Love, Life, Legacy: A Show About Sex

What would you give up for the love of your life? Would you give up your bad habits? Would you even give up your cell phone???? Well, we discuss matters of the heart and mind with our great guest Seijin.

:30 Introduction to Seijin Tranberg

3:50 Seijin’s background 

9:30 How did Seijin prepare for his marriage/Blessing?

14: 40 How did Seijin realize he was in a negative space with his sexuality?

20:00 What drove Seijin to start consuming pornography?

23;00 How did Seijin feel when using pornography?

28:45 How did Seijin begin overcoming pornography through his relationship with his father?

45:00 How did Seijin continue reaching out to others?

48:00 What tricks does Seijin use for overcoming his bad habits?

When people show up for their marriage, it's somewhat akin to taking a big test. There are those who show up after having paid attention in class, doing their homework and studying for the test who arrive on their big day feeling prepared and excited.

Conversely, there are others who try to simply 'wing it' and go on 'faith' without much preparation at all. They are typically the ones who are most nervous about committing to another person because they simply don't know what's going to happen, as they are coming in with many blind spots.

Sammy Uyama discusses how to prepare well for your big day so you can stand before your spouse when the time is right with clarity and confidence that your future is going to be amazing!!

When people show up for their marriage, it’s somewhat akin to taking a big test. There are those who show up after having paid attention in class, doing their homework and studying for the test who arrive on their big day feeling prepared and excited.

Conversely, there are others who try to simply ‘wing it’ and go on ‘faith’ without much preparation at all. They are typically the ones who are most nervous about committing to another person because they simply don’t know what’s going to happen, as they are coming in with many blind spots.

Sammy Uyama discusses how to prepare well for your big day so you can stand before your spouse when the time is right with clarity and confidence that your future is going to be amazing!!

Covenant Eyes has helped thousands of men and women of all ages quit pornography through their patented accountability software. Sam Black was led to be a part of the Covenant Eyes team many years ago, and in this episode we discuss both his evolution and that of CE.

How will Covenant Eyes keep up with the advancements of porn through AI and VR? How big is the staff of Covenant Eyes for them to serve over 200,000 customers? What drives their organization to continue working so hard after all these years?

Find out answers to these questions and so many more!

Andrew introduces Sam Black [0:40]

Why does Sam think of High Noon as a hospital? [3:13]

How do we be the causal effect in hindering sex/trafficking? [4:40]

What is "Covenant Eyes Online"? [5:45]

Are men alone in the struggle? [7:30]

What ways does Sam's program offer screen accountability? [8:20]

How did the program get developed? [11:00]

What goes into making Covenant Eyes a valuable service? [12:10]

What is the amazing story behind Covenant Eyes? [14:00]

What is the main mission of Covenant Eyes? [18:00]

Who are the main users of the service? [22:10]

What is the correlation between porn and faith? [25:40]

What does shame do to the soul and your ideals? [27:30]

What standards are High Noon advocating? [33:00]

What other things do Covenant Eyes than offer other than an online service? [35:00]

What are some tough situations faith-leaders are facing? [37:20]

How did Sam get involved in working with Covenant Eyes? [42:40]

A great testament to God working in favour of Covenant Eyes' expansion. [45:30]

Which direction are Covenant Eyes heading towards? [47:00]

What's a way to solve the need for connection? [48:30]

Where does Sam find hope? [50:50]

Sam's encouragement for you as a listener. [53:00]

Covenant Eyes has helped thousands of men and women of all ages quit pornography through their patented accountability software. Sam Black was led to be a part of the Covenant Eyes team many years ago, and in this episode we discuss both his evolution and that of CE. 

How will Covenant Eyes keep up with the advancements of porn through AI and VR? How big is the staff of Covenant Eyes for them to serve over 200,000 customers? What drives their organization to continue working so hard after all these years? 

Find out answers to these questions and so many more!

