Marshal Gillen, an award-winning speaker, speaker trainer, and men’s coach opens up about the wreckage and rebirth that followed his last breakup—140 days since his life fell apart, but who’s counting? He and Hector discuss the struggles men face in toxic relationships, the mind games of narcissistic abuse, and the brutal realization that maybe self-worth was never really there to begin with. This is for the guy who feels like he’s losing himself, the one searching for answers, and the one ready to take his power back. No fluff, no filters—just the raw truth about healing, masculinity, and starting over.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 – Where It All Begins
• 00:01:56 – A Familiar Face, A Different Man
• 00:02:21 – The Armor We Wear, The Weight We Carry
• 00:04:18 – Love, Need, or Trap?
• 00:04:59 – The Invisible Chains We Call Love
• 00:06:21 – The Mirror That Love Holds Up
• 00:08:21 – When a Boy’s Tears Dry Too Soon
• 00:11:33 – The Wounds We Deny, The Patterns We Repeat
• 00:21:18 – Dancing in Circles with a Ghost
• 00:25:11 – The First Domino to Fall
• 00:27:24 – The Unbreakable Knot of Pain and Love
• 00:30:49 – When the Past Knocks, Will You Open the Door?
• 00:35:32 – Who Are You Without the Pain?
• 00:39:22 – Four Steps, A Lifetime of Change
• 00:40:22 – The Purpose Waiting on the Other Side
• 00:43:41 – Brotherhood, Sanctuary, and the Art of Being Seen
• 00:47:33 – Faith, Strength, and the Masculine Soul

Links and Resources:

• Marshal on LinkedIn
• Marshal on Instagram
• All of Marshal’s Links and Resources for N.A.R.C. Support
• Sacred Kingdom Church
• Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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