You don't need fancy and expensive toys to have a good time with kinky sex. Many common toys already exist in your own kitchen (or office, or living room). This post includes dozens of tips on how to turn your everyday items into fun tools for great BDSM scenes!

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/02/07/turn-your-kitchen-into-kink-central/

#kink #BDSM #sextoys #pervertibles #sextips 

The probability you will have a long term relationship with someone who has identical sexual interests as you do is very slim. What can you do if your partner(s) just aren't into the same stuff you are? Here are some tips and tools for managing dissimilar sexual interests.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/04/16/when-d-in-bdsm-stands-for-dissimilar/

#sexuality #sex #relationships #BDSM #relationshiptips #kink #sextips

Guest poster Peter Minkoff offers tips on the five best sex toys to explore if you are queer.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/07/30/5-best-sex-toys-to-rock-your-queer-world/

#kink #bdsm #sextoys #adulttoys #lgbtq

Gender is evolving. Western cultures no longer believe it is just binary (male/female). As the gender nonconforming and nonbinary identities expand, people have questions about what that means. Auntie Vice explores the meaning of nonbinary in this episode.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/09/08/the-future-of-gender/

#gender #nonbinary #gendernonconforming #lgbtq

Guest post by Peter Minkoff

Our bodies evolve and change. Standards of beauty and sexuality are not set to embrace older bodies. Guest writer Peter Minkoff explores how we change and how we can embrace our sexuality at all ages.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/09/18/how-your-body-and-sex-appeal-change-as-you-age/

#aging #beauty #sexuality #kink #bdsm

Erotic power was first discussed by Audre Lorde who claimed the erotic was a key source of power for women. As women have become a more prominent force in American politics, the power of the erotic has been shunned by some women and embraced by others. This entry explores how it is used and who uses erotic power.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/10/31/election-2020-and-erotic-power/

#power #elections #womeninpolitics #eroticpower

Find out full information about the 30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery class here! This included the syllabus, an overview of they course, and how I broke down topics.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/12/03/new-year-better-kinkier-you/

Anticipatory service is a special kind of service submissives may develop. It is a way to care for a dominant without having to wait for specific tasks to be assigned. Learn about what anticipatory service is and how you can develop it.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/10/15/anticipatory-service/

There are so many reasons we might not feel sexy or aroused. Stress in its myriad of forms, hormone changes, illness, and having family around all the time can contribute to a lack of sex drive. Here are a few ways to figure out what is keeping you from your erotic side and how to reconnect.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/11/17/having-a-hard-time-feeling-sexy-you-are-not-alone/

Have you developed vaginal dryness? It can happen as part of menopause, perimenopause, with other hormone changes, as a reaction to medication and many other reasons. Here is what they don't talk about at your gynecologist and on those pamphlets you get.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/12/01/vaginal-dryness-its-more-than-just-add-lube/