Andrew introduces Sam Black [0:40]

Why does Sam think of High Noon as a hospital? [3:13]

How do we be the causal effect in hindering sex/trafficking? [4:40]

What is ”Covenant Eyes Online”? [5:45]

Are men alone in the struggle? [7:30]

What ways does Sam’s program offer screen accountability? [8:20]

How did the program get developed? [11:00]

What goes into making Covenant Eyes a valuable service? [12:10]

What is the amazing story behind Covenant Eyes? [14:00]

What is the main mission of Covenant Eyes? [18:00]

Who are the main users of the service? [22:10]

What is the correlation between porn and faith? [25:40]

What does shame do to the soul and your ideals? [27:30]

What standards are High Noon advocating? [33:00]

What other things do Covenant Eyes than offer other than an online service? [35:00]

What are some tough situations faith-leaders are facing? [37:20]

How did Sam get involved in working with Covenant Eyes? [42:40]

A great testament to God working in favour of Covenant Eyes’ expansion. [45:30]

Which direction are Covenant Eyes heading towards? [47:00]

What’s a way to solve the need for connection? [48:30]

Where does Sam find hope? [50:50]

Sam’s encouragement for you as a listener. [53:00]

In this episode, Sammy and Andrew discuss sexual integrity; what is it (and isn't), the purpose of sexuality, and practical tips on how to create a proper sexual mindset.

What this show covers:

• What is the definition of sexual integrity? [1:50]
• What lies beyond the reputation of just being "The porn guys"? [3:10]
• What are some misconceptions of sexual integrity? [5:20]
• Sammy's story of the early phase of overcoming his porn habit [8:10]
• How does Andrew recommend diverting the negative energy? [9:00]
• How does Andrew refer to what sexual integrity is? [10:40]
• What would you rather be doing? [13:20]
• Why does Sammy choose not to look at porn based on his ideals? [15:00]
• Is reserving and giving your all to the one person possible? [18:10]
• Why does your sexuality exist? [22:00]
• When does sex lead to a deficit in the relationship? [25:40]
• Where is the magic? [28:20]
• What do humans have that sets us apart from the animals? [29:50]
• How can one change a destructive sexual perspective and habit effectively? [31:50]
• Some great questions can you ask yourself about sexuality? [34:00]
• Feel like taking on a challenge? [37:15]

In this episode, Sammy and Andrew discuss sexual integrity; what is it (and isn't), the purpose of sexuality, and practical tips on how to create a proper sexual mindset. 

What this show covers:

• What is the definition of sexual integrity? [1:50]
• What lies beyond the reputation of just being ”The porn guys”? [3:10]
• What are some misconceptions of sexual integrity? [5:20]
• Sammy’s story of the early phase of overcoming his porn habit [8:10]
• How does Andrew recommend diverting the negative energy? [9:00]
• How does Andrew refer to what sexual integrity is? [10:40]
• What would you rather be doing? [13:20]
• Why does Sammy choose not to look at porn based on his ideals? [15:00]
• Is reserving and giving your all to the one person possible? [18:10]
• Why does your sexuality exist? [22:00]
• When does sex lead to a deficit in the relationship? [25:40]
• Where is the magic? [28:20]
• What do humans have that sets us apart from the animals? [29:50]
• How can one change a destructive sexual perspective and habit effectively? [31:50]
• Some great questions can you ask yourself about sexuality? [34:00]
• Feel like taking on a challenge? [37:15]

Sammy and Andrew wrap up the final episode of the Strategy Series with the importance of an accountability partner.

• The great tactic of accountability partners. [3:30]
• How do you bring in another person as an accountability partner? [4:40]
• A sad story of a good friend who didn't have accountability [8:30]
• What does keeping stuff to yourself lead to? [9:50]
• What benefits exist by involving someone in our pursuit of quitting? [11:00]
• What traits does a good accountability person have? [13:50]
• How does acknowledgement for good deeds help? [15:00]
• Why does defining your expectations to the accountability person matter? [17:00]
• Why does just initiating a conversation open a great possibility for change? [20:00]
• If you are seeking transformation why not sign up through highnoon.org? {22:00]

Sammy and Andrew wrap up the final episode of the Strategy Series with the importance of an accountability partner.

• The great tactic of accountability partners. [3:30]
• How do you bring in another person as an accountability partner? [4:40]
• A sad story of a good friend who didn’t have accountability [8:30]
• What does keeping stuff to yourself lead to? [9:50]
• What benefits exist by involving someone in our pursuit of quitting? [11:00]
• What traits does a good accountability person have? [13:50]
• How does acknowledgement for good deeds help? [15:00]
• Why does defining your expectations to the accountability person matter? [17:00]
• Why does just initiating a conversation open a great possibility for change? [20:00]
• If you are seeking transformation why not sign up through highnoon.org? {22:00]

In the third episode of this Strategy Series, Andrew and Sammy talk about the importance of real connections and how High Noon is about more than just recovering from addiction.. Discussion points include the power of connections both good and bad and how to tell the difference, the ways different people make connections, and how to connect to yourself, others and God.