Love on the Air - Podcast of The Whole Parent

In our conversation, Eva and I cover a lot of ground about sex and relationships. And here were my immediate takeaways that will be fleshed out in the full podcast. This is a fraction of what we cover:

Sexual awareness and liberation begin with yourself. Your own experience of sex. What turns you on. How you please yourself. How confident and comfortable you are with your own sexual body. I had to give a hearty yes to this one. And it dovetails nicely into Eva's path to progress in her work.

Desire: If you understand your desire and what you want (both in a partner, in a sexual experience, and in life) you can take clear and intentional actions toward that goal. Your desire is your guide and your fuel. Your path is always towards what you want. Tuning into your desire is step one.

Body: Your body is where the magic happens. This is where ecstasy happens, and this is where trauma or dysfunction can also be trapped. By connecting with and having conscious conversations with your own body you can begin to unlock more energy to fuel your journey. Shut down parts of our body are where we store shame, trauma, sexual fears, inhibition.

Voice: By connecting with your desire and your body you can give rise to a more powerful and directed voice. Your authenticity comes through when you are connected to your body and your ambitious desire. You must give voice to your goals and needs. Even in leadership outside the bedroom, a person who is well-grounded in self-love and awareness has a stronger stance to lead the rest of the world from.

In the board room and in the bedroom, desire is the fire that gets things done. The more you can connect and harness your desires and aspirations, the more power and passion you will have to light the way forward to creating your best life.

You can find Eva Blake's information on her Facebook page Liberating Desire: Sex, Love, Relationships

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John McElhenney - Relationship-Building Coach

That’s what life is all about. Time. Who you give it to. How you spend it. What you do with your life defines how your life will be. 

Then everything we are thinking, from moment to moment, form our experience of life. If we are living in regret of things that didn’t go as we planned, to losses, or broken promises, we’re missing this present moment. (There are places and time for processing regrets, but you must get over them, and let go of the ongoing pain of regret.) If we are living in fear of the coming storm we are missing this beautiful moment of now. Many great thinkers have spoken of this “present moment” awareness with much greater clarity and insight than I can, but I am going to add my moments of enlightenment to this conversation.

Love on the Air 2021 - our first post-pandemic shutdown episode. Let's talk about the WE container and how considering your partner first, as a reflexive and healthy way of including them in your WE is a skill that will help you grow in your relationship and in your own self-care routines.

Episode 10: 

The end of a relationship is a double-edged sword.

• Cutting Edge One: I'm free to seek and love someone new. My horizon is boundless and unlimited.

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Always Love,

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Michael Daniels talks about how he built FAYR - the Co-parenting app to solve many of the issues facing divorced parents. If you can agree on one thing, the kids welfare comes first, then any tool to help parents negotiate and navigate the complex partnership after divorce is a welcomed advance. FAYR could be that tool that sets parents more at ease after divorce. 

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Always Love,

John McElhenney – life coach austin texas

Richard and Tina have shared a wonderful love story of hope, faith, and continuous turning towards each other. In times of stress, they know their love becomes stronger, a source of inspiration and safety.

This family lives an intentional life together. The parents are modeling healthy love and healthy relationships for their two children. We all learn when we are around conscious and intentional people. When we see them win we know we are all winning by being part of their lives.

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Always Love,

John McElhenney – life coach austin texas

As I am alone, my dialogue is very self-centered. I can be prayerful, thankful, and meditative. I can sit in my own peace and my own power and be content with my life. I am alone.

And as I am alone my story begins picking up new facets, new opportunities, new fascinations that I am unable to share with my partner. I might have a nightly check-in, or a tuck-in text while I am away on my trip, but the time allowed does not provide the opportunity to share my growing momentum, my good or challenging events, my path begins diverging and heading off into the mountains alone, like a speeding train whistling in the freezing winter night. I am the only one who hears my whistle. At this same time my partner has got her own train, rocketing into the valley below, also picking up momentum and shining her beaming light in new directions. We are traveling in different directions. Our souls, while “in each other all the time” are also gaining distance and momentum while apart.

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Richard is here to tell us the man's side of the romantic love story we were introduced to by his wife, Tina Schweiger, in episode ONE and TWO. I wanted to sit down with Richard and explore how his life was impacted by his initial encounter with Tina. We're going to learn a bit more about Richard's journey from a painful divorce, through "four or so years of dating," to the moment he met Tina.

In this part 1 of Richard's story we talk about healing from past relationships, about recovering from codependency, and into his journey of recovery and self-discovery. 

"Taking a year to really work on me, and be happy with me..." As Richard rebuilt a house in the Zilker area of Austin, Texas, he was aware of how the house was a metaphor of his self-recovery process. "I worked on the entryway of me. And then I had to work on the inside. I need to open up space, and make space for somebody."

He talks about his purpose in raising two healthy kids, and staying intentionally present in his relationship to Tina. 

Here are the books we discuss in this episode of Love on the Air

• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts - Gary Chapman

to become the beloved

to find your beloved you must become a white-hot lover

become a deep listener

the more we listen to our beloved

become the beloved

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Mark Greene is an author, speaker, a father and Senior Editor at The Good Men Project. 

He is the founder of Remaking Manhood, a Facebook community promoting a wider ranging conversation about masculinity.  He is the co-founder of ThinkPlayPartners, a collaborative space for his work with his creative partner, Dr. Saliha Bava.

Mark's current books are The Little #MeToo Book for Men and Remaking Manhood. Mark is co-author, along with Dr. Saliha Bava, of The Relational Book for Parenting.

Come listen to an interesting conversation about masculinity, about relationships, about relationship capacity and emotional growth. Our conversation follows Mark from his experience as a man in a failing marriage, through his self-awareness process, and finally his homecoming in a long-term healthy relationship. We're going to talk about a lot of things, but at the heart is how we find and co-create a relationship with a partner. 

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