride has been enveloped by corporate sponsors and a focus on a few parties of young, able-bodied, wealthy queers. This has nothing to do with the origin of Pride or what it means to be a queer person living an out and proud life. This post offers ways to get back to the roots of pride: rebellion, bucking oppression, and making the world safer for all queer folks.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/06/13/pride-be-queer-fuck-the-patriarchy/

Physical accessibility is only part of the accessibility picture. Making your spaces and events fully accessible means that people with various disabilities need to feel welcome in your space. Here are six tips on making your space more accessible to all people!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/12/6-tips-on-making-your-kink-venue-event-emotionally-socially-accessible-part-2/

Looking for ways to make your play space, munch, or conference more accessible to folks? Not sure where to begin? Worried about the expense, level of skill it will take, or just have questions? Here is a great place to start!

Part II will cover making spaces socially and emotionally acceptable.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/08/9-tips-to-make-your-kink-venue-more-accessible-part-1